What's a good place to go solo on Friday night to meet women (non-bar)

[squirrels]

I'm getting tired of the local college bars and just don't know if I feel up to the club scene...what other social things are there to do on Friday night? Especially when I'm flying solo?

 

[ApocalypseCow]

Originally posted by squirrels
I'm getting tired of the local college bars and just don't know if I feel up to the club scene...what other social things are there to do on Friday night? Especially when I'm flying solo?

Book stores. The mall.

Honestly, you're better off saving your energy for a Saturday or Sunday afternoon.

 

[killerasp]

Friday isnt a single mans day.

People are usually out with their friends, hanging out, doing whatever. You dont really see people go out by themseleves. Just go out on saturday or sunday while running your daily routine and try to meet women that way.

 

[Unbridled_1]

I'm trying so hard to resist

 

[Unbridled_1]

...

I can't help myself

 

[matius]

...Unbridled_1- ROTFLMAO...Thanks, I needed that...

 

[davelmn2003]

I'm interested in finding out non-bar and non-club places to meet girls too. Let's say you see a cute girl in a bookstore (or bookstore) checking out books or things, how would you approach her??

 

[matius]

Hi. What's your name?

What are you reading?

Oh. You're into that huh?

You look like you should be reading this though...

--> I say, unless you can think of a creative approach based on the time and place, use Hi. What's your name? Could it be easier?

Try the mall, or anywhere you're at. I mean, if they ain't at barz on Friday night in a college town they're either studying, sleeping or away for the weekend. Get out during the week and on Sunday.

 

[davelmn2003]

do girls like to be approached by strangers who say hi? I'm such a shy guy, but having just screwed up a potential relationship, I feel like I actually have the guts to do something bolder... If after 3 or 4 sentences--when she's only answering the questions you put to her--and she doesn't ask you question or take the initiative, should you keep on talking?

 

[Unbridled_1]

dave,

You have never have to aplogize/ ask permission, etc.. for being a man (and therefore approaching), after all as men we must be the one's to approach. Just be respectful. It shouldn't be hard to figure out whether she's enjoying the convo or would rather be somewhere else (one word answers, looking around, doesn't ask you anything....). And if by chance you keep talking when she's not interested, no big deal, she's free to excuse herself at anytime.

 

[Umbra]

You might want to try the library if you're alone. The girls there are probably miserable about being there on Friday night and will talk to you for some relief. It's also good for your own studies. Pubs are cool, if they have pool tables to practice on, so you don't look like you have absolutely no purpose being there other than picking up women. It's best to have a wingman if you're going out at night, even an AFC that you can move away from and return to once in a while, just for the social proof.

 

[Starman]

heh ...

squirells gonna get sh1t for that for a looong time..

I too have been trying to curb my alcohol consumption..Ive been working out everyday..and don't want to ruin my streak

I always hook up at ****tail parties..because you arent there to get sloshed..and everyone is pretty easy going and chatty..

I used to goto hotels ..dressed up..and crash parties..hang in the lobby..there are always party's going on there..and LOTS of single women

 

[matius]

I used to goto hotels ..dressed up..and crash parties..hang in the lobby..there are always party's going on there..and LOTS of single women

Super Cool ++

 

[Umbra]

Hotel bars. Good tip, matius. Never thought of that one.

 

[Starman]

You guys ever watch the Saint, Wargames, Hackers, Ferris Beulers Day off, Talented Mr. Ripley, catch me if you can?

These movies kind of inspired me to do things I normally would not do.

How easily it is to trick others into being someone you're not. You wouldnt believe the sh1t you can get away with if you put your mind to it.

When you go to hotels, you meet people , either tell them you are friends of -look on guest registry for a few names..and memorize them..then name drop but dont give too much detail

or tell women you just flew in for a convention, so you have a reason to be alone at the hotel.

It helps if you have friends that work at the hotel who can tip you off.

 

[matius]

Umbra, don't want to take Starmans credit on that one...I was just giving a word up to his tip.

 

[Unbridled_1]

bump

 

[Nannu]

yes yes....you must crash parties. Crash them.

 

[gr8one]

Sigh....

that's why flying solo sucks sometimes...you have no idea where to go....lol

 

[Nicholas Hill]

It's all about one simple thing:

FIND A SITUATION WHERE A GIRL WANTS TO TALK TO SOMEONE.

A one liner by Nick