What You Want

[Mr. Fingers]

Remember when you first found this place? If you are anything like me, you were probably so overwhelmed with the wealth of information, that you spent hours a day absorbing as much info as humanly possible in order to turn your life around.

I remember thinking that if I memorized enough tactics, I’d be an invincible chick magnet, fending them off left and right!

Well, it didn’t exactly work out that way, but a solid 18 months of many failures and successes later ,and I am finally at a point where I am doing the picking and choosing. A pretty damn good feeling if ya ask me!

But with each advance in life, arises new challenges.

I’ve noticed lately that my standards for women have increased dramatically and there are certain things that I require of a lady.

I encourage yall to do exactly as I do and outline what your goals are. Specifically, the type of woman/relationship you are looking for.

Cuz knowing exactly what you want brings you one step closer to attaining it.

(To all you Don Juanitas, feel free to chime in here as well!)

It can be anything from meaningless sex to a committed relationship. No one will judge you here! And if they do, I will be sure to personally b!tch-slap them for ya.

So let me get the ball rolling here.

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What I Want

An open relationship with a woman who

- Can make me laugh out loud till my sides hurt
- Is witty, creative and maybe even a little esoteric
- Pushes and inspires me to new heights
- Is ambitious and believes in living her dreams (has her own life)
- Appreciates art, poetry or music
- Is adventurous and loves to travel
- Can compete with me physically (Running, biking, Dancing)
- Is totally in touch with her sensuality/naughtiness
- Enjoys learning new things
- Has a nice, round ass
- Full lips (hate those paper-thin kisses…ugh!)

Honestly, the looks are not even that important to me if she meets the above requirements. As long as she takes care of herself, is not anorexically skinny or hideously obese and has a decent face, she is fair game!

I recently met such a young lady. I have dated hotter-looking girls than her, but I find her to be much sexier than any girl I have met in the past few years. She made me realize what I really wanted in a woman.

Of course I had a vague idea in my head all along, but meeting her and actually writing this down has made things a lot clearer for me,

Not sure where we will end up, since right now the focus is on myself and my dreams for the future, (plus I am done with LTRs for a while). But we are both playing it by ear, and thoroughly enjoying each others company.

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So now it’s your turn. Post up your answers to these 2 questions.

(1) What is it that you are looking for in a woman (women)?

(2) Where are you in relation to this goal?

I hope you find this little exercise as helpful as I did.

FINGZ

 

[Travis T.]

She must be breathing.
She must be able to swin (no gimp/retards).
She needs to have at least some sort of income.
If she should not drool in public.
She should not be a Transy (big turnoff).

Besides that anything is ok with me.

 

[jbbrain]

I like your list fingers.

Good luck finding "many" women who will make you laugh so hard it hurts. I've known only a few. Girls just aren't that funny. It's too bad, but I've learned to deal with it.

 

[Man2000]

I want a LTR:

1. Pretty face

2. Thin or some thickness, but at least have an hourglass if they are thick. It's the big belly's I don't like.

3. Considerate and giving-A girl I new, was going out with my friend. For no reason, she gave me a gift that was thoughtful. I almost fell in love with her, but, you know, the boyfriend was my friend. They broke up, and if I run into her now, I'm asking her out.

4. Sexual girl, but not raunchy in public. Only in private.

5. Treats me with respect.

6. Faithful. Isn't a cheater.

7. Won't judge me.

8. Much younger than me. I'm in my 30's.

The progress of this goal:

I've actually met a girl like this. The problem is, I don't have feelings for her. We went out on one date, and she seems to be very, very into me. I will ask her out again, but, I don't want to lead her on, if I can't feel anything. But, she really does fit all my requirements. I just don't know if she is a cheater. I don't think she is.

I find myself thinking of her, and how great of a girl she is. That I have found what I want.

The truth is, I've got feelings for another girl. That's what's messing this up for me.

My friends tell me to forget the Low interest girl, and start a relationship with the girl who is really into me.

I'm stuggling with this. I don't want to hurt the girl that likes me, and I'm having trouble forgeting the low interest girl.

 

[Man2000]

Update on the progress of my Goal of finding a LTR:

Wow, was I wrong! I just asked her out again for a second date. (The girl whom I didn't want to hurt-The same girl who seemed to be really into me).

She shot me down. She used ******** and everything. She complimented me, etc., but still no date. She wanted me to hang out with her and her friend instead. I said, "no" in a nice way.

Out of three women, I only have one left to ask out.

If the third girl says no, I'll be down to "0" prospects, and it's back to square one.

(Trying to get out of AFC land!!!!)

 

[Wong Fei Hung]

What I Want

(1)

A relationship with a woman who is charming, okay to look at, and a natural girl who is full of life and personality. Honestly, her looks are not even that important to me. As long as she takes care of herself, is not anorexically skinny or hideously obese and has a decent face, she is fair game! All she has to do to win part of me is spend time with me and take an interest in me. period!

I recently met many young ladies. I particularly like this Russian hottie from class. I have dated hotter-looking girls than her, but I find her to be much sexier than any girl I have met in the past few years. She made me realize what I really wanted in a woman.
She doesnot make me feel bad when I act like a clown or say something stupid. She would laugh like I am trying to humor her when I was not.


(2) I have not reach the bf/gf part yet with this Russian hottie. I am trying to improve a little part of myself each day. It is working. I dont want to rush into anything. When I look into her eyes, I see reflections of my true self. I feel comfortable with her.

 

[drixsa]

I want:

-to wakeup every morning
-to live for the next 3 years (cause if i make it through than then im prolly only gonna die of natural causes but ya never know)
-to grow and mature
-to be responsible
-to make my family proud of me
-to be a good friend/brother/son/grandchild
-to defend the country that i love
-to find meaning in my life
-to find the best of friends

 

[516]

My list is pretty similr to Mr. Fingers' list. For the moment, I'm just going out and dating/having fun with whoever comes along that I like and that seems interested in me. At some point in the near future I will be wanting an LTR though. I want a woman who

- We can make eachother laugh out loud until both of our sides hurt
- Is witty, and creative
- Pushes and inspires me to new heights
- Is ambitious and believes in living her dreams (has her own life)
- Appreciates art, poetry or music
- Is totally in touch with her sensuality/naughtiness, but is not "all about the sex"
- Enjoys learning new things
-Is intelligent (not necissarily a 4.0 in college, but she needs to be able to function in the outside world without much trouble)
-Can hold a conversation.
- Has a nice, round ass
- Has a decent body, a little thick or thin is fine, but not skinny or fat.
- Good face
- Nice eyes, I love eyes
- Preferrably not tall. I am only 5'5" and I dont like the women to be much taller than me.

I have alot more now that I think about it, but this is the basic jist of it. And as far as JBBrain's comment about funny women, there are some out there. Not all that many, but more than you make it seem. I'm at the point now where the humor is one of the first things I look for, and if she doesnt fit my funnybone, then I cut her off basically.

 

[CLOONEY]

Dont want one. Cant be fukced with all the drama. Rather just be single for a while and listen to the stories of all of my friends going through hell with their girls. Seriously turns me off girls for a long long time, not to mention some of the situations I have been in with some girls. Makes me wonder if there is really any one girl out there that is worthy..........

 

[NINJA PIMP]

Originally posted by CLOONEY
Dont want one. Cant be fukced with all the drama. Rather just be single for a while and listen to the stories of all of my friends going through hell with their girls. Seriously turns me off girls for a long long time, not to mention some of the situations I have been in with some girls. Makes me wonder if there is really any one girl out there that is worthy..........

I agree with Clooney. LTRs are a waste of time!

But I still have standards for my fvckbuddies:

- Firm and fit
- full lips ( I also dont like the paper thin kisses)
- Takes care of her skin/hair/nails
- Smells nice
- Has that "ghetto booty"
- Loves giving BJs
- Doesnt hurt if she is rich

Titties are not that important to me. More than a mouthful is a waste! She doesnt have to be supermodel gorgeous either. Nice smile with expresive eyes are a huge turn on.

As far as where I am at. I cant complain. 2 FBs and I am working on #3!

 

[legolas]

What I want

Okay fingz, I know what you're doing

Here's my list:

- Has nice round tight ass (I'm a booty man)
- Has an easygoing personality.
- Is intelligent and smart (two separate things if you ask me)
- Has a desire to learn new things.
- Can teach me new things.
- Is not cligny, or too attached.
- Decent looks.
- Is very feminine (I know one if I see one, can't really describe it).
- Has a nice sense of humor.
- Is open to new ideas.
- Can talk just about anything

 

[diplomatic_lies]

I like the genie on I Dream of Genie. I want a genie so she can fulfill my wish of having a neverending jar of money.

Money....

 

[ManOMan]

What I want:

1) A woman who is energetic but not overbearing

2) A woman who brings out the zest for life in me

3) Being funny is very good, but I dont like women who try to hard(playful but not goofy)

4) As far as looks I would date a girl from a 6 to a 10

5) A woman who laughs at my jokes and makes me feel good about myself

6) A woman of good values who isnt a attention wh0re and secure with herself

7) Able to hold intelligent conversations

8) shares the same passions as I do

9) gets very excited to see me

10) classy

 

[squirrels]

What do I want?

I want a rotating stable of f--k buddies, pretty much. 3 or 4 women who I can either have sex with or just hang and chill/have fun with. You know, having a bunch of people to do fun stuff with and also a variety of sexual partners with no SERIOUS monogamous commitment...but at the same time enjoying a closeness and sexual bonding not achieved in the casual one-nighter.

 

[BenPW-DJNewbie]

Bumped.

A cute girl. A tiny bit of extra chub is nothing to me. She has to be cute, girly girl, nice girl, pretty good looking, kind, relaxed, understanding, wants to spend time with me, intelligent...

 

[Micheal Moon]

My requirement: Two legs and a vagina

All kidding aside my list is similar to Mr. Fingers

-Full lips
-An adorable/cute face (I prefer that to beautiful)
-Athletic
-round ass
-Funny or at least has a sense of humour
-High sex drive
-Sexually open minded. (Doesn't mind dressing up in lingerie, uniforms etc)
-Has goals
-Open minded to new ideas/concepts
-Intelligent
-Health conscious
--Nurturing (Thats of course just thinking of LTR material)

 

[DonJuan11]

She must be able to suck a golf ball through 10 feet of garden hose.

 

[Maxtro]

Bumped.

A cute girl. A tiny bit of extra chub is nothing to me. She has to be cute, girly girl, nice girl, pretty good looking, kind, relaxed, understanding, wants to spend time with me, intelligent...

Wow almost exactly four years later after the last post

Anyways. I want pretty much the same thing squirrels said.

I want a rotating stable of f--k buddies, pretty much. 3 or 4 women who I can either have sex with or just hang and chill/have fun with. You know, having a bunch of people to do fun stuff with and also a variety of sexual partners with no SERIOUS monogamous commitment...but at the same time enjoying a closeness and sexual bonding not achieved in the casual one-nighter.

But I want them to be a mix of races. Couple of white girls, some Latinas, Asian girls and a black chick. All have to be really cute, nice bodies and a great rack

Where am I in relation to this goal?

Pretty far off from it I had one date with a Latina chick a couple of weeks ago and I may see her this week. Theres a really hot white girl that I'm interested in but I got a snowball's chance in hell with her. I don't know any black or Asian chicks now.