What wrong with me

[c-note]

I don't know what is going on with me but the last two times I had a girl over, we messed around and Things got really heated. They both were into me and pretty much made it obvious that they wanted sex but I could not get an erection. I'm only 20 years old and don't know what the damn problem is. Has this happened to anyone? Help me out

 

[needsomehelp]

did you jerk off more than an hour before messing around with them?

maybe you werent really into the chicks you were messing around with...

if it continues to happen see a doctor or something.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Either your a virgin or your thinking about it too much. 90% of the time the reason a young guy like yourself can't get it up is because he's thinking about the end result. Your not enjoying the moment, rather your thinking about whether she'll think your d-ick is too small, or whether you can please her or if you'll last longer than a minute. Stop worrying about these things and enjoy the fact that you have a hot @ss naked byatch on you.



PIMP

 

[GaryNas]

Alcohol will help solve the problem. I doubt it's something you need to see a doctor over. I don't want to discuss me, but I've been in similar situations before (ie. only partial erections).

Everytime you're with a new girl you'll be worried you can't get it up and it will spoil the mood for yourself, and sure enough you won't be able to get it up.

Drinking isn't the best solutions, but it will get you over this 'hump'.

 

[Life-Trainee]

Are you that guy who claimed to jerk off 15 times a day? If not, it might be anxiety issue.

 

[NewMan]

This has happened to me.

a long time ago I had broken up with a GF - and meet someone else quickly after that.

I found that pre intercourse I was fine - my hard on was good to go - but as soon as I wrapped my d#ck - just before I was going to bang her - it became soft.

It's anxiety.

Your thinking about it to much.

Losen up.

One or two drinks will help - but don't over do it, otherwise it will have the reverse effect.

concentrate on what turns you on about the girl - perhaps the a## or t#ts.

Whatever it is, play with it, suck it, look at it - whatever you need to do.

But whilst your doing this put on the rubber.

What got me through this was the following.

I'd lay the girl on the bed and go down on her.

When you ready to fvck her. whilst kneeling on the floor still going down town, put the rubber on - then there an easy transformation from there to fvcking her without any undue delay int he action.

By doing this, you control the flow on the fvcking. You decide when your ready. There's no break whilst you put the rubber on and possibly lose the erection.

Then once your banging away you'll be fine.

After experience you'll need not do this again.

 

[popcorn]

im the guy who jacks off a lot. I too have failed to get errection before it happens to everyone dont panick thats the worst thing you can do.

 

[Player_Supreme]

c-note? Hmmmm your not the one that I know of. He is a big time player back east...into the street thing. Has about 10 girls working for him.

cool screen name...where did you think of it?

 

[c-note]

Baby I wish I had 1 girl working for me! I thought of the screen name from an episode of Fresh Prince.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by c-note
I thought of the screen name from an episode of Fresh Prince.

You will never again utter these words.

I mean it.

C-Note means $100 bill. That's your answer from now on. Never, EVER EVER again say that you got your name from an episode of "Fresh Prince".

 

[The Brufri]

C-NOTE I have been through the same erection problems before and it is all a matter of being relaxed and have fun. I saw doctors but it just didnt help me at all. I also couldnt ***. I solved the situation after I gained some experience in the field. You see, some guys, i dont know why, are too insecure about themselves. If you think too much about what you´ll have to do now, than next, how to give her pleasure, etc..you will definetly fail!! You will get to nervous and your body will not follow your mind. Just ****ing relax and drink 2 or 3 beers before, not too much!! Enjoy the experience and let your mind empty.

Also, you´re creating a dangerous cicle of failures, which you´ll have to revert. Do not think about having an erection next time otherwise you wont.

 

[dj_it]

it's performance anxiety. happens a lot. and the more you think about it the worse off you are. if it continues to happen, think about viagra...it's not just for old dudes. after a few times having sex you won't need it anymore, your confidence will be back up.

 

[heater528]

Yeah its happened to me... usually after i put the condom on.. then you get frustrated freakin try to work it in there start sweating and its all over.. lol It sucks but i will just take a break from wackin for awhile and try it again ! You will be fine man it happens to most of us

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by Pimp-sicle
Either your a virgin or your thinking about it too much. 90% of the time the reason a young guy like yourself can't get it up is because he's thinking about the end result. Your not enjoying the moment, rather your thinking about whether she'll think your d-ick is too small, or whether you can please her or if you'll last longer than a minute. Stop worrying about these things and enjoy the fact that you have a hot @ss naked byatch on you.

Exacto!