What would you do if you found the "one" too early?

[Cremasta]

I love her but in the back of my mind I feel like I need to leave her because of my young age.

You really think this is a good reason to leave a great girl?

I don't know... that's like leaving your $100k/year job that you love because you only graduated from Uni last year.

Stop worrying about the future so much and live in the now. And right now, you seem pretty happy.

 

[logicallefty]

If you were only 21 yrs old and found yourself in a perfect relationship with a beautiful woman would you feel torn what to do?

If you should stay with her, ultimately leading toward marriage? Or leave her, risking everything to have the exciting option of fvcking new girls?

Ive been dating a perfect girl; she obeys and wants to be led by a strong male, isnt clingy, has plenty of other interests and friends, great to talk to, lots of common interests, understanding, forgiving, doesnt question my authority, loves sex and adventurous, and truly loves me.

Not to mention shes the sexiest girl ive ever dated, I dont think I could ever do better. She has guys approaching her all the time but she only has eyes for me.

I love her but in the back of my mind I feel like I need to leave her because of my young age. I only have a year or two of college left and im considering going into the navy to be an officer after because of the terrible condition my current field is in. If im going into the navy we would most likely split up, so why wait to break up when I can do it now and meet new women?

growing up sucks

What you do is you wack yourself in the head and adopt this mindset here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=221281

Then you go about your business dating this woman, being loyal to her, having as much fun as you can, but know that it could end any second like the last sip of last night's beer.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

You may have just gotten VERY lucky.......

Now as you can clearly see, most of the guys here have been screwed over by women pretty hard and refuse to believe in 'the one' simply because it doesn't exist to them. Each personality is different. Theirs differs from yours, so perhaps the people here may not find a suitable spouse simply because of the expectations that their personalities desire. You however have found one. She is the best you can do as you have said, so why waste her away? You aren't gonna get a better women if you believe that.

And someone said that you will soon see women for how evil they truly can be. Well the thing is, THE MEN WHO HAVE COMPLETELY FIGURED OUT WOMEN ARE NOT HAPPY. You are. You know enough to be sure of yourself and your actions, yet not too much to where you are unhappy and bitter like many of the people here.

All of the people who have learned too much had wished that they could go back to the ignorance they once were in. Pook had even said that he wished he could be able to love women the way he once could. But he couldn't because he said he learned too much. He understood women, but that made him unable to love them. That is why towards the end of his days here, he became bitter. That is why he almost renounced the ways of SoSuave and the Don Juan. (THAT is why he said to focus on yourself because that is the only way to stay happy. And when you are happy with this woman because she MAKES you happy, then you should stay happy with her too.)

My advice to you here would be this:
Live in happiness for as long as you can. Just because the people here couldn't find happiness with women doesn't mean that you can't.

All the good women are snatched up early in life. That is why none remain later on. That is so many men her feel empty and feel like there are no such thing as good women. It's because no one wants to marry bad women so the only women left for the dudes here to fvck ARE bad women. That means that the only ones they deal with are bad women!

Do not waste this gift. You are happy with her. So stay happy. Just remember one last thing:

Do not become weak.

The king has spoken. Leave and take his wisdom with you.

 

[RangerMIke]

And someone said that you will soon see women for how evil they truly can be. Well the thing is, THE MEN WHO HAVE COMPLETELY FIGURED OUT WOMEN ARE NOT HAPPY. You are. You know enough to be sure of yourself and your actions, yet not too much to where you are unhappy and bitter like many of the people here.

My advice to you here would be this:
Live in happiness for as long as you can. Just because the people here couldn't find happiness with women doesn't mean that you can't.

I don't think women are evil, they are what they are. I think I understand women pretty well and I'm completely happy. I do agree there are many in this forum that are unhappy... the reason, IMO is that they expect more from women than reason dictates.

I think it is completely possible to have a happy LTR with a woman. The key is to find a girl whose needs are aligned with what you can deliver. Then continue to display male strength charateristics and treat her with respect, affection, and never stop 'dating' her. But if you fall for a woman that is not aligned with what will make her happy you will fail.

Half of all marriages end in divorce, of the ones that don't, 75% are not completely happy. There was a study done some years back where married women were asked if they had it to do all over again would they be with another man... 85% said they would be with someone else. Women become fat b!itchy nags when they are not happy. It's possible to have a happy LTR, but it takes a lot of work, and you have to find a woman that is going to work at it as much as you do, so she has to be generous with a great attitude. It is NOT enough that you want her and her interest is high, she has to have the right personality... the problem is that many men can not see past their own high interest to make the tough call to dump a woman that will never work long term. The key to happiness is the just live in the moment and let happen what will happen.

 

[LMFAO]

The One??

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[pyros]

I think that in your situation you're gonna break up with her sooner or later. Why? because you have doubts. If you truly loved her you wouldn't even think about dumping her for whatever reasons considering that you say she is a great girl.

 

[logicallefty]

There is no such thing as "the one".

Technically there are 4 general types of women to find out there, but not "the one":

Big ( . )( . ), innie \|/, crazy :crazy:

Big ( . )( . ), outie \{}/, crazy :crazy:

Little (.)(.), innie \|/, crazy :crazy:

Little (.)(.), outie \{}/, crazy :crazy:



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