What would you do here?

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I had this girl that I was mostly friends with. We never had sex, but came close a couple of times. I got sick of wasting my time, so I mostly cut her off. I had my phone number changed (nothing to do with her, it was some other girl and she knew that), but I didn't give her the new number. I also stopped hanging out with her. I did continue to exchange email with her at first.
She of course didn't like losing my attention and she got pissed. She started sending me these bit-chi emails, so I told her to knock it off. Then her next email was even more out there, and I felt like I had enough of her she-ite. So I sent her something along the lines of "the only way you are going to get my attention now is if you act like a filthy, dirty ho-wore." !!!! I just wanted to be rid of her at this point and I assumed that type of message would do the trick. Well, it didn't...she has been emailing me 3-4x a week ever since. But the emails are not about sex, they are still angry type emails or innocuous type emails. For the most part I ignore them, but I got one a few days ago that said:
do you know anyone looking for weed?
I responded a couple of days later:
do you know anyone looking to suck de-ick?

That one got a rise out of her!!! Is it feigned anger or what? I can't figure it out.

Should I bother wasting more time with this brood? What should I do, get together with her and try putting the moves on her?
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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That's why emails have a block list, Use it.
 

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Even by giving her negative responses, they're responses nonetheless and thus feeding her ego. The only way to kill an ego is through apathy. Negative reactions are still reactions. I would ignore her if I really was done with her and there was no potential of hooking up.
 

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Well, I think there is potential...it's just- how much effort do I want to put in? Maybe I answered my own question, I'll give this one more shot. Two hangouts and then if it doesn't happen I pull the plug for good.
 
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