What women want: 3 secrets about women most men will never know

[BadBoy89]

Germany‘s number 1 dating coach has said:

Most guys have a picture of women that is far from true. Not only does this picture have a bad influence on the mindset of men when it comes to having fun with women, it also leads to a point where a woman gets annoyed by them because they just don’t understand what’s going on. If you understand what women want, you are the one who plays the cards…

Here are 3 secrets about women most men will never know:

What women want: 3 secrets about women most men will never know

Most guys have a picture of women that is far from true. Not only does this picture have a bad influence on the mindset of men when it comes to having fun with women, it also leads to a point where a woman gets annoyed by them because they just don’t understand what’s going on.

www.seducewithpersonality.com

1. Women are sensitive beings that should be handled with cotton gloves. You don’t make fun of women, you don’t bust her balls, and if a woman wants something, you give it to her because she may reward you with sex and/or love.

2. When women are looking for the ‘one’ they mainly look at how nice and gentle a guy is and how well he treats them.

3. Women don’t do casual sex. Before you can get physical with her you need to show her that you are a good ‘catch’ and that you make a good boyfriend.

Thoughts?

 

[Stanley]

Women want these things on some level, but they also want the exact opposite of these things (especially early on).

1.) Women are not as fragile and sensitive as most men think (we know this here).

2.) Women do want a man that treats them nice and gently, but they also want a bad boy who only treats them well. Need to strike a balance

3.) Women in western society often have more casual sex than most men thanks to OLD and hookup culture. She might want to make sure you're a catch, but she's also put out for guys early on in the past based off desire.



Edit: Nah he gets' more right than what you list in the initial comment and the topics he does lists are click baity and deceiving. What he speaks about at length in the article is basically what I said above in some capacity and a lot of the things guys talk about here

 

[Gamisch]

Germany‘s number 1 dating coach has said:

Most guys have a picture of women that is far from true. Not only does this picture have a bad influence on the mindset of men when it comes to having fun with women, it also leads to a point where a woman gets annoyed by them because they just don’t understand what’s going on. If you understand what women want, you are the one who plays the cards…

Here are 3 secrets about women most men will never know:

What women want: 3 secrets about women most men will never know

Most guys have a picture of women that is far from true. Not only does this picture have a bad influence on the mindset of men when it comes to having fun with women, it also leads to a point where a woman gets annoyed by them because they just don’t understand what’s going on.

www.seducewithpersonality.com

1. Women are sensitive beings that should be handled with cotton gloves. You don’t make fun of women, you don’t bust her balls, and if a woman wants something, you give it to her because she may reward you with sex and/or love.

2. When women are looking for the ‘one’ they mainly look at how nice and gentle a guy is and how well he treats them.

3. Women don’t do casual sex. Before you can get physical with her you need to show her that you are a good ‘catch’ and that you make a good boyfriend.

Thoughts?

This is literally selling snake oil. I agree with @Stanley , and imo if your name isnt Alladin or Hugh Grant this is not how it goes in real life. Sounds like it's written by a woman, a former 304 . The sneaky thing about this is that all points have some truth to them, so i can imagine this sounds new to the naive man .
1.women are extremely emotional, but not necessarily sensitive. You don't give women what they want, you must reward them. And yes, take away her "sex" ( by dgaf or by getting it somewhere else) and all of her power disappears.

2. Lollll if this only was true. If this was the case then this forum wouldn't even exist . Imagine a universe where "being nice" lands you " the one" . If anything, you gotta be somewhat of an ******* to actually " tame" these bytches. And every woman that's somewhat attractive will have a attitude.

This is where dude's advice goes into the bs territory. If women would pick men according to how they treat her everyone would be happier.

3. This is somewhat true. Women indeed dont have to do casual sex because they have so many options. If you somehow make her feel like you are better than her, she might use casual sex to keep you around. But at the end of the day womem want relationships and men want sex.

All of these points don't get her wet. Again ,dude is selling snake oil.

He's from Germany, different dating culture there

False. Germany is a western country . Aside from nuances, dating in Germany isn't that much different from dating in Australia, UsA or the UK. Same dynamics are at play.

 

[Gamisch]

Let me just say i live in the region of Germany and i find it difficult to recognize the scenario you painted.

Its a never ending argument because for example i havent lived and dated in the US. Even If i did one could argue things have changed when i was away. Its impossible to compare.

My only way to compare these things ,is for example by having close contact with people from other continents, like you guys.

Sometimes i follow a poster only to find out he is from Oceania, or the USA. Not the best examples and far from " scientific research " ,but it does give me an idea of how similar situations and problems are. I am sorry but traditionalism is dead in west Europe . We can only wish it was better.

This is my( admittedly narrow) view on differences between regions and cultures;

-Western world ( uk ,Scandinavia, west Europe , Oceania and the USA.

-south America /latin (n) cultures (including south Europe like Spain, Italy, Greece, Portugal and perhaps France)

-asian culture and traditions

-eastern European/iron curtain cultures

-(east south and central)african culture

- religious countries, specifically Islamic states which covers India to north Africa.

Germany, like most "white western nations " are the USA's puppy dog. Our major influences are coming from the USA. Believe me, the whole OLD bs ,only fans (and here is) legal prostitution don't enforce traditionalism. West Europe is(or used to be) USA light in many ways. If you want conservatism i I advice you any culture but the westernized ones.

 

[RangerMIke]

He is a relationship coach that makes his living telling men that they have an element of control in what is going on.

We don't. We have absolutely no control over female emotional decision making.

I suppose I am sounding like a broken record, but all this is really simple, and completely UN-COACHABLE. I'll be brief....

There is a difference between SCREENING and EVALUATIVE criteria. SCREENING criteria are those things you MUST have... EVALUATIVE criteria are those things used to make a decision among options that have PASSED screening.

SCREENING = Short term decision making.
EVALUATIVE = Long term decision making.

Screening criteria for MOST women in general terms are based on appearance, perception of social status, and perception of resources a man has. If a man looks good, dresses well, as good quality friends, and makes his living doing something that is a leadership position and gives him a 6 figure income, that man will be attractive to most women.

Evaluative criteria for MOST women is based on a man's behavior and male strength characteristics of emotional self-control, confidence, and his willingness to walk away from situations where he isn't getting what he wants. He is a kind man, but not a pushover.

What women DON'T need from men:

(1) Emotional support - She can get this sh1t from her female friends. She wants a man to be kind, and understand her ever changing emotional shifts, but she doesn't need you to be a therapist. Such they want a man that is a tuned to her emotions, and to be there when she needs this, but she can get this better and more effectively from other women.

(2) Ability to compromise without caving to her emotional whims.

What women DO need from men:

(1) The ability to protect her and her children, pay the bills, and maintain self-control under difficult circumstances and be cool under pressure.

(2) A penis.

All screening and evaluative criteria changes with each woman. So the best COA for any man is to be the best version of himself possible... try to date as many women as you can... then let them decide if they want to snag you and keep the man. There is no size fits all for EVERY woman, it is impossible to get any woman you want.

 

[SW15]

Germany‘s number 1 dating coach has said:

3. Women don’t do casual sex. Before you can get physical with her you need to show her that you are a good ‘catch’ and that you make a good boyfriend.

False. Women do one night stands and casual sex all the time.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Germany‘s number 1 dating coach has said:

Most guys have a picture of women that is far from true. Not only does this picture have a bad influence on the mindset of men when it comes to having fun with women, it also leads to a point where a woman gets annoyed by them because they just don’t understand what’s going on. If you understand what women want, you are the one who plays the cards…

Here are 3 secrets about women most men will never know:

What women want: 3 secrets about women most men will never know

Most guys have a picture of women that is far from true. Not only does this picture have a bad influence on the mindset of men when it comes to having fun with women, it also leads to a point where a woman gets annoyed by them because they just don’t understand what’s going on.

www.seducewithpersonality.com

1. Women are sensitive beings that should be handled with cotton gloves. You don’t make fun of women, you don’t bust her balls, and if a woman wants something, you give it to her because she may reward you with sex and/or love.

2. When women are looking for the ‘one’ they mainly look at how nice and gentle a guy is and how well he treats them.

3. Women don’t do casual sex. Before you can get physical with her you need to show her that you are a good ‘catch’ and that you make a good boyfriend.

Thoughts?

Hes a cuck...... German women are no saints, they are mostly fvcked up like all the other "western" nationalities women.

1.) Thats what every simp does.... in hope to get pvssy for birthday.
2.) They are looking for the best deal that they can get, depending on preferences this might be either a cuck or badass Chad
3.) They make "the good man" wait while they fvck Chad on the toilet of a bar, 60 minutes after meeting him for the first time. True desire is not negotiable.