A quick little story about me and becoming a don juan.
When I was an AFC, I had lots and lots of women friends, they all loved me, and they all tried to make sure I was happy so I wouldn't change. Occasionally they’d give little tests like running errands (like getting 6 or 7 cups of tea when I only whent to get one for myself), or putting rubbish in the bin for them. Sometimes I’d stand up for myself and not do what they said, looking back I always think “What a wimp”
Then one day I say "I want a girl", so I go and get one, and get laid I was still clueless afc tho. And then, I find Sosuave, things change, I change, I go a search for more girls, this time a proper woman.
The girls are all telling me;
"Don't bother"
"Girls are bad for you"
"They'll cheat on you"
"There is plenty of time for that later, shouldn't you concentrate on your work?"
And when I did change, and have more and more conquests, they not only hated it, they hated me. Why, you ask?
Was it because they got less attention? No, they got more attention than ever, all the stories and things I learnt I told them with much enthusiasm.
Was it because they where jealous? No, come on guys… I was and AFC, none of them wanted me… back then ha!
Was I an *******/jerk? Not at all, I was fair and just, I didn’t break any hearts, I didn’t hurt/abuse/cheat any woman. I although I was a little… underhand I could justify every thing I done.
It was about control, when I was an afc, they had control over me. And most strangely they knew it, but I didn’t. A woman will never respect a male she can control completely. A woman treating you anyway other than how a man should be treated is a bad thing, and is most likely your fault. You'll find most woman will fall into line when you put your foot down firmly.
Woman learn very early about men and control, how to control men, how to manipulate men. Even my mum done it to me, honestly she would only ever praise me for afc behaviour. And I’m not saying that all the “non-afc” behaviour was bad at all, but when I did it she just ignored me, (which was extremely painful for me as small child) when I was her “gentleman” she’d give me attention and praise, when I was being myself (running round, jumping off the sofa, getting into mischief) she’d ignore me. I can’t imagine how she could be so barbaric to a child, so small and innocent, only being himself within the bounds of common morals. My relationship with my mum is now non-existent, it’s not that I hate her, I simply don’t care.
The moral of these stories is not as simple as “don’t be manipulated”, a womans influence is manipulation (in a sort of way)
What you must do is have control, and a level head, when you have both of these in any relationship, you are free to do anything you want.
Be wise, be free.
When I was an AFC, I had lots and lots of women friends, they all loved me, and they all tried to make sure I was happy so I wouldn't change. Occasionally they’d give little tests like running errands (like getting 6 or 7 cups of tea when I only whent to get one for myself), or putting rubbish in the bin for them. Sometimes I’d stand up for myself and not do what they said, looking back I always think “What a wimp”
Then one day I say "I want a girl", so I go and get one, and get laid I was still clueless afc tho. And then, I find Sosuave, things change, I change, I go a search for more girls, this time a proper woman.
The girls are all telling me;
"Don't bother"
"Girls are bad for you"
"They'll cheat on you"
"There is plenty of time for that later, shouldn't you concentrate on your work?"
And when I did change, and have more and more conquests, they not only hated it, they hated me. Why, you ask?
Was it because they got less attention? No, they got more attention than ever, all the stories and things I learnt I told them with much enthusiasm.
Was it because they where jealous? No, come on guys… I was and AFC, none of them wanted me… back then ha!
Was I an *******/jerk? Not at all, I was fair and just, I didn’t break any hearts, I didn’t hurt/abuse/cheat any woman. I although I was a little… underhand I could justify every thing I done.
It was about control, when I was an afc, they had control over me. And most strangely they knew it, but I didn’t. A woman will never respect a male she can control completely. A woman treating you anyway other than how a man should be treated is a bad thing, and is most likely your fault. You'll find most woman will fall into line when you put your foot down firmly.
Woman learn very early about men and control, how to control men, how to manipulate men. Even my mum done it to me, honestly she would only ever praise me for afc behaviour. And I’m not saying that all the “non-afc” behaviour was bad at all, but when I did it she just ignored me, (which was extremely painful for me as small child) when I was her “gentleman” she’d give me attention and praise, when I was being myself (running round, jumping off the sofa, getting into mischief) she’d ignore me. I can’t imagine how she could be so barbaric to a child, so small and innocent, only being himself within the bounds of common morals. My relationship with my mum is now non-existent, it’s not that I hate her, I simply don’t care.
The moral of these stories is not as simple as “don’t be manipulated”, a womans influence is manipulation (in a sort of way)
What you must do is have control, and a level head, when you have both of these in any relationship, you are free to do anything you want.
Be wise, be free.
