There’s a ton of scriptures, blogs, bulletin boards, articles, books, etc about what women are looking for. Many of said writings have a common theme throughout, that being what women are seeking when it comes to dating and men. It’s seems like the same old stuff, re-hashed over and over again. They just want a nice guy, a sense of humor, confidence, etc. In the world of seduction what they want and what actually reaps beneficial success is counter-intuitive. This paradox can work in ones favor when performed in a creative and fun way. Instead of sounding like a mp3 player stuck in a repeat vocal loop, I thought I might share what women are sick and tired of or what they don’t want. Time and time again (especially online) women are bored of JAG’s (Just Another Guy). Here is a list of what women do not want;
PLAYERS-these guys think they are all that, they make it appear that they are the prize to win over and challenge chics all day long. Most girls spot this; typical wannabe behavior, a mile away and actually go out of their way to avoid these types.
BAD BOYS-dudes gone wild, they often adhere to the careless what the girl thinks philosophy. They don’t spew out any sincere compliments if any, their ******d appearance is the un-kept look with an intoxicating attitude that charms most naive ladies. They seldom have any meaningful, lasting relationships and their so-called bad boy antic lifestyle often comes with a slew of drama.
PREDATORS-you know the types, almost immediately their conversations take on a sexual charge. They lack patience, are anxious to meet right away, crave instant gratification and for them it’s all about seeking validations (gotta get her digits, gotta get some naked pictures, must kiss close, etc). Women almost always avoid these men like an STD.
TOO NICE-these guys just try way too hard, over compliment, tend to get clingy too early on. They are nervous, awkward, lack confidence when it comes to seduction, tend to be indecisive at times, boring, take things way too personal, appear to be in a rush/hurry, etc. Even though the ladies claim they just want a nice guy, in reality being too nice just does not induce sex appeal or anything resembling attraction.
PICK-UP ARTIST-now don’t confuse these types with players. They are more of a hybrid of a really good player and a badboy, with a touch of the nice guy. Women know their whole agenda, they are aware you’re a ladies man, it goes against their better judgement to meet you but they can’t help it. Reveal too much about your lifestyle and the attraction will begin to fizzle, be too mysterious and that too will cause the string to un-ravel. Women begin to question your authenticity when there is even a hint of any tactic, seduction technique, or sexual conquests mentioned.
JERKS-despite that old cliché` that informs men to treat women like garbage, it just ain’t indicative of anything meaningful. The rest of that scenario that people tend to omit is drama will almost always follow. Today’s women seldom put up with derogatory comments, rude or demeaning behavior, continuous, irritating juvenile antics. Displaying anything remotely associated with anger management issues or alpha dog gone berserk, eventually, will end in a parting of ways.
PLAYERS-these guys think they are all that, they make it appear that they are the prize to win over and challenge chics all day long. Most girls spot this; typical wannabe behavior, a mile away and actually go out of their way to avoid these types.
BAD BOYS-dudes gone wild, they often adhere to the careless what the girl thinks philosophy. They don’t spew out any sincere compliments if any, their ******d appearance is the un-kept look with an intoxicating attitude that charms most naive ladies. They seldom have any meaningful, lasting relationships and their so-called bad boy antic lifestyle often comes with a slew of drama.
PREDATORS-you know the types, almost immediately their conversations take on a sexual charge. They lack patience, are anxious to meet right away, crave instant gratification and for them it’s all about seeking validations (gotta get her digits, gotta get some naked pictures, must kiss close, etc). Women almost always avoid these men like an STD.
TOO NICE-these guys just try way too hard, over compliment, tend to get clingy too early on. They are nervous, awkward, lack confidence when it comes to seduction, tend to be indecisive at times, boring, take things way too personal, appear to be in a rush/hurry, etc. Even though the ladies claim they just want a nice guy, in reality being too nice just does not induce sex appeal or anything resembling attraction.
PICK-UP ARTIST-now don’t confuse these types with players. They are more of a hybrid of a really good player and a badboy, with a touch of the nice guy. Women know their whole agenda, they are aware you’re a ladies man, it goes against their better judgement to meet you but they can’t help it. Reveal too much about your lifestyle and the attraction will begin to fizzle, be too mysterious and that too will cause the string to un-ravel. Women begin to question your authenticity when there is even a hint of any tactic, seduction technique, or sexual conquests mentioned.
JERKS-despite that old cliché` that informs men to treat women like garbage, it just ain’t indicative of anything meaningful. The rest of that scenario that people tend to omit is drama will almost always follow. Today’s women seldom put up with derogatory comments, rude or demeaning behavior, continuous, irritating juvenile antics. Displaying anything remotely associated with anger management issues or alpha dog gone berserk, eventually, will end in a parting of ways.