I dont know where any of you live or how much experience with women. But where I live, all the things I metioned come into play. However none of them are absolute. That is reality.
I possess some of the characteristics noted above. Health, I work out 4 times a week and run with a 6'1 225 lb frame. I go to college, know a lot of different people, met a lot of different women, and can hold a conversation with just about anyone. Ive also been told Im more attractive than "most" guys, by more than a few different girls. Physical attraction at the beginning of any relationship is key. This is because people know within seconds of seeing ,not talking,another person they find attractive if they would sleep with them. After that is when the rest of you comes into play. Personality, attitude, and everything else that makes you you.
All of you that dont understand what women want, just watch them some time. Girls that you know, research them, what they say, how they act. This takes a long time, but if you want to do at least okay with women you have to know exactly what youre dealing with. You cant just jump right from little league to the Big leagues.