What will marriage give a man that he doesn’t already have?

[Spaz]

I hear you. Like I said, I agree to a point. Some countries have higher "anti slvt" thresholds, shaming mechanisms, etc. That won't necessarily stop a woman, of course. I know women who have cheated and wouldn't even tell their BFFs for fear of appearing slvtty. But there are cultural differences that can't be discounted - that's been my experience, and just having to do with hypergamy etc. We all have biological imperatives. The question is what are the consequences and how do they differ. In my experience, women are the same "biologically" but to varying degrees culturally. I'd never whistle past any graveyard or let myself backslide framewise, but, well, I know more than ever what I like and what I don't.

Yes I too concur with your views.

In terms of cultural differences that makes women more palatable towards masculinity then yes.

In Asian society it is an accepted rule that men must fall within the masculine frame and women within the feminine frame. But there's an erosion on a delayed scale similar to what has happened in western societies.

It's my contention via observations that men themselves are to be blamed.

Traditionally in Asia it's a given rule that men took up training and mentoring their young son's/nephews/neighbours in the ways of being a man - the foundations of masculinity.

But as more men head to the cities and starts off the day as early as 5:30 am, and reaching home by 7:30 pm there's little if no time for the training of boys.

It's now left to the womenfolk to mentor them.

Unfortunately, despite all those good intentions, those boys grow up "different" and this version of men will invariably leave an impact on the women they interact with.

Whilst women can rely upon their feminine instincts to navigate life via interactions, they do so by being highly reactivate. If men are "feminine infused" then women will naturally lean towards being more " masculine infused".

I'm not sure you get my meaning but do ask.

 

[glass half full]

What will marriage give a man that he doesn’t already have?

Mmm...anxiety, confusion, loss of self, co-dependency and eventually a good chance of sexlessness, divorce and child support payments. All just for some cuddling, lovin' and poon...for a little while.

This is what escorts are for. Lol