What do you think will make you a success with women and in life? What are you doing to achieve that?
*edit* The reason I ask is for several fold. One. Until you know where you are really going, you are just spinning your wheels. Second, you definition of success is personal. It's not the same as the next man. Know what it means for you personally. Third. Figuring out what you think will make you successful may show you your weakness and shortcomings and where you need to put in the work to tighten up your game both in life and with women.
Personal example :
For me to be successful this is what I need. I need to double my income. I am working on two side businesses that will in the next two years allow me to do exactly that. In order for me to do that I have to stop being a lazy ass and apply my business degree to the fullest.
In order for me to be successful with women, I want two higher quality FBs. I currently have one that is on again off again. As well as two others that fit the booty call mold but nothing consistant. Why? Because I don't put in any effort with them what so ever. I call, see if they are free and bang if they are. They are booty calls and they know it and they don't like it. They are not the type of women I would have any sort of real relationship with. I need to sell my new FBs a dream of having something more with me so I can have what I want. I need to step up every aspect of my game to pull a higher quality FB. I need to dress better, stay consistent in the gym and met more women on a regular basis.
Knowing what I want, gives me the plan I need to go out and get it. What do you want?
*edit* The reason I ask is for several fold. One. Until you know where you are really going, you are just spinning your wheels. Second, you definition of success is personal. It's not the same as the next man. Know what it means for you personally. Third. Figuring out what you think will make you successful may show you your weakness and shortcomings and where you need to put in the work to tighten up your game both in life and with women.
Personal example :
For me to be successful this is what I need. I need to double my income. I am working on two side businesses that will in the next two years allow me to do exactly that. In order for me to do that I have to stop being a lazy ass and apply my business degree to the fullest.
In order for me to be successful with women, I want two higher quality FBs. I currently have one that is on again off again. As well as two others that fit the booty call mold but nothing consistant. Why? Because I don't put in any effort with them what so ever. I call, see if they are free and bang if they are. They are booty calls and they know it and they don't like it. They are not the type of women I would have any sort of real relationship with. I need to sell my new FBs a dream of having something more with me so I can have what I want. I need to step up every aspect of my game to pull a higher quality FB. I need to dress better, stay consistent in the gym and met more women on a regular basis.
Knowing what I want, gives me the plan I need to go out and get it. What do you want?