What will happen to me or anyone who never learn DJ or Gaming Women things?

[Deicide]

What will happen to me or anyone who never learn DJ or Gaming Women things? I've been interestd in all this stuff about how to get girls ever since someone suggested this site to me but hve never dedicated myself to learning and dont have any plans to yet, I just find it interesting, that and I'm not aksing any girl out and probbaly wont get a girlfriend by the time I'm done in college,I'm 19 and a sophomore by the way, so what happens to people who never learn all this gaming and Don Juan stuff? I've never had success with girls so I really cant say.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

You will probably marry the first girl you go out with and live like an AFC forever and become old and bitter.

Just my opinion.

 

[ChrizZ]

What will happen to me or anyone who never learn DJ or Gaming Women things?

I will personally hunt you down and kick your sorry a$$ ! ! ! :box:

 

[KontrollerX]

You could luck out and meet a chick that is good to you get married and have a good marriage or as My Name is Nobody has stated you could settle for the first girl who shows interest in you and grab her as fast as you can and not really look around for what you really want.

For what really moves you in a woman.

That is the risk the unknowing man so often takes in life.

Settling for less than he can be in life and can have in a partner for that life.

One thing you can do for yourself without needing to read all of the articles here first is simply ask yourself what you want in a woman.

Then if a chick comes along showing interest in you, you can then ask yourself how many of your checklist items does she possess for your ideal mate.

Then you will know if you are settling or not.

 

[tsmith2334]

Only a small percentage of the population really learns it when you think about it.

It's just an advantage really, I know plenty of people who do fine without it.

 

[aliasguy]

I wasted a LOT of years because of not understanding all this. I was a HUGE afc. I did well with women anyway, because I'm reasonably good-looking, and I have a really great job. But --- I could have done SO much better if I knew what the hell was really going on.

I had a long talk with my dad earlier today. He's 'bout ready to start up again with women after he was widowed. He has NO clue. He's as far into the "matrix" as one can get. I'm gonna try to help him, but I dunno.......

Might be too late. Hope not.

 

[DJsomeday]

It's never too late man, never, help ur dad in any way u can.

For the Thread Opener: Why would you not invest into this facet of your life? for you will not only learn how to be good with women, but also how to be fun and more social in general, IMHO print Weapons of Mass Seduction, read 1 chapter a month(if u resist not reading it all the 1st time) and get that part of your life handled at least in a little way.

PS: You all might see me promoting WMS too much, but i tell ya it has the right balance between life/dj that i've seen, i haven't read pook btw but WMS is really good.

 

[WaterTiger]

I've never had success with girls...

Kind of answered your own question, didn't you dude!:cheer:

 

[Deicide]

Kind of answered your own question, didn't you dude!:cheer:

:crackup: Yeah, but eventually everyone finds someone, it may be a long time from now but everyone does, at least I think they do. I think it'd probbaly be better off if I just lucked out and found someone, it may happen, I don't know, I'm not the type of person that goes out trying to get dates and laid, it's been 2 years since I last asked a girl out and I havent been concerned with asking anyone else out. What do I want in a women? Well, I'm not that picky, I want someone that accepts me for who I am and doesnt try and change me, for example I'll date or marry a Christian or any type of religious woman, but she better accept I don't believe in God and am not ever going to go to church or any religious service. I don't want to have kids, I really want to find an Asian girl, that's mainly what I'm looking for/wanting.

 

[Maxtro]

:crackup: Yeah, but eventually everyone finds someone, it may be a long time from now but everyone does, at least I think they do.

Keep believing that and you will die alone. I'm 26 and through no choice of my own I haven't had a single girlfriend yet. I'm not really short, or ugly or fat. I'm average in all categories. If I didn't seek out sex from the most unusual places (swingers club and AFF) I would be a virgin.

You can not count on luck with this game. There are guys out there who are 40+ year old virgins who've never been on dates. I whole heartedly believe that if you don't learn how to make yourself attractive to women you will die a lonely old man.

 

[Deicide]

Keep believing that and you will die alone. I'm 26 and through no choice of my own I haven't had a single girlfriend yet. I'm not really short, or ugly or fat. I'm average in all categories. If I didn't seek out sex from the most unusual places (swingers club and AFF) I would be a virgin.

You can not count on luck with this game. There are guys out there who are 40+ year old virgins who've never been on dates. I whole heartedly believe that if you don't learn how to make yourself attractive to women you will die a lonely old man.

How do you go about making yourself attractive and what does that do? I've read aricles here telling people you shouldnt wear things like The Simpsons or Heavy Metal shirts because it doesn attract women, but I'm not dedicated to making that sacrifice, I'm wearing whatever the Hell I want to wear, it just seems that almost everyone my age except me and few other people havent had success with girls.

 

[synergy1]

I've seen what men are in their 40s when they never make the progress with women that they want. Sorry to say it, but it seems these men have less self esteem than the average married guy by far. They seem miserable, boring, and kind of pathetic.

If you do the same old, expect the same old results. Aging will change nothing, unless you do indeed get 'lucky'. Putting anything worthwhile in the hands of chance is a fools pursuit. CEOs, successful traders, successful athletes, NEVER put their futures in the hands of luck.

Most of us can thankfully say we are glad to have learned, and continue to learn what we are all learning here. Personally, I do not want to know where I would be if I did not stumble by accident onto this stuff.

 

[Maxtro]

How do you go about making yourself attractive and what does that do? I've read aricles here telling people you shouldnt wear things like The Simpsons or Heavy Metal shirts because it doesn attract women, but I'm not dedicated to making that sacrifice, I'm wearing whatever the Hell I want to wear, it just seems that almost everyone my age except me and few other people havent had success with girls.

Honestly it doesn't matter what you wear. As long as your clothes are clean and you smell good thats all that matters about them.

What attracts women is your confidence, your wit (make them laugh but not keeping them laughing all the time), your charm and your playfulness (being able to tease them) and not being afraid to touch them. Thats all that really matters.

But being able to show those things is easier said than done. Knowledge of what you need isn't enough, if it was I'd be fvcking a different girl every day.

 

[Snow Plowman]

You have choice, end of story

How many people can actually choose if they want a harem of women during the spring/summer and 4-5 MLTRs in the fall/winter?

How many people can break up with there girl and go out the same day and most likely get a new one?

How many people can see a girl they like and go in, approach and at least have a chance at getting into a relationship with them?

See where I'm headed. But it doesn't matter anyway because if you knew how much work it took anyway you'd quit. Stop diking around learn it or don't learn it.

 

[Leporello]

The average number of sexual partners for a straight American male is 6-7 over an entire lifetime. If you assume someone loses their virginity at 18 and gets married at 30, that's about one girl ever other year.

MOST guys are not getting any action, or they find someone who likes them and then never let go.It's par for the course my friend; anything beyond that is a bonus.

 

[Deicide]

Honestly it doesn't matter what you wear. As long as your clothes are clean and you smell good thats all that matters about them.

What attracts women is your confidence, your wit (make them laugh but not keeping them laughing all the time), your charm and your playfulness (being able to tease them) and not being afraid to touch them. Thats all that really matters.

But being able to show those things is easier said than done. Knowledge of what you need isn't enough, if it was I'd be fvcking a different girl every day.

I've never been like that with women, I've just always been the friend, and I never tease women when I talk to them, I just have friendly conversation, I can make them laugh though, but I've neverhad any type of charm, just a nice guy a girl might want to date.

 

[Maxtro]

I've never been like that with women, I've just always been the friend, and I never tease women when I talk to them, I just have friendly conversation, I can make them laugh though, but I've neverhad any type of charm, just a nice guy a girl might want to date.

I do the same thing as you and that is why my friend we are both single. For people like us teasing and playing with a girl is completely unnatural but so very crucial. I'm constantly afraid of coming off too mean. I'm still trying to find the proper balance.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

If you are like me, then all the DJ or Gaming Women things aren't going to make a difference in the world unless you have the infrastructure to support it. Here are some things that can rule that out:

1) Being accountable to a controlling mom who periodically calls you on the cell phone to check up on you where if you were to stay away overnight they would probably call the police. (Thankfully the police has a minimum period of time to elapse before delcaring a guy as missing, I'd hate to be on the front newspaper after just renting a motel/hotel for a night). Or, if you hang out with them most of the time you are out (i.e shopping, etc...)

2) Living with your parents in general. That means your folks are around all the time.

The thing is, I like my mom and like hug her up and shop and go places with her like walking in the park or going to church and it's like this is really sick (well my mom is cute and my dad is not around most of the time, but I think I'm a bit too close with her than what is healthy so that need of affection is being short-circuit satisfied with her rather which serves as a further demotivator to seek out girls), so if I were to look for a girlfriend then I'm conditioned to be wussy and on an inferior end where the girl would have to be in control, etc... which is just unmasculine. Other demotivators of course are porn, masturbating, etc....which are really just pressure release valves.

So, if you are in an emasculating environment, I dont think these skills will make any difference.

 

[Maxtro]

Luke weren't you like 31 or something? What the hell are you doing living with your parents?

That is your biggest road block to your confidence. Once you get that taken care of everything else you need to attract women will fall into place.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Luke weren't you like 31 or something? What the hell are you doing living with your parents?

I want to make another deal first before the end of the year and then I may give it a go. I told you, I'm in a commissioned job, although I have some money in the bank, it's not all mine, some of it belongs to the government, and I dont know how much, etc... so that has me on the edge a bit since I'm 100% commission and have to do tax calculations by the end of the year, as usual, economic reasons. Know any places who will issue bogus expense receipts if I need them?

That is your biggest road block to your confidence. Once you get that taken care of everything else you need to attract women will fall into place.

Yeah, especially if you need permission from you parents on what type of girl that I am dating. But it's interesting, it actually raises my value with some girls that I have an over-picky mom who will likely just dismiss them since they feel they have to extra-qualify with me. Some have gotten hurt that my mom would not accept them because they had a child, are reading questionable literature, etc....