What was the key that unlocked everything for you?

[WhtRbt]

Have you ever read that one article that pulled everything together for you? That one idea that lit up about 1,000 lightbulbs in your head and you felt like finally, you were truly a Don Juan, and you knew that your troubles getting women were over?

I recently read the gunwitch method, where he talks about getting into and projecting a sexual state. I had glanced at gunwitch before half-assedly long ago when I was still just beginning my transformation. I basically just dismissed it not really understanding it.

Since then I have devoured all the information I could find, including the dj bible and all the archived posts. Well recently I rediscovered the gunwitch method, and sexual state or plain old sexuality as Pook puts it, was the missing link.

I now feel as though life is a huge smorgasboard of women, and I have my choice of them. Everything seems so easy now. I feel very powerful. All of the discussions about women here now seem trivial and almost silly. It is now harder for me to avoid women than attract them.

It really is all in your mind.

What was your missing link?

 

[COD]

for me the minute I discovered my penis could be used for more than just peeing on the toilet seat. Things really took off when a girl said.......let me suck on it for a while. I then realized getting naked with the opposite sex is much more fun than a party for one.

ah memories, just seems like yesterday when I banged my 1000th vagina......oh wait damn it was yesterday,,,,,,,,,,MAN I GOTTA do something big,..........well not into fat chics so something else big, like ummmm my imagination.

 

[Furyguy]

Pook's "Be a Man!" post pretty much did it for me.
Right here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16903&

That and deciding that "Do whatever the **** you want, all the time" is pretty much the best code to live by.

Those were my first awakenings, anyways. I think I have a few more to come.

 

[KontrollerX]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=20965

Yes here it is.

Though several epic posts by Rollo, Str8up, T!ttyman and Pook greatly helped to clear the AFC cobwebs from my mind before I found this gem which kind of summed up all their advice but also gave something new and provided just that little bit of a harder edge which just screams out this is the type of man we all should have been taught to be from birth.

 

[Maxtro]

For me no single thread has been the key for me. I can't just read something and then everything after that makes sense.

My learning is a process of getting experience then receiving feedback. The process repeats till I get it and then I move on to a new thing that I may not understand. I can also learn by reading about what other people are going through as long as it is similar to what I'm doing.

I have found that majority of threads and tips on here are simply not relevant to myself and that they are best used when I come to a place in my life where they make sense.

The biggest problem about too much information is knowing what to read before you make an important choice. All too often I have made a mistake then read learn the relevant information after the fact. It's like telling somebody to watch their step, when they are lying on their back.

 

[LDBaha]

What did it for me was when I started seeing everything as a Fun tactic game!

 

[Duffdog]

The key for me was the idea that you do not hesitate--ever! Once I decided to live life without hesitating, sooooo many good things happened. And, they are still happening.

 

[Badmannaz]

well it was like after my first love breakup i decided to just have fun with women...but it wasn't until the second love breakup i actually got into the whole art form of studying women..its pretty cool when u actually understand how the female operates...when u figure it out then its almost nothing that keeps a girl from wanting u...you know your a master don juan when u start having sex with girls who dont even want to date u or like u...they just have this raw attraction towards u...idk if it was worth it or not but im young still...im still learning...but i know a ton.. ;-) and i've had my way with very beautiful women...there overrated...

 

[WC2]

1. 3 Second rule
2. Body Language
3. Playful conversation... the most important. Playful conversation takes a woman out of her logical state of mind and places her in her emotional 90% of the time, no fail. All you have to do is be funny!

 

[Badmannaz]

The key for me was the idea that you do not hesitate--ever! Once I decided to live life without hesitating, sooooo many good things happened. And, they are still happening.

yea thats it too..i stopped hesitating and adopted this "i really dont give a Fvck attitude" and it worked...more sex..less relationships...i like relationships...maybe because i like having a sex slave...lol call me bad...hahaha thats probably why i cant get one now...im more into the relationship than the actual girl....like im an alpha at heart...true a$sh0le hahaha

 

[snowdog]

Dealing with a lot of personal issues that didn't had anything to do with girls in general. Clearing my mind of negative stuff and low self-esteem. There just wasn't space for it in my life at first. Reading some articles on here were an eye opener. I was still living in that Disney world where the nice guys get the hot girls.

The main thing though is, that I started to go outside and putting myself in the line of fire. Starting to approach as many girls as possible. The only way to understand and learn is to do it a lot.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

OK, I'll bite.

It took a living hell LTR of about 4 years for me (prior to my meeting my wife) with an absolute psychotic to open my eyes. And even at the end of this it was a gradual progression into understanding the behavioral psychology of gender and the social distortion of it. There was no SoSuave, there was no community of guys collectively relating their experiences to draw data from. The woman who was to become my wife expected me to fulfill a positive masculine role and pushed me into seeing this as a real alternative to a world awash in pathetic AFC mentality. It was about this time I understood what I had been and what I needed to become. I changed my mind about myself. For the first time I was able to see the chain of events, the influences, the conditionings that had brought me to the pit of AFC misery with my former ONEitis. I wasn't me, I was who I'd been conditioned to become and I hated that guy. It was then I decided to truly man-up and kill that inner AFC. I realized my intrinsic value as a man and the need for a feminized world's social conventions to suppress that understanding.

I was both elated and mad as all hell at the same time. I could see the subtle control of what we call the Matrix (for lack of a better term). I had foolishly wasted almost a decade I could've spent bettering myself while the girls (they weren't women) I did entertain LTRs with had finished college and moved on. I decided it was time to catch up to where I ought to have been, and part of that was double majoring in Fine Art and Behavioral Psychology. Nothing opened my eyes more to the social and psychological designs of the Matrix than Behaviorism. If I had a significant turning point this was it. This understanding was the real key. Suddenly a lifetime of this feminized bullsh!t and the gravity of what it was became known to me. I saw the methods in the madness. One of the greatest of which was understanding the social convention of the Feminine Mystique - women had to constantly seem random, fickle and unknowable while simultaneously being allowed to be duplicitous - but the truth is this is their method and so long as you believe it as a man, so long as it confounds you, they can reinforce the mystique and control the frame.

I learned of women's innate need for security from Dr. Warren P. Farrell. I'd suggest to anyone on this forum to read "Why Men are the Way They are" by Farrell. The guy was (and still is) a pioneer. Long before there was a SS or a community he was digging into feminine social conventions and their latent functions, and feminists despise him to this day for pulling back the curtain on their great and powerful Oz.