what was the biggest red flag she unintentionally gave you?

[booster]

I was making out with a girl on my bed about to get her to take her clothes off when she said "i was having sex with a guy from (frat name) yesterday and the condom broke."

I never called her again.

 

[Guitar_Whizz]

I've had girls give me all sorts of red flags that immediately decreased my interest in them. For example:-

1) One girl once told me, while we were sitting having a cup of coffee on our first date, "I used to shoplift when I was younger". Just out of the blue like that. I thought she was a complete fruitcake for telling me that, especially on a first date!

2) A 21 yr girl I met in a nightclub last year tried to bull**** me with "I have a 45 year old bf at home and he always buys me stuff and treats me like a princess". Needless to say, she was lying and it put me off right away.

3) One girl I met last year and started emailing, when I tried flirting with her over email she said "I'm going to ignore the flirting...". I lost interest after that.

There are lots more examples I could give if I think back over the years, but those are the ones that stand out.

Girls give out unintentional 'red flags' all the time, and as an Enlightened Seducer you should be able to spot these red flags so you can weed out the girls who are worthy of your time from those who are not.

 

[Mike32ct]

On a first date she said "Most of my coworkers are pregnant. It must be something in the water. I hope I don't catch it haha (smile)"

 

[Cabal]

My biggest red flags.

1) Having known a girl for 45 minutes, we're dancing slow - an accident, it came on as we hit the floor. "I'm not a virgin. I was abused by my grandfather when I was six."

I twirled her away, and by the time she finished spinning, I was gone.

2) After two days of good game. "You can come over tonight, but only for a few hours. I live with...brace yourself...my fiance. But he's gone until ten it's ok!"

I stuck around long enough to look at pictures on her phone when I thought she was joking. I went outside "for a fag". No, I went outside for a run!

3) After sex. "I haven't been ridden that hard since I was 13. You were fantastic."

If you think men only sneak out of windows and down drainpipes in sitcoms, I proved you wrong on this day.

 

[Badmannaz]

I was making out with a girl on my bed about to get her to take her clothes off when she said "i was having sex with a guy from (frat name) yesterday and the condom broke."

I never called her again.

that was the funniest sh*t ever!!! :crackup:

 

[horaholic]

3) After sex. "I haven't been ridden that hard since I was 13. You were fantastic."

:crackup: At least she didnt say, "damn, you're better than my daddy!"


I was hitting on a chick,and she said she was still really hung up on her ex. Then she mentioned it was my drummer, in my last band that broke up a few months earlier. They dated...get this...15 years ago!

 

[Bible_Belt]

what was the biggest red flag she unintentionally gave you?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133284

 

[Ridingthelightning]

Every woman shows me a red flag lol
-Any abuse as a child
-Divorced parents
-Constant me, myself, and I talk
-Being too quiet
-Being too loud
-B!tchyness towards anything when I meet her the first time
-Crying over nothing
-Unintelligence
-Improper grammar
-etc. etc.

 

[Leporello]

On our first date she stared at me really intensely and then asked 'Do you watch sex movies?' (english wasn't her first langauge).

The odd thing was she seemed to really like me. but her personality was way too off-putting

 

[londonzen]

lol this shop girl i was gaming on the bus(our first out of work convo) i asked her where she was from she told me her mums from somewhere and her dads from somewhere else now i start asking her if she can speak her dads language she goes no, then after a pause remarks "very bad past my dad "
i tell you i went cold and when i got off of the bus at my stop i didnt look back once.

 

[horaholic]

lol this shop girl i was gaming on the bus(our first out of work convo) i asked her where she was from she told me her mums from somewhere and her dads from somewhere else now i start asking her if she can speak her dads language she goes no, then after a pause remarks "very bad past my dad "
i tell you i went cold and when i got off of the bus at my stop i didnt look back once.

I dont get it. Did you assume her dad molested her or something by that statement. i dont think that was any reason to bail out like that.

 

[londonzen]

I dont get it. Did you assume her dad molested her or something by that statement. i dont think that was any reason to bail out like that.

yeah something about the way she said it and the look on her face, then she had a damn why did i say that look,

my prob is no normal girl would get that deep straight away this was my first convo with her apart from hi and byes
and to be fair she said quite a few other things and her general body language were just (oh poor me im stressed)

and i didnt bail that was my stop

 

[booster]

2) After two days of good game. "You can come over tonight, but only for a few hours. I live with...brace yourself...my fiance. But he's gone until ten it's ok!"

HAHAHAHA. This reminded me of Sideways