What to say when a girl do not qualify intentionally to your qualifiers?

Niwoor222

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For example when you ask, Are you adventure? And she says I am not

Or you say, are you ambitious? And she says I am not

Or even worse, Are you a fun girl? And she says I am not

Specially when she says it intentionally as a challenge but obviously she is a fun girl

My usual respond is:
Do you know that adventures girls are very attractive for men? (Implying therefore she is not attractive but playfully obviously).

Do you guys have any other respond for those situation. Please don't tell me to next those girls because they are obviously playing hard to get, they have those qualities they are just playing hard
 

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Sound like low interest. Why spend time on her?
 

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Sound like low interest. Why spend time on her?
Because I don't like to eject from sets, even less if a girl does not qualify and I don't say anything. I always approach from the Frame 'I am the prize'. I like to let her know that before leave and leaving after getting non compliance from a girl (no qualifying) and not reframing the no compliance of her feels like she was the prize and you were chasing. That is why I like to say something like "Ok, well, do you know that x trait (the trait she didn't comply) is very attractive for most men??
 
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would you like to get to know me; I would not.
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it is either low interest because she already decided or... she did not yet decide and is giving you auto-reply. you're asking how to get past the autoreply and get her to consider you. if she is already decided then it is bad for you to continue.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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