what to say to a hot chick with a boyfriend?

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Picture the scene you get a chicks number indirectly, she tells you she has a boyfriend thereafter. You see her around college campus again, you talk to her for a while but it leads to nothing cos shes still got a boyfriend..

What are the rules for dealing with chicks with boyfriends?
 

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i don't get the impression shes an attention *****.. more so that shes just looking to make new friends. how does one take a girl away from another man in this scenario?
 

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pete101 said:
i don't get the impression shes an attention *****.. more so that shes just looking to make new friends. how does one take a girl away from another man in this scenario?
By being the type of friend that has sex with her if that is what you want
 

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Robert Jones said:
By being the type of friend that has sex with her if that is what you want

good advice.. do you have any tips on what i should do to get to that point?
 

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Treat her like you treat every other girl you have had.
Her saying she has a boyfriend doesnt mean anything it is up to her to stop it from going anywhere not on you to somehow invent a new way at attracting women.
The more time you spend trying to get around the fact that she has a boyfriend the quicker you will end up in the friend zone.
Act as if she never said it, in fact stop listening to her talk period unless it is something that you want her to think about
 

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Robert Jones said:
Treat her like you treat every other girl you have had.
Her saying she has a boyfriend doesnt mean anything it is up to her to stop it from going anywhere not on you to somehow invent a new way at attracting women.
The more time you spend trying to get around the fact that she has a boyfriend the quicker you will end up in the friend zone.
Act as if she never said it, in fact stop listening to her talk period unless it is something that you want her to think about
true. if you really want the girl, than this is the way to go
 

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pete101 said:
Picture the scene you get a chicks number indirectly, she tells you she has a boyfriend thereafter.
What is this indirect method you used to get her phone number?
I hope it wasnt a case where she either gave it to a entire class or some other method where in no way was her phone number given so that you could call and try to get her.
 

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Remulak said:
Giving up so easily Rikojo? what about going after what you want?
you're blowing up what i said. yea you should go for what you want, but then again you shouldnt fight a losing battle.

get this. so he ends up getting the girl of his dreams. she liked him better. now who long do you think that is going to last? seeing as how she left one man for the better one, she'll only end up leaving him when the even better man comes along.

i say save yourself a bunch of heartache and work.

all the work you do to steal a chick, when you could have snagged a single one about 10 times easier. it's not even worth it.
 

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Raikojo17 said:
get this. so he ends up getting the girl of his dreams. she liked him better. now who long do you think that is going to last? seeing as how she left one man for the better one, she'll only end up leaving him when the even better man comes along.

i say save yourself a bunch of heartache and work.

all the work you do to steal a chick, when you could have snagged a single one about 10 times easier. it's not even worth it.
While I agree that you should sarge other women who are more available, I also have to agree with Robert Jones assesment about treating her like any other girl. The thing is with chicks now a day's is that you never know what is the current situations with the males in her life. Women especially pretty women always keep guys around in some capacity and trade up if something better comes along. She could have a fvck buddy, dating a guy, have a boyfriend one day and dump him the next day so as you can see pretty chicks are usually never single but trade up and often is the case that you won't know about it.
 

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Why not go for single chicks? Everyone loves to have their ego stroked by fooling around with another guys chick.
 

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itishe said:
Why not go for single chicks? Everyone loves to have their ego stroked by fooling around with another guys chick.
Half of the single chicks who claim to be single actually have men currently plowing them but as I said before you won't know about it when they drop them in favour of you.
 

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Because single chicks are single for a reason. :rolleyes:
No guy wants a relationship with them.
 

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Play the Game said:
Because single chicks are single for a reason. :rolleyes:
No guy wants a relationship with them.
or all of the dudes tha chase her are AFC and havent gotten her yet. or she's an attention *****, or a tease.
 

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Robert Jones said:
Treat her like you treat every other girl you have had.
Her saying she has a boyfriend doesnt mean anything it is up to her to stop it from going anywhere not on you to somehow invent a new way at attracting women.
The more time you spend trying to get around the fact that she has a boyfriend the quicker you will end up in the friend zone.
Act as if she never said it, in fact stop listening to her talk period unless it is something that you want her to think about
good advice. so should i act not interested if i've come on a bit strong by going up to her the past 2 times, when it should really be alternating?
 

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Robert Jones said:
What is this indirect method you used to get her phone number?
I hope it wasnt a case where she either gave it to a entire class or some other method where in no way was her phone number given so that you could call and try to get her.
Maybe they, you know, had a conversation or share an interst and she wanted to hang out with him again?
 

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Raikojo17 said:
forget them and go for a chick thats single and not a attention wh0re. who's actually worth you time.
Smart man! If they give out their number and they have a boyfriend then they aren't loyal=not worth your time.
 
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