what to say to a female who ask you to buy her a drink

[Eyecandie4ya]

To all Don juans:


Never, never ever ever ever buy a female a drink at the club. NEVER. Many of them come to the club just have some chump buy them one so that they can benefit without having to pay. Save your money. I don't care if you get a number, eye contact, or whatever, do not buy that drink! Women joke among each other about guys buying them drinks like suckers! Don't be like the masses. If a woman ask you to buy her a drink there is one response that work like a charm if you want to say no but you want ti intrigue her mind at the same time Try it and see the reaction. This is the scenario.

Her: So, are you going to buy me a drink

You: (Smile) Yeah, but under one condition. If you can initiate a conversation that will stimulate my mind, then I will buy that drink.

The typical response from a female:

Her: what do you want to talk about?(stupid answer)

When I've use this, the women are stunned cause now you presented something different than the other cats who give in to her "begging". She is challenge and most women love to be challenge. So try this line the next time you in the club and see her reaction. This will intrigue her thus making her want to know more about you "challenging" her mind in other things.

 

[trevor2003]

Buying drinks for girls is a bad idea! Your just feeding their egos because they think because they are so hot they can get any guy to do anything for them.



Her: So, are you going to buy me a drink

You: (Smile) I don't usually buy drinks for strangers, but if you want you can buy me a drink. (Smile)

 

[assasin]

Her: So are you going to buy me a drink?

Me: Wow it's going to be a long night for you if you're out of money already!

 

[DankNuggs]

The last time i was in the situation, I was walking through a club dancefloor, was grabbed by a chick and she was grinding me, after the song she asked I could get a drink for her and her friend...I just laughed and walked away...Don't say anything, she is no better than a vagrant on the street asking for change...

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

Buying drinks for girls is a bad idea! Your just feedin their egos becasue they think because they are hot they can get any guy to do anything for them.


true, very true! but what if they guy want to get to know the female. Yeah you can tell her to buy you a drink but I think a lot of guys use that line so it comes off as rude. I know you're not trying to impress her but if you are digging this chick you want to attack her mind in a way the she will like it. Trust me it works and didn't have to buy her the drink!

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Happened me recently:

She: "I'll give you a dance if you buy me a drink."
Me: "How about *I* will give *you* a dance if you buy me a drink?"
She: "..."
Me: "Let's just go dance"
She: "Ok!"

Her friends _did not_ like me

Osc.

 

[tx_xp]

This is a standard hustle, that is exactly what it is a hustle.

If you get out and about more you will see the same hustle expanded a bit. Go to a club and a chick tries to pick you up, she invites you somewhere else (another club). Then once you get there she expects you to pay her cover and you cover, then buy drinks once you get there.

This is a damn hustle plain and simple! These girls are no better than a beggar on the street.

If a girl asks you to buy a drink for her a good response may be to just blow her off. Never pay her cover and never buy her drinks per her requests. I do not have a problem picking up the tab for a drink if I choose to, but not on her request.

If she invites you to the bar with her and you suspect this is going to happen one subtle approach is to just hang back, she may get anxious and ask you to the bar but just state that you are fine and don’t need anything right now.

If you have been hustled a little already and she keeps trying to milk you (wasting your time also) just leave, don’t hang out for the torture.

If you get asked to pay her cover at a new club, just say that she can get her cover you were invited there. It is best to never go to a new club with a girl, the only place you should be going from the club is to one of your places or maybe to eat.

Sometimes you may get "invited" to her room for example and she may suggest that you bring a bottle of wine. This is a different situation and happens after you have had convo for a while.

 

[SamePendo]

If you want to get rid of her, tell the barman/waiter/whatever, to get her a glass of water.

 

[tx_xp]

Originally posted by SamePendo
If you want to get rid of her, tell the barman/waiter/whatever, to get her a glass of water.

Personally I wouldn't do that because it is like I am rude, she didn't ask for water. Just telling her that she can get her own drink or outright tell her that you don't work that way is not being rude rather it is not complying with her request/demand.

I do like the suggestion and it is ****y/funny but I wouldn't do it although the way that I would do it may come off as being much more harsh, but I wouldn't view my response that way but she may

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

Fellows, I hear what you are saying. But, what if you want to get to know the chick better? Neg-hits are fine at times but I know that a true Don Juan say things that will stir her interests away from the desire of getting the drinks.....So come on yall, come up with some smooth lines that will challenge her.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Seriously, these days I usually use some variance of the phrase "No, why don't you buy me a drink instead".

Take that last example I mentioned in the post above? We went dancing, she immediately stuck her tongue down my throat. Then later, when I was leaving, she demanded my number _and_ called me the next afternoon.

Now that's what I call High Interest!

Osc.

 

[Paul Owen]

Just..... Say....... No

 

[princelydeeds]

Originally posted by Eyecandie4ya
Fellows, I hear what you are saying. But, what if you want to get to know the chick better? Neg-hits are fine at times but I know that a true Don Juan say things that will stir her interests away from the desire of getting the drinks.....So come on yall, come up with some smooth lines that will challenge her.

If the only way you can get her too talk to you is by paying for her time, i.e buying a drink, then you have already lost the battle. Do you really want this chick anyway?

her: Hey why dont you buy me a drink.
me: there are 1000 better looking guys with way more money than me in this club, Im sure one of them will be happy to buy you a drink.
her: its only a drink, you cant afford one drink?
me: if its "only a drink" why are you asking me to buy you one?
her: You are the best dressed guy in here, I can tell you have money.
me: well thank you, I appreciate such a nice compliment
Her: so are you gonna get me that drink
me: sorry I think ill have to pass on that privilege
her: well can we at least dance
me: sure I'd luv too

 

[SamePendo]

Originally posted by tx_xp
Personally I wouldn't do that because it is like I am rude

I wouldnt do it either, but as I said IF you want to get rid or her.
If you dont want to get rid of her, do the c&f stuff.

 

[vdk]

yeah, when a HB says that its only worth chasing if you want a ONS or a no strings attached fukk buddy. These type of women are very unrealiable and more likely to jump you for some jerk.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

Her: So, Are you going to buy me a drink

You: Well, if i bought YOU one, I'd have to buy every other Hot girl in here one, then a lot of girls will want to fight you because they think that we're together..and yeah lets just spare us that kind of drama..wanna dance?

 

[G_S]

the scene: a loud noisy bar

her: *yelling in my ear* "will you buy me a drink?"

me: "sure you can buy me a drink."

 

[silverwex]

G_S: thats so weird man! I was about to say the same thing!

Ya got in there first tho! ;p

 

[G_S]

I have ESPN!




and the all time classic. drum roll please..


her "will you buy me a drink."

me: "no."

 

[GeekGirl]

Dam I can't believe a girl would EVEN have the balls to ask!
How sad it that.

Play like you don't speak english! and walk away!

Nothing good can come from a girl that asks you to buy her a drink.