What to say? Girl asked if I think she's slutty

[dk1990S111]

Got a text at 2:30 last night randomly from a girl I've been talking to off and on the past few weeks. Haven't fvcked her yet. I know she hangs around the bars near her a lot so wouldn't be surprised if she sleeps around a lot, but don't know her well enough to say for sure so kinda a weird question for her to ask me.

How should I respond?

 

[Epicurus]

"Why don't you show me "

 

[Fruitbat]

I hope so

 

[BeExcellent]

Don't. Just proceed as though the text never occurred. You cannot diplomatically answer that question. She seems worried about it for some reason and a response of any sort is just going to inflame the situation.

File it in the back of your mind and continue to observe her behavior. If you pay attention people always show you who they are.

 

[Trump]

Got a text at 2:30 last night randomly from a girl I've been talking to off and on the past few weeks. Haven't fvcked her yet. I know she hangs around the bars near her a lot so wouldn't be surprised if she sleeps around a lot, but don't know her well enough to say for sure so kinda a weird question for her to ask me.

How should I respond?

Trap question. She will use any response against you.

"No." - you can't have sex with her because you offended her, she's a prude.
"Yes" - you can't have sex with her because you offended her, she's a slut.

If you have to respond, you could say "What kind of question is that?"

 

[TheGambino]

Don't. Just proceed as though the text never occurred. You cannot diplomatically answer that question. She seems worried about it for some reason and a response of any sort is just going to inflame the situation.

File it in the back of your mind and continue to observe her behavior. If you pay attention people always show you who they are.

This

 

[darksprezzatura]

When in doubt and can't ignore:

"What makes you say/ask that?"

 

[Fruitbat]

That's the part which stands out.

I've had a bad experience recent having sex-talk with a woman that I hadn't (and didn't) have sex with.

Don't dither and get dragged in. Get her out.

I've never screwed a woman I had text sex talk with prior to dating properly.

They are "full" before you meet them.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

You can always use the Spock response.

"Insufficient data."

 

[Julian]

"Yeah you seem slutty"

lol. in for response.

 

[beforeimgone]

Got a text at 2:30 last night randomly from a girl I've been talking to off and on the past few weeks. Haven't fvcked her yet. I know she hangs around the bars near her a lot so wouldn't be surprised if she sleeps around a lot, but don't know her well enough to say for sure so kinda a weird question for her to ask me.

How should I respond?

If any girl is texting you at all then she is open to being fvcked. 230 am? She's desperate for your dvxk

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Tell her that she better be.

 

[old_skoolr]

OP please tell me you responded something good.

If your answer wasnt in the realm of "I dont know, come over and we'll find out"

Your doing it WRONG!!!

 

[dude99]

Got a text at 2:30 last night randomly from a girl I've been talking to off and on the past few weeks. Haven't fvcked her yet. I know she hangs around the bars near her a lot so wouldn't be surprised if she sleeps around a lot, but don't know her well enough to say for sure so kinda a weird question for her to ask me.

How should I respond?

Ignore it.

 

[Desdinova]

Ignore it.

Agreed. Ignore the question until the next day and start a new conversation with her.

 

[Harry Wilmington SLW]

My response:

"Hmmm, seems like a random question... are you saying you feel slutty?"

Yes, the old "respond to a question with a question" trick. Don't fall for giving her an actual answer - you don't win.

On the off-chance she's given you details about the x-number of guys she's been with:

"Hmmmm... and you feel that would make me view you as slutty because...?"

Just the fact that she's asking this question, though, would make me ponder how many dudes she's been with. Then again, some girls are taught to believe sleeping with more than one guy makes them look bad.

 

[Urbanyst]

Change the subject.

Ignore the question.