Its been 9 years for me. Maybe you are not as hot as you think you are. You sound like totally materialistic. You may as well use an escort if you are in that frame of mind. They are materialistic too so what do you have to lose? Its better to use an escort then kill yourself.
I see guys far worse looking and far less masculine than me with hot girls. I can't tell you how many times I've seen a hot girl I'd want to date with some skinnyfat beta loser boyfriend on her arm and thought to myself "This guy could be knocked over by a stiff breeze, is the really going out with him?" My level of attractiveness SHOULD be able to get me women that are at least kinda hot. Yet I'm failing to attract anyone despite being hotter than I ever have been. It SHOULD NOT be this difficult for me. That's what baffles me so much about this, I'm in the PRIME of my life yet I've been so starved to quality interactions with women that I feel like a virgin again. And using an escort will only make me feel WORSE, if I go that route it's an admission of defeat. Furthermore I'd have to travel literally thousands of miles to be able to use an escort legally even if I wanted to do that. Even escorts aren't an option for me. I have NO OPTIONS!
Amusing video but what was the point of posting that?
It is what we both would like to happen in real life. (ie but not the prank part). You did mention you have parents. My parents, in particular my dad helped bring me together with my ex-wife. They tried at least.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Maybe, if you are like me, but you aren't. Unless you think you will be attacked by spirits that would make you feel worst like I did.
If you are going after street-walkers and brothels then that might be correct. However, most users who hire escorts, are just paying for companionship with a woman, and what two consenting adults do in private, yadda yadda yadda, always a legal loophole.BergischerLowe said:
I really do wish women approached men more often. If women did that I would have never had any trouble dating at all. But of course I could never count on that happening in all actuality. It's so rare for women to approach men they're interested in. Sometimes I fantasize about somebody making a psyop that convinces women to approach men, but of course this will likely never happen on its own. Maybe we should all get together and see if we could come up with a legit psyop like this and get it out there somehow. After all, women keep saying they don't want to be approached in public since they're not interested in the guys approaching them, so maybe it's time for us to find a way to subconsciously convince women to just approach men themselves if they're interested in a particular man they see. There has to be a way to do that, we just all have to come together and brainstorm how we would achieve that goal.
Well I understand that some on this forum have gone to escorts and had fulfilling experiences, but going to an escort myself won't solve anything. It fails to address the fundamental root of my problems meeting women, in that I desire a stable long term relationship with a woman I'm truly excited about who feels the same way about me, and that I'm unable to fulfill this goal since I can't even meet any women regardless of whether or not I'd like to date them. Going to an escort would just be running from my problems in my case and does nothing to solve the fundamental roots of the situation I describe myself as being in and the goals I wish to achieve.
The Honeymoon phase of a relationship is normally between 6-9 months. If women are not loyal with you enough, then even if you manage to find someone, then the shelf life would probably just be 6-9 months before the novelty wears out and you start getting fed up with each other. There will also be an imbalance, normally you never get mutual attraction, it is usually one side likes the other more than the other one, is more invested and has the most amount to lose if it doesn't work o ut. Perhaps you are not looking at this properly. Have you looked at how other posters like @Hacker are doing in that department? Does he look like a happy camper to you?
Ultimately I have to accept my situation for what it is, but I worry about my ability to cope. But in any case I have to accept that I'll probably never meet the right woman for me. That'll likely be the case for me regardless of whether or not I'm able to cope. It's like one's own death; it happens whether you're scared or not.
Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yeah, like in @GoodMan32 case, one's cope can end up being a crutch and do more harm than good when it comes to meeting women. If the cope is too good, you might lose the desire to meet women altogether. (ie visiting women (who work as escorts) might make you lose deisre to meet women) In general, nothing good comes out of something like that. You have no Don Juan rag to riches story that involved using escorts as a stepping point from A to B and then overnight success.
Those four things in that list seem like the most attainable goals. Even if they don't lead to anything at the very least achieving those goals puts me in a better place than before
I doubt I've ever had a good 3 months with a gal - yes, maybe we were still a "thing" after that, but it's always been dry after that.
Yes, having the female touch - even without some type of pen!s-into-orofice mechanism - with a happy ending is highly recommended for man to stay sane (a good hand job or lap dance is very underrated). I can remember back before I was able to access this (or the orifice action
) on a regular basis for a good part of the year, and the frustration was intense. I am much more content when I am regularly partaking of this service. - and clog up the prostate pipes.Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I am not judging anything. I'm just saying I was attacked by a gang of spirits who jumped (ie attempted to possess me) me the following morning after visiting a hooker. I got jumped for a good part of December, 2014, and it took a while to recover.
It's unfair with me though. I didn't sign up for that. I just wanted to deal with a woman.
That's the whole lesson!!!!!
