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I really, really like this girl a lot, and we have been friends for about a year now, and only within the past few months have I started to like her as more than just a friend.

She knows that I like her, but I don't know if she likes me as more than a friend. I've tried talking to her online, (not about that, however), and she doesn't seem to be talking to me with the enthusiasm that she once did.

I don't know what it is, really, because she has known I have liked her for a while now, but that hasn't stopped us from talking like we normally have. It seems like she is avoiding me online, and I haven't really had a chance to talk to her in person since Monday, which was the last time we had a nice conversation.

I want to know how she feels about me because I would really like to step up our friendship.

I have never felt this way about any other girl before, and I want to pursue my feelings.

Thanks,
hockeyman16
 

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Hello Newb #203948203498

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You're smothering her, give her some space... everyone you liked before you came to this site FORGET ABOUT EM, you're gonna be moving on to better and bigger things (Trust Me).


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,whoa,read the bible .
 

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I swear, do people NOT read the "Stickies" at the fricken top of the page?

Just in case your wondering, the bible is located at the top right of your screen.

If you post another post like this, be prepared to be flamed again.

Welcome to the internet.
 

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Hey have you guys heard about some sort of DJ bible? Where can I find that?

JUST KIDDING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Non-DJ Bible Related Advice.

Look dude you need to prioritize your desires. If scoring with this girl is the end all be all for you, don't even bother, cause its going to show. Your main priority is to be happy with YOURSELF, and just have a good time. She will see this, when you two hang out together, when you are not hanging out and she things about you and what its like when you are not there. She will see that she isn't a major concern in your life, and that you really don't care what she does. For some reason this can be a powerful attractive force, that is why being a challenge is a good thing. Also it builds a lot of sexual tension which makes for some great sex.

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Originally posted by hockeyman16
I don't want sex! I just want a girlfriend.
That's fine and dandy.... just ****ing read the bible for the love of god
 

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I always try to steer away from girls I've known along time or girls in my friends family or girls Im close to in anyway its just not worth it theres so much more out there its not worth wasting your time or your emotions and if things go sour its going to be very akward. See if you can hook up with other girls first then if you still feel its worth it persue your friend but in general I wouldn't recommend it.
 

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I've been in the same situation countless times (before I found this site of course). To put it bluntly, your chances of hooking up with this girl SUCK. You're pretty desperate over this girl, right? Well, desperation to women is like fear is to dogs: they can smell it from a mile away and they HATE it. The fact that you've already been friends with her for so long doesn't help either. I think you're gonna have to find someone new.
 

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Great. That's not what I wanted to hear...I have to be with her! How do I make it work?
 

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Originally posted by hockeyman16
Great. That's not what I wanted to hear...I have to be with her! How do I make it work?
That's the mindset that makes it impossible to get with her in the first place. You shouldn't be so hung up over one girl... You're young, there will be many more. Be happy.

Oh, and the people who said to READ THE BIBLE weren't joking - your question is answered there.
 

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1) The fact that I don't want sex is NOT a lie

2) Why can't I get a straight-up response other than read the f*cking bible?

3) I may be young, but I'm 17 and have never had a g/f before, and it's killing me!

4) I like this girl a lot, and she knows it, and basically all I wanna find out is if she likes me too, cuz if she does, then I shouldn't really have a problem...
 

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Originally posted by hockeyman16
1) The fact that I don't want sex is NOT a lie

2) Why can't I get a straight-up response other than read the f*cking bible?

3) I may be young, but I'm 17 and have never had a g/f before, and it's killing me!

4) I like this girl a lot, and she knows it, and basically all I wanna find out is if she likes me too, cuz if she does, then I shouldn't really have a problem...
1. What do all guys want girls for? If you answered "to love, to hold, to cherish, just someone to be with, but no sex" then you have just entered the "get a sex change" zone!

2. Because if you took the time to "read the f*cking bible" in the first place, you wouldn't have asked your question anyway.

3. Wow, big deal! There are people on this board and in life that are into thier 20's and haven't had one yet either!!

4. "I have to be with her" isn't helping things. Read the f*cking bible. :D
 

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if you wanted a GF that bad youd spend all the time needed to read the bible

ppl like you piss me off

you want all the rewards without puttin in any of the hardwork
 

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Originally posted by hockeyman16
I really, really like this girl a lot, and we have been friends for about a year now, and only within the past few months have I started to like her as more than just a friend.

She knows that I like her, but I don't know if she likes me as more than a friend. I've tried talking to her online, (not about that, however), and she doesn't seem to be talking to me with the enthusiasm that she once did.

I don't know what it is, really, because she has known I have liked her for a while now, but that hasn't stopped us from talking like we normally have. It seems like she is avoiding me online, and I haven't really had a chance to talk to her in person since Monday, which was the last time we had a nice conversation.

I want to know how she feels about me because I would really like to step up our friendship.

I have never felt this way about any other girl before, and I want to pursue my feelings.

Thanks,
hockeyman16
Have you tried flowers? Poems? Candy? Gifts? Maybe you should buy her a free concert ticket or treat her to dinner. Yeah, that's it pay for everything. Maybe you'll get LUCKY.

Not.

She doesn't like you. She must fuking hate you kid, and I don't blame her. Grab your motha fuking balls and be a real man. She's most likely a hottie, and that's why when you say you want a girlfriend and no sex, I don't fuking believe you and you're not fooling anybody.

We're telling you to read the bible because it WORKS, and yeah, you wouldn't be asking this question that's been asked over a million times by a million guys who are too p-ssy to accept the fact that they wanna hit a girl from the back, no strings attached.

All your posts make me throw up, just read the bible and look for another girl. You've already spoiled your chances with this one.

It's harsh but that's life.
 

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FOR THE LAST TIME, I DON'T WANT SEX! I WANT TO STAY A VIRGIN UNTIL I'M MARRIED!

I just want a girl, and regardless of what you guys say, I think that I may still have a chance with this girl, but it's obvious that all of you are not willing to help. You just point to the bible and expect that to solve my problems.

It might work for some people, but for me, I think a little encouragement and realistic support would be good.

By now, you *******s should be pretty pissed off, so if you feel like blocking my account, it wouldn't break my heart.

Later.
 

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you dont even really know the first thing about what this site is about yet you want help from the ppl who are on it?

u say the bible is useless yet you havent even taken a look at it?

you are just ignorant

i am not pissed at all its funny in a pathetic way how dumb and stubborn you are being

grow up
 

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Originally posted by drixsa
you dont even really know the first thing about what this site is about yet you want help from the ppl who are on it?

u say the bible is useless yet you havent even taken a look at it?

you are just ignorant

i am not pissed at all its funny in a pathetic way how dumb and stubborn you are being

grow up
ouch.
 
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