What To Do

[GonnaDie4TheGov]

Ok im new here so i need some help....i like this girl and like my friend has known about this site and helped me with it be4 he told me bout this site and i did everything he told me and like i think it was going well but the day be4 i was gonna make the "big" move in2 askin her out another guy got to her and like that messed me up and we haven't talked much since but when she sees me in the hallway or lunch and smiles and/or waves so im thinking that shes showing interest but shes still with that other guy and she and we talked 2night and she thinks hes cheating on her and i dunno what 2 really do

I could really use some good dj advice with this one

 

[drixsa]

remember above all else keep your options open man

well u gotta try to get plans with her not phone time

too many guys use the phone as plans instead of using the phone to make plans and get out

even if its just after school or somethin to jus chill and fauck around

use your instincts and if shes feelin u than go in for the kill

doesnt matter who the BF is unless it is me, (and then i'd prolly be cheatin on her)

-DrIx

 

[GonnaDie4TheGov]

well accually it was on aim...me and her don't talk 2 much on the phone b/c i dun really want her 2 complain 2 me 2 much and 4 me 2 become an "emotional tampon" 2 her and lose all chances and ive tried 2 make plans but they've been messed up be4 and like im thinking bout trying this weekend 2 get her mind off her b/f and hopefully on me

 

[Jester]

first, start using periods.


secondly, calm down, its no big deal bro. i find no ethical problems with this because i know the time period theyve been dating, and what is it, a month? Less? No moral conflicts there.

But first im going to tell you what I would do.

I would just find another girl, and i would have done it a month ago, but youre new so ill help u with what you wanna do.

Here we go, you gotta get in close with the girl, you need to get her alone somewhere, ask her out on a "friendly" date or just go take awalk with her after school. You need to get your one on one time in to really get noticed as BF material, talking on the phone and on AIM just doesnt cut the cake.

Now when ur with her, you gotta get your kino in, your jokes in, and your deep eyecontact in. If you feel its right, let there be a silence between you with just you and her looking into each others eyes. If she holds it for 3 seconds, go in for the kiss. Dont shove your tongue down her throat, let her lead the kiss, you start with your mouth CLOSED. Touch her face and the back of her neck when your kissing her, you can also play with her hair.

Do this, and she will be yours.

 

[drixsa]

i like the way u r thinkin

-DrIx