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anour

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There is this girl who i know at University and she looks hot, i asked her for her number last year she rejected, today i walk into a class and see her, and i ask her what she been upto and all of that, while i’m speaking to her she is acting very weird idk if that’s conciously or subconciously and for a second i read her body language like she was trying to push her boobs out, does that mean she’s dropping hints that she likes me unconciously or am i analyzing it too much?
 

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Not enough information - you have given almost zero context. I will say that a woman who is interested does not refuse to give out a number. So you may be better off just moving on.

If you are at university there are parties almost every weekend. Ask her if she is going to any of them and gauge her reaction when you ask. If she seems closed off, this coupled with her refusal to hand out the number almost certainly means she is low interest. But you have plenty of other women around to go after - so do that if this happens and stop thinking about this chick.
 

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Forget about her. Let her see you slaying puzzi left and right.
 

Stuffnu

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You must like getting rejected, cause she’s not worth your time or analysis.
 

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Come on maaaaaaannnn! You got a nose bleed last year. She gets nothing, not even the slightest nod.
Don't be weird but anything more than zero attention is simpy, and needy. (If she chases, maybe).
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You're probably seeing what you want to see. Unless she's initiating, it doesn't mean much.
 

anour

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You're probably seeing what you want to see. Unless she's initiating, it doesn't mean much.
She initiated last convo and was like did you pass all of your modules for year 1
 
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