What to do with 2 girls?

[whashgood11]

So i'm in college, and there are these 2 girls (roommates) in one of my classes, and we've gone to get help on the homework once a week with the TA the past couple weeks. I find I'm pretty in my element in this situation, where its just me, these 2 girls, and the TA. I get them laughing, make jokes to the TA, neg them a decent amount, whatever. One of these girls is probably a 9 and the other is an 8.5.

Anyway, I ran into them outside of class for the first time today, and we had a pretty decent vibe going so I suggested that we have a study sesh cause we have a test in that class coming up. I got one of their numbers (the 8.5), texted her once so she got my name and number, and then she texted me back pretty enthusiastically reminding me that we need to have a study sesh this weekend (as if I forgot, haha).

Basically I have a few questions. First, how should I deal with the situation of the 2 girls? Obviously it'd be dope if I was somehow able to get a threesome thing going, but realistically that will never happen. Like should I just try to get one girl to come over, and not her friend? Or should I just have both come and see where it goes...or maybe have a wingman come along

Also, I try to keep the talk somewhat sexual at times, so they get the hint, but at the same time I haven't really had the opportunity to get physically close to them and spit real game (in our professor's office) until now, so I guess I'm wondering about how I should go about that this weekend.

Lastly, I'm wondering whether it'd be best to make a move on one of them (or both) while we're "studying," like say we should take a study break and play kings (drinking game) or truth or dare or something, or if I should just legitimately study with them and then take my chances and see if they want to go out to a party later that night and try to bring one of them back to my room after? Thanks guys

 

[whashgood11]

Any advice here? ****'ll probably happen tomorrow, so I need to decide what I'm gonna do before then...

 

[OnTheWayUp]

Nice situation you've got here, good one!

If it were me I would do one of two things, depending on how well the girls know each other. Forget the idea of a threesome... that's pretty advanced stuff and is hard to pull off when you haven't slept with either of the girls before. You should concentrate on one girl at a time rather than inviting them over simultaneously.

If the girls don't know each other particularly well and are do not have the sort of close relationship where they will share gossip with each other, you can make a move on both of them (independently of each other of course)! Your options are either:

1) You invite the girl over to study for a bit. You poke fun at each other and distract each other rather than really working, leading to a make out and more. I've never tried this myself as I prefer going for a drink (alcohol reduces inhibitions), but if the girl in question is studious and doesn't go out all that much.... you never know. I'm also in college and have a friend who swears by this. If the 8.5 wants to "study" with you, you give her the chance

2) You invite the girl out for a drink and take her back to your place afterwards. I've had success recently doing this with a 20 yr old. I pulled all the classic moves: drink --> my place --> "film" --> make out --> sex. This is a pretty standard date format where you just keep on escalating as far as you can. It works particularly well if, like me, you have a bar near your place.

If the girls know each other well, then you're well advised to choose between them rather than attempting to make a move on both. You don't want them gossiping about you and finding out that they've been seeing the same guy...

I would avoid the inviting the girl to a party route. The only time I've ever had success on a "party date" is where I had at least made out with the girl before. Parties also mean you have to deal with other guys plus her female friends at this stage rather than later on in the relationship.... why give yourself the hassle?

Alternatively, if the girls are good friends and they consistently reject your attempts to isolate them using the excuses of "study" or "a drink," you can use them as social proof at a party! If they are an 8.5 and a 9 as you say, then the amount of female attention you will get from having them around you will be considerable.

Best of luck!

 

[abcdeftutti]

just have fun

 

[whashgood11]

Thanks bro, I texted her back while I was drunk last night, and at the time what I sent sounded like a good idea, but now that I haven't heard back from her yet, I'm not so sure. It basically entailed me saying that we should definitely meet up this weekend, followed by what I thought was kind of a harmless neg, but now looking back at it might have been a little overboard...

Which brings me to an issue I've been having for a while...I find myself a lot of the time starting off well with a girl, but then fairly quickly she begins to do/say things implying that she dislikes me, not as like some ***** guy who she doesn't want to hook up with, but just as someone who is kind of mean to her. I realize that this is probably a fine dynamic once you hook up/ have sex with the girl, but I seem to be getting myself into this before then.

I think it might have something to do with the fact that after reading enough on this site, and just other **** on the internet, a lot of times I find myself treating every interaction I have with some girls (ones who I don't know that well usually) as like a sort of competition for power. Like if I do this, it would make me look like a *****, so I'm gonna say that, etc. Basically, I feel like I'm being a d!ck to them before they've gotten to know me well enough to be attracted to me...

 

[pinkNblackzf6]

Have you ever played "Quarters"???????? After the study sech with both there.Keep things fun!

 

[whashgood11]

So I still haven't heard back from her. I actually saw her at a party last night when she was on her way out with her friends and I was heading in, and she seemed pretty excited to see me, I gave her a hug, etc., didn't have much time to get anything going with her though.

Anyway, I'm wondering whether I should text her again now, cause in my last text I told her we should study today, cause I was pretty busy with other sh!t for the next couple days. Or if I should just let it be and wait until I see her next time (which probably won't be until after the exam, which would mean that I most likely would have lost my chance at hanging out and studying with her so I'd have to think of some other reason to hang out)

 

[whashgood11]

Thanks for the advice on the first post guys. But does anyone have a response to either my other questions?

 

[chocococonut]

I am recently graduated from the college scene and have since been gaming in real life. its a lot tougher and much more difficult in college, but I have been able to reflect on how i was in college as to how I am now and I'd like to hopefully enlighten you in a similar way as if I were traveling back in time and enlightening myself.

I used to think of it as a power struggle, too. She texts me so maybe I won't text back to see if she will text me AGAIN...just to see how much power I have. OR maybe I won't say "Hi" and just ignore her and see if she will approach first. This mindset is how most college kids think and thus they do not get the girl. Sometimes it works, but those girls are desperate...or weak. If you want the strong HB (a 9.0 HB which I am dating right now)...you have to just put aside the ego, not think about power, and go after what you want. Of course, this doesn't mean come off as "needy" or "clingy" yourself. But be persistent and determined. Think "Push and Pull" ...

I was a very aggressive player in college and that can sometimes come off as cold and mean to some girls. You said your negs may seem to mean. That scares girls off. Well, if you want to recover from that, you have to do some pulling. Show her that your interested without all the bs. I say just try to pull both of them at the same time, but be extremely indirect. When one finds out that you've been dating the other one, she will ask you " are you dating so-so"? Just deny it and say you're just friends. Keep going at this until one of them eventually caves and says " I like you...". Make one of them crack and that is the one you date...and take home. Make them desire you and value you by seeing how other girls value you. When a girl notices that there is another girl interested in you, or that YOU are interested in other girls, she will start to panic. Especially if she IS into you. Of course a little work on your behalf will do the trick.

So you say she has stopped texting you. Don't initiate contact for a few weeks. If you send anything before then, she will become less attracted to you because of your neediness (since she is not responding). Maybe in a few weeks she will realize "hey, what happened to such and such? I'm going to text him and figure it out"...Girls have to realize THEMSELVES that they want you. By disappearing for a while, she will start to wonder. If you keep bombarding her and chasing her without no reciprocation, she will lose interest. Guage what her interest level is at and play accordingly. All girls cave eventually. Girls are a test of your patience, control, and confidence.

 

[Szyzzlin]

Research "KINO" and use it a hell of alot on your study date and any other time. Gradually touch there arm/thigh/hair/hand. If she has a ring say "I like your ring" then grab her hand and massage it for a moment. If you're beside her studying, lean over her and rest your hand on her thigh for a moment. To get her attention, touch her arm/stomach. The possibilities are endless.

You can turn a girl into your girlfriend in one night of heavy kino. seriously. Sh*t escalates in a hurry.