What to do, when you have messed up everything???

[Allstar]

Well, I am at high school, I really like one girl, but I just don't know what should I do. I am not popular at school, she is pretty popular. That is not the reason why I like her (Someone said once that he thought I liked her because she was more popular or something) Ok, I have like ruined everything at the moment. I was a bit too pushy and she lied she had a boyfriend. Now she thought like I was stalking her or something... That is really stupid. I had like serious injury and I went to the same direction she did every day, to the center of the city and she thought I was going that road because of her. I was not. I just felt bad and walked a lot. I told her I had injury, I was pretty depressed because of that, something like that, I was like reallly stupid, so stupid of me to say so. Now everything is just messed up. I am in a dead end and have no way to go. I have tried to forget her, but I havent yet. I'm just in love. Any advice is welcome, thanks

 

[CaptainJ]

Snap out of it you fool. You're not in love, you don't even know what love means. You barely know this girl, so how can you be in love!? You are mixing up Love with infatuation/oneitis and lust. How can you have ruined everything and be at a dead end just because a girl rejected you? A true Don Juan gets rejected and shrugs it off and continues his life without a care.

Forget the girl, you're not going to win her heart over with pity of your depression/injury or by pleading your love for her. Grow some balls and read the DJ bible, especially Be a Man and Kill that Desperation By Pook.

Forget her, carry on living your life kid, it's a long road for you to becoming a Don Juan, and there will be a lot of rejection on the way. Stay off these forums for a while, read the DJ bible and articles. You need to build up your confidence, become social, motivate yourself etc.

When you actually have a genuine problem and not just some emo emotional teen whine, then come onto the forum and seek advice.

 

[cw92]

Dude, scroll to the very bottom of the page...and click the link that says

"DJ BIBLE" - bottom left

Your not "in love", just infatuated with her becuase she's pretty, I agree with CaptainJ, STAY OFF THE FORUMS, and spend that 6 weeks reading the DJ Bible, you will feel much better about yourself, and see how foolish your post was.

 

[Daniel1099]

BRO!!!


THE FUK IS WRONG IS WITH YOU!!!

i bet you did stalk her...

if anything i would of taken another route even though it may of been harder on my injury to show that im not tryin to get at her...

do what the other guys are tellin you... read the dam BIBLE!!!

i didnt really have to because i had experienced most of that sh!t from trial and error and it just came naturally....

but you really need to read it man. go through EVERY part of it. it will change the way you look at women, and how to interact with them.

then go through the archive. i think theirs like 6 pages of just really good stuff saved.

 

[Daniel1099]

Well, I am at high school, I really like one girl, but I just don't know what should I do.

what you should do is clean up your act first, build a circle of cool friends, start doing fun things on the weekend, stay busy, take up a hobby, become interesting...dont stay home and play video games all day.

I am not popular at school, she is pretty popular. That is not the reason why I like her (Someone said once that he thought I liked her because she was more popular or something)

you parentheses just scream AFC, dont be so detailed about everything, be blunt and forward, you should of said " She is more popular than me, but that shouldnt change anything"
girls that are popular are usually really hot and always have a circle of guys around them...you need to show her that you are different from everyother guy....

are you an artist? musician? athlete? whatever you are. try to be more into it. have a PASSION for something.

DONT be a poser. be genuine

Ok, I have like ruined everything at the moment. I was a bit too pushy and she lied she had a boyfriend. Now she thought like I was stalking her or something... That is really stupid. I had like serious injury and I went to the same direction she did every day, to the center of the city and she thought I was going that road because of her. I was not. I just felt bad and walked a lot. I told her I had injury, I was pretty depressed because of that, something like that, I was like reallly stupid, so stupid of me to say so. Now everything is just messed up. I am in a dead end and have no way to go. I have tried to forget her, but I havent yet. I'm just in love. Any advice is welcome, thanks

this whole thing was a giant fuk up. she LIED about havin a boyfriend...

thats a girls #1 thing to say if they dont wana get picked up...

she was
1. Disgusted in you
2. Thinks your a weirdo
3. Way to forward

you need a lot of work son.

 

[Allstar]

Thanks for advice, Im gonna read the DJ Bible. I have talked to her several times, pretty much. I know she lied about bf also. I am not playing video games all evenings, I ahvent played any for like a year at least. I am into sports, but I amnot good at it. I love to play football, I go to several practises, gym, just running sometimes. And you bet I was stalking her, thats not true. I was surprised when she told me like she thought something like that, really, come on. If our lessons end at the same time, then if I go to the city, I go past the bus stop. It is the easiest way. I have passion for sports, I am not just good at it, thats the truth. My main problem is just lack social skills. I am just too silent and also my look is not the greaest. Been to clubs a lot recently. Trying to improve myself. But it is hard. I just dont know how to have more friends, how to be funny etc. If I got these things better, everything would be much easier

 

[wj-mchster-92]

Just try new things?

Look im No 'Don Juan' by any means, i have maybe 6 - 10 girl friends and only one or two im interested in, in more than a 'friends way'... But id recommend trying something i do, some people may disagree with this but if you see a girl in school that you know but dont speak to much than why not add her on Facebook? try and get chatty to her. Or if you see your mates chatting to girls then go over and join in (JUST DONT SAY ANYTHING STUPID, BUT BE CONFIDENT.) And ask your mates if they'll help you out by bringing you into the conversation if you dont feel you can do it yourself.

YOU SHOULD TRY WITHOUT UR FRIENDS THOUGH! Me and one of my mates we always help each other out with girls, we constantly work as a team to let each other know what the situation is.. it HELPS LOADS with getting to know how girls feel or just getting chatty in the first place...

Just look at girls alot more in the eyes when you see them, let them know your interested maybe, and that should make it easier.. and you'll know if they like you in that way if u read the articles.

FORGET THE PRETTY GIRL THOUGH, SHE'LL ONLY LET YOU DOWN. There is girls out there who like YOU..

GO FIND THEM!