What To Do When She Is Genuinely Impressive?

[BillyPilgrim]

Don't completely hide your interest, try to moderate it instead (if you haven't tried this already)

 

[SargeMaximus]

Don't completely hide your interest, try to moderate it instead (if you haven't tried this already)

So it’s probably my word choice? Like saying “wow that’s amazing” is probably too strong.

 

[Velasco]

nah now ur overthinking it

 

[SargeMaximus]

nah now ur overthinking it

Ok thanks

 

[BillyPilgrim]

So it’s probably my word choice? Like saying “wow that’s amazing” is probably too strong.

Yes. Could be incongruent if you're trying to act aloof from the get-go

 

[SargeMaximus]

Could be incongruent if you're trying to act aloof from the get-go

No I wasn’t. And it’s not incongruent since it’s what I do naturally when I get excited about something or impressed.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

No it's because you had a boring convo going and didn't engage her more. Or she simply wasn't that interested.

maybe
but in this situt

Yes but how to do this without coming across as disingenuine? I thought women can smell when a guy is being fake trying to woo her

good question and good awareness of the situation
just dont act too interested try to hide your interest / attracti0n level
this is very hard, because it depends on you personally, i dont know exactly what weakness she is seeing
with more info , i can help you

 

[SargeMaximus]

maybe
but in this situt

good question and good awareness of the situation
just dont act too interested try to hide your interest / attracti0n level
this is very hard, because it depends on you personally, i dont know exactly what weakness she is seeing
with more info , i can help you

I’ll have to share screen shots of my online convos when I think it’s happening again. Thanks

 

[dude99]

So I've had this a lot over the years. And it always seems to happen when I'm trying to implement the pua tactics such as not being impressed or complimenting her right off the bat.

I should have saved the most recent online convo I had showing this, but basically I was talking to a girl who was telling me she has been playing pokemon go since it came out. And she got a sunburn the other day because she was playing it so long. She's a top tier player and since I'm a gamer, I respect anyone who can dedicate that much time to become an elite player.

So it was natural for me to be like "wow, that's impressive" I tried to taper it with things like "It's good to have a passion" hoping to get her asking for my passion and whatnot, but instead the convo just fell flat and I'm sure it's because I was impressed by her.

Keep in mind she responded to me with "hey hey babes" when I opened her so I think attraction was there initially. But this happens to me a lot. Girls have something that impresses me about them right off the bat so I turn out to be just another guy that is impressed with anything just because she has a pvssy (not the case for me but I know that's how she perceives it). Am I just supposed to fake being NOT inmpressed? What am I supposed to do in these situations?

And here i thought she was going to say she received her private pilots license when she was 14. Not be a killer at a phone app.

Dude you impress too easily.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I mean how impressive are these things if you look at it without the rose colored glasses on because you want to bang her?

Maybe you need to stop being so easily impressed by things that aren't really that impressive.

 

[Mister_Skinny_Jeanz]

I’ll have to share screen shots of my online convos when I think it’s happening again. Thanks

sounds good brotha , send it right over and i'll check it out for you

 

[Kotaix]

I really think you should save that for later when you already know her a bit.

The topic of conversations doesn't matter. It's the the meta of game that matters. You want her sexually.
You are giving her immediate approval. You're being beta.
You're not being sexual, you're being friendly.

Silence is mystery. This is why you talk 20% and listen 80%..

Once you've attracted a woman sexually, then you can talk the nerdy stuff. And I think there IS a lot of value to shared interests.

 

[Lookatu]

Keep in mind she responded to me with "hey hey babes" when I opened her so I think attraction was there initially.

I view this as a red flag and generally girls that are trash will use lingo's like "babe, hun, love, etc." when they don't even know someone yet. That's how a lot of hookers or girls that like to use guys talk.

This girl didn't seem like a good girl so I wouldn't worry about it. If she was really into you, she would've appreciated your compliment and would've asked you questions too to find out more about YOU. Pokemon is the only thing going for her and her pathetic life.

You can't win all the girls out there. Find one that appreciates you and what you do for them. My $.02

 

[SargeMaximus]

I view this as a red flag and generally girls that are trash will use lingo's like "babe, hun, love, etc." when they don't even know someone yet. That's how a lot of hookers or girls that like to use guys talk.

This girl didn't seem like a good girl so I wouldn't worry about it. If she was really into you, she would've appreciated your compliment and would've asked you questions too to find out more about YOU. Pokemon is the only thing going for her and her pathetic life.

You can't win all the girls out there. Find one that appreciates you and what you do for them. My $.02

I really don’t like the Disney sentiment on this forum. I’m not looking for the boring (I.e. “good”) girls. Having said that, I have also noticed girls that start off with that kind of talk generally don’t go anywhere for me.

but it’s important to note that I am after the hot b!tches, not girl next door, take home to mom, start a family and live in fairy-land type of girls.

 

[SargeMaximus]

sounds good brotha , send it right over and i'll check it out for you

It’s in my journal thread

 

[Lookatu]

I’m not looking for the boring (I.e. “good”) girls.

I am after the hot b!tches, not girl next door, take home to mom, start a family and live in fairy-land type of girls.

Gotcha. If that's the case, you gottta treat them like b1tches. Seems like based on some of your posts, you are trying to treat them like quality girls. And that's when things go south...

 

[SargeMaximus]

Gotcha. If that's the case, you gottta treat them like b1tches. Seems like based on some of your posts, you are trying to treat them like quality girls. And that's when things go south...

Could be. But how to treat them like b1tches?

 

[Lookatu]

Could be. But how to treat them like b1tches?

Well, in this case with the Pokemon girl, you qualified her. You could've just taken a "so what" approach to her dedication and being a top player in Pokemon and just moved onto a different subject like you didn't care. You put her on a pedestal possibly without even knowing it. How is that supposed to get you laid? She probably gotten that same compliment 100's of times. Instead of talking about something that she's interested, you could've steered the convo to a subject that you were into and see if she participates or not. Always be selfish with these types of girls and have them participate in YOUR interests.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Well, in this case with the Pokemon girl, you qualified her. You could've just taken a "so what" approach to her dedication and being a top player in Pokemon and just moved onto a different subject like you didn't care. You put her on a pedestal possibly without even knowing it. How is that supposed to get you laid? She probably gotten that same compliment 100's of times. Instead of talking about something that she's interested, you could've steered the convo to a subject that you were into and see if she participates or not. Always be selfish with these types of girls and have them participate in YOUR interests.

Ah ok, I’ll try that thanks.

to answer your question: my reason for qualifying her was me being genuine so I figured being genuine is a thing that works in seduction. But I can also be genuinely selfish too so I’ll try it

 

[Lookatu]

Ah ok, I’ll try that thanks.

to answer your question: my reason for qualifying her was me being genuine so I figured being genuine is a thing that works in seduction. But I can also be genuinely selfish too so I’ll try it

That's the big mistake you're making. Seduction and being genuine doesn't mix. They don't work together. Genuine only works if you're looking for a LTR with a quality girl. If you're only after banging, a part of seduction is molding yourself to what turns the girl on. And that is opposite of genuine.