What to do when SHE calls everyday?

[AceyR6]

I'v DJed it so well that this HB is now calling me everyday, telling me she misses me ect. How do I play this off? I'v been missing her phone calls both on purpose and by accident only to call a couple hours or a day later. Should I keep being the ever so challenge I am? Here is a previous post on the same girl.
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=37751

 

[John Juan]

if she's too clingy that's a warning sign, but definately stay a challenge if you want to keep her.
-jlc

 

[Quick]

What's the situation with the ex? Are you guys exclusive now? If not, has the subject come up since then?

Basically, what's your current mindset about her, and what has she said her mindset is about you?

 

[dj-apprentice]

I'm in the same situation. My girlfriend will call me at least two or three times a day, and it's really starting to get on my nerves.

She's an AWESOME girl, I've just DJed her SO hard that she's dying to keep my attention, and it's sort of backfiring because I'm losing interest.

I took this girl's virginity and basically got her kicked out of her house (because her super-religious parents are pretty much a$$holes), so I feel bad about breaking it off with her, but if it keeps up, I don't know what else I can do.

 

[AceyR6]

hey

She only talked about the ex because he recently aplogized to her, but she kept on mentioning how she would of done anything for the kid back in the day, then blamed it on being young and immature. Were not exclusive yet, but she did bring it up once out of the blue. Where she told me it pissed her off that I though she rejected me. She hasen't said anything verbally about being exclusive and neither will I, but it seems to be headed in that general area.

 

[netman]

My girlfriend calls me at least 2 times a day, and we speak at least an hour everynight. I only see her on the weekends because of my work and her college and work, so that kind of holds us down. I never spoke on the phone so much with any female until now, but I'm cool with it.

Besides the sacrifice of talking on the phone with her so much, she treats me like a king. A give and take kind of thing I guess. But lately I have been cutting our convo's shorter. Now when I hang up she's like, "no, not yet". I love it!!!

 

[Quick]

Well, you need to keep up what you've been doing. She probably hates the fact that she can't get you all the time, but that's the same thing that keeps her wanting you so much. Especially when you haven't even got to the point that it's exclusive yet. Once you give in to her and give her all that she wants from you, progression will be very slow. She's still very anxious about you, and you lose your leverage to control things once that stops.