im in H.S. and EVERYONE talks online to EVERYONE. The kid did it in front of the girl he was with..maybe trying to get his girl jealous but i do believe he also is attracted to my GF. My GF said it was awkward and she asked him wat he was doin and made a face. My GF is very friendly and kisses everyone (ugly people, goodlooking people) hello and goodbye so somtimes guys may take that as a signal
What to do when GF tells me about a guy hitting on her that i know
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Mr. Cardio
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take your girl and go see him face to face, tell him your girl said she does not want you talking to her no more, then leave.
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shark, if she is serious, and you do what I just told you, she shouldnt have no problem........I am telling you, I bet she is sending open signals...you guys are in h.s., you cant expect anything serious.
Francisco d'Anconia
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So how's that workin' for 'ya?
EquityPrivate
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Isn't that line great? It fits DJing in so many places.
Francisco d'Anconia
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You can say that again.
B-Lemond
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Hey guys,
thanks for all the hate. :crackup:
Anyways, telling my gf how so-and-so did this and that to me does work. And she knows it's true. Therefore, my advice does work pretty well.
O, and shark, I forgot to mention something.
Your pimp stories are not meant to be told right after she has just told you of some guy fliriting with her. This will only make you look like "o, yeah, well I got someone to flirt with me too!"
So I just say these stories out of the blue to show her that I am desireable by other girls.
When she does tell me something about some other guy this is what I say:
Her: So-and-so did this and that to me.
Me: You know you two would look sooooo cute together. I think you should go for him.
She always then disagrees with my suggestion, thus she eliminates the possibility of seeing the other guy.
thanks for all the hate. :crackup:
Anyways, telling my gf how so-and-so did this and that to me does work. And she knows it's true. Therefore, my advice does work pretty well.
O, and shark, I forgot to mention something.
Your pimp stories are not meant to be told right after she has just told you of some guy fliriting with her. This will only make you look like "o, yeah, well I got someone to flirt with me too!"
So I just say these stories out of the blue to show her that I am desireable by other girls.
When she does tell me something about some other guy this is what I say:
Her: So-and-so did this and that to me.
Me: You know you two would look sooooo cute together. I think you should go for him.
She always then disagrees with my suggestion, thus she eliminates the possibility of seeing the other guy.
The correct reaction to your girlfriend being hit on by another guy is nothing. You should show no reaction whatsoever. If she happens to tell you that something makes her uncomfortable you CAN ask her if she wants you to do something about it but you should really let her handle the situation.
It's tough I know, this dude was hitting on my girlfriend right in front of me last night and my instinct was to punch him, but why? He has good taste, can't punish him for that. Plus he doesn't really know what's up between her and I. It's not my job to make sure she remains faithful, it's my job to make sure she remains satisfied. It's her job to make sure she remains faithful.
Once I was with a girlfriend at a club when she decided to get drunk and stupid and flirt with other guys. Then she expected me to bail her out of whatever situation she got herself in. I just looked at her and smiled. She never tried to make me jealous again . . .
As for telling her about you getting hit on, I don't think that's such a great idea. Rather be a little more friendly with your other girl-friends if she starts getting stupid. Your woman should see that there is a line of women waiting to get you if she acts up(even if that's not true). Her seeing it is alot more effective than her hearing about it.
It's tough I know, this dude was hitting on my girlfriend right in front of me last night and my instinct was to punch him, but why? He has good taste, can't punish him for that. Plus he doesn't really know what's up between her and I. It's not my job to make sure she remains faithful, it's my job to make sure she remains satisfied. It's her job to make sure she remains faithful.
Once I was with a girlfriend at a club when she decided to get drunk and stupid and flirt with other guys. Then she expected me to bail her out of whatever situation she got herself in. I just looked at her and smiled. She never tried to make me jealous again . . .
As for telling her about you getting hit on, I don't think that's such a great idea. Rather be a little more friendly with your other girl-friends if she starts getting stupid. Your woman should see that there is a line of women waiting to get you if she acts up(even if that's not true). Her seeing it is alot more effective than her hearing about it.
penkitten
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she shouldnt have talked so in depth with him via text messages for it to get so odd and if it truely made her scared or angry why did she wait so long before coming to you?
trying not to hurt feelings is not an excuse if she is using the im scared of him routine.
lets say they were texting and flirting a little harmless kind of stuff, that led into him really liking her more and pulling stunts like coming up and hugging her like that, then she tells you so you can either get pissed at him and handle it or think she had nothing to do with it.
if you are one of those "the truth is out there and i have to know" kind of people ,
be a detective and investigate.
can you retrieve text messages on her phone?
if you are a "let it be " person, leave it be.
trying not to hurt feelings is not an excuse if she is using the im scared of him routine.
lets say they were texting and flirting a little harmless kind of stuff, that led into him really liking her more and pulling stunts like coming up and hugging her like that, then she tells you so you can either get pissed at him and handle it or think she had nothing to do with it.
if you are one of those "the truth is out there and i have to know" kind of people ,
be a detective and investigate.
can you retrieve text messages on her phone?
if you are a "let it be " person, leave it be.
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Go up to the guy, and without warning, while standing in front of him, rear back, and hit him square in the lower mandible (jaw) while he is unaware. IF you hit him hard enough, you should cause a temporary "short" in the brain's electrical circuitry, and his eyes will roll backwards, and he will fall either forward or backwards, depending on how long it takes him to lose consciousness after the initial blow. Hopefully, he falls on his back. Kneel on his shoulders, and start to slap him, sharply. He then should start to "come to" and when he does (He will be in a vaguely dream-like state) get in his face, and yell at him, that if he ever touches your woman again, you will beat him even harder. Spit right in his face, and as you get up, give him a good kick in the a$$ and tell him "That was an attention getter" as you leave the premesis.
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You should joke around about it if anything. If she says "some guy did ___ and i don't know what he's up to!" then i'd say "hey, maybe he'll start buying you gifts. I've been looking to get a new set of clubs." or find something else to fit in. If you laugh like you're not afraid of this guy, and you shouldn't be if you're doing your part , then find a way to joke about it.
But you should know that if this guy really doesn't get it, then you should really question the appropriateness of it and confront your gf of the matter. In the mean time, enjoy it for what it is. Another AFC who thinks he has a chance with your girl.
, then find a way to joke about it. But you should know that if this guy really doesn't get it, then you should really question the appropriateness of it and confront your gf of the matter. In the mean time, enjoy it for what it is. Another AFC who thinks he has a chance with your girl.
B-Lemond
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:crackup:
Can that really work? Making someone faint because of an uppercut?
Brainman
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Best answer of the bunch!
backbreaker
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The only one who gets it... Standing Ovation
Think about the hpyrocisy here... I can link to at least 100 posts on this forum that say "hey, this chick has a BF.. blah blah blah" and what is the general consencious answer?? If he is a chump, you have a chance... if he is d oing his job for the most part, you might as well move on, because she won't be interested.
And when the roles are reversed, and it's OUR girl getting hit on, you think you have to "show him up" or "talk to him" or something along thoose lines?
WHY?
Hell, my DAD tried to hit on my GF one night... my GF told me and I laughed... I mean, is she wants to leave me for my dad, ,by all means, go ahead, keep it in the family... But I knew she wouldn't, because she has no reason to leave/cheat/stray away because she knew what she had.
But for that to work, you have to keep in mind, it has to be more than just a mindset.. she really DOES have to understand what she has and not want to loose it, and it has to be somthing she doesn't want to loose. You can tell yourself "I'm the man" all day long, but if you don't back it up, it chagnes nothing at all.
I've had guys come up to a girl I was with while we were dancing, at a resturant, movies, you name it, it's happened... I honestly could care less... I mean, why get mad at the guy? You can't be afraid to appraoch.. what if the girl I was with was my cousin, or sister? Can't get mad at him for trying.