What to do when DJ-itude has it's highs and lows?

[squirrels]

Last Wednesday, I went to a local bar, got three girls' numbers, two of which I probably could've slept with, one I went home with.

Last Friday, I spent almost the whole night grinding with some hottie on the dance floor in the club...SERIOUS grinding.

Fast-forward one week. I went out last night to a hole-in-the-wall I like to hang out at. There were definitely girls running around, but for some reason I just WASN'T FEELING IT. Sure, I chatted up a few women and they seemed responsive, but not sexual. And I know it was my fault...I could feel it in the way my posture was slipping, my shoulders were hanging, my smile was forced. I felt kind of AFC, and although I was chilling even without the chix, it did feel like an awkward low compared to what I was last week.

I seem to have been stuck in this cycle for a while...a cycle of highs and lows. And it seems like it's been pulling progressively higher, and I have a feeling the next "upswing" is gonna be something else, but I just don't like the idea of being set on this DJ-rhythm where I can't turn this attitude on and LEAVE it on.

Anyone else ever feel like this? When you swing to the low point of your "cycle," what do you do?

 

[Golden Arms]

What does a basketball player do when he's in a slump ? Keep shooting, of course, and you'll start making shots again before you know it

 

[Eternal]

Everyone has highs and lows. They pass with time. Like Golden Arms said, keep shooting and you'll be scoring again shortly.

 

[NewMan]

all in the game

IT's part of being a DJ.

Things can't go smooth all of the time - but thats where the real DJ's stand up and are counted.

How we react to these temporary lows is what makes the DJ. We must stick to the plan, stick to the teachings. Not get desperate - thats the key.

Confidence.

I went through a 2 week low, but hit the mark again on Friday...

 

[iqqi]

when you are hitting a low, maybe it means that you should focus your energy elsewhere for a moment.

 

[princelydeeds]

Life has ups and down, there are days when your game is tight and there are days when the game is forced. Accept it for what it is and keep moving forward. It doesnt make you lame cause you arent on every day. focus on just being happy, have fun with your friends when your not on. Or find sum fat ugly chick and practice DJ tactics on her, its amazing when I talk to a woman who is fat and ugly I feel like a Jedi knight doing Jedi mind tricks. Soemtimes thats all it takes for a pick me up.