What to do when a woman say "I love you"?

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"Uh, thanks?" or "So do I." always worked well for me.
 

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ok thans, but I put another question.Aftrer a girl say "I love you", what should I say/do to make things farward without say "i love you too? Maybe I don't want to say "I love you" because I don't, but I would like to kiss her.
 

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ok thans, but I put another question.Aftrer a girl say "I love you", what should I say/do to make things farward without say "i love you too? Maybe I don't want to say "I love you" because I don't, but I would like to kiss her.
"That is a worthless statement without some tongue wrestling."
 

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Posts are becoming stranger and stranger. And they’re reminding me just how shortchanged and socially stunted the young generation is.

What do you say? Whatever you want to! How’s that? Say nothing. Say you love her if you do! Crack a joke! Smile!

Then there the the other autistic posts with some version of, “How do I act?” Act how you want to!

What is going on here? I want to know.
 
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Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Posts are becoming stranger and stranger. [snip] What is going on here? I want to know.
The more people live in a virtual world, the more they forget (or never learn) how to interact in the real world.
 

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So she tells you that she loves you but you're afraid to kiss her because of fear of rejection?

Has this actually happened?
Some posters difficulties go beyond dealing with women.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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So she tells you that she loves you but you're afraid to kiss her because of fear of rejection?

Has this actually happened?
Women are very easy to turn off, and by be scared to "doing the wrong thing" I do nothing

Happened that some girls, after appreciating me, refused my kiss
 
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Happened that some girls, after appreciating me, refused my kiss
If they refuse intimacy after 'appreciating you', they are not appreciative but just polite / bad at rejecting / interested in you for other reasons than why you're interested in them.
 

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So she tells you that she loves you but you're afraid to kiss her because of fear of rejection?

Has this actually happened?
Seems like if she says “I love you” then you haven’t been “rejected”. What’s the worry?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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