What to do when a guy doesn't want you talking to his group of girls?

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Last night I went to a bar with a friend and I did a couple approaches on my own(he's not into pick-up). I did one approach where I talked to a group of three young women and I was basically talking to one girl most of the time. I don't think she was initially into me, but she was laughing and playing along with the conversation. And I just will keep talking now. I'm getting to the point where I'm not running out of things to say and my opener is "Hi, my name is D". I'm dropping routines and MM game.
I talked to this girl for a few minutes, and I was going to try and isolate her from the group shortly. Then one of the guy friends comes up. I introduce myself and he tells me "I'm with them tonight". I keep talking to him, he tells me this again, and turns his back on me and he's in front of the group. So the guy just brushed me off for some reason, probably because he was trying to get laid with one of them. How do you counteract this without starting a fight? Would AMOG tactics be the best in this situation, and would it have been smart to stay in set even with the guy disapproving of me?
I felt like I was getting somewhere and then comes the guy friend who doesn't approve of me. He looked like your stereotypical frat boy, and I'm clearly not one of them. But they're always with the hottest women, so I gotta keep approaching groups like this. I was in a college town last night.
So, what to do when a guy doesn't want you talking to his group of girls?
 

Samuel Xiao

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Make a fight with him,but it's impetuous.If the girl is willing to go with you,but the guys dont agree.Then you can fight with them.Of course,you need some faithfuls there to help.Lol,good luck.
 

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The best thing to do would be to blow the guy out when you get a second alone with that girl.

Say something like "sorry, I was gonna talk to you more, but your boyfriend over there was marking his territory."

If she says "He's not my boyfriend, " you say something like "Oh, really? He was acting like he owned you or something. Hell, I thought he was gonna pee on your leg."

Doing this would make that guy look really possessive and jealous, and girls HATE that.

Or, if you wanted to amog him, say something like "Oh, sorry bro. I didnt realize you OWNED these girls."

Getting in a fight about it wont score you any points with the girls, but if you like to fight, keep calling him out for being a possessive douchebag.
 

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I'd probably tell the group: "I must warn you. I know Boxing, Karate, Kung-fu, Judo and several other violent words. No where where we?"

Most likely he saw you as no threat to himself. He wouldn't have played Mr. Tuffy if you were there with a group of guys or were jacked and bigger than him.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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damn thats a tough one dude, cant say ive had a guy blatantly c0ck block me like that. I think horaholic by far gave the best advice. Just walk off then try to get your girl solo later on and say exactly what he told you.

I usually ignore the guy friends as they just get jealous and threatened, but i have had some luck befriending them. If seem chill and we hit it off ill ask at some point if the girl im after is with anyone. One time this dude gave more props for asking cause it was really respectful and that she didn't but he would put in a good word for me.
 

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horaholic has the right idea.

I'd probably just move on, assuming pride didn't get in my way. CB from other males still confuses me.

What a douche.
 

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That's crazy. I woulda said " That's awesome. Me and girl are choppin it up right quick. If you could excuse us because you are in my way"

I would say that but if the dude had something else to say it'd probably be a fight straight up. What kind of queen dude would c0ck bl0ck like that?
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
That's crazy. I woulda said " That's awesome. Me and girl are choppin it up right quick. If you could excuse us because you are in my way"

I would say that but if the dude had something else to say it'd probably be a fight straight up. What kind of queen dude would c0ck bl0ck like that?
Yeah, it kind of pissed me off later on. I'll probably have to deal with it more because here a lot of the girls are in groups of 6-8 with guy friends. I'll have to AMOG them next time, even if I'm alone. The guy wasn't much taller than me, and just a little bigger than me. I've trained in boxing but I've never used it in real life on anyone. I'd rather not use it, but things happen, and I can't let guys like this try to walk over me just because they don't like what I'm doing.
 
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