What to do when a cute female acts bratty and has negative body language?

[badsmellingbob]

It seems like the girls that were most into me (usually the younger ones, not so much older) have often closed they're body language, avoided eye contact, went out of they're way to ignore me, and acted like they just can't stand being in the same room with me, which goes against what just about every ebook on the topic has to say. A lot of times the ones who are into me have acted like a pain in the ass. It's frustrating when I can see that they're into me, but they just act like brats. How should I deal with women who do that?

I'll still see some clear cut IOIs, even through the games. Prolonged eye contact is one of the easiest to spot, but it's also easily faked. I always hear eyes dilate if someone is attracted but is it really possible to see it without scientific tools? Is that even a practical tool? What body language signs should I display? 99% of webpages are on how to spot body language, but very few even mention what you should do to display intimacy and sexuality to women.

 

[btownbuck2012]

and we sit here and wonder why women act like stuck up cvnts all the time.

Dude you're ADMITTING this girl is acting like a total b!tch and you're trying to figure out ways to DEAL with it?..............WHY?!

for christ sakes man. Would you put up with sh!t like that from a guy? NO. Don't make yourself a door mat for the SLIGHT chance of getting your d!ck wet. Forget about these idiot girls who treat you this way. I know it's a RADICAL concept but why not find a girl who treats you with respect?

 

[Mike32ct]

Agreed.

and we sit here and wonder why women act like stuck up cvnts all the time.

Dude you're ADMITTING this girl is acting like a total b!tch and you're trying to figure out ways to DEAL with it?..............WHY?!

for christ sakes man. Would you put up with sh!t like that from a guy? NO. Don't make yourself a door mat for the SLIGHT chance of getting your d!ck wet. Forget about these idiot girls who treat you this way. I know it's a RADICAL concept but why not find a girl who treats you with respect?

 

[Mike32ct]

Don't get too hung up on the body language or eye contact thing. You can sometimes pull chicks that initially gave you ZERO IOIs.

Unless you have like 10/10 vision or are right up in her face, it's pretty difficult to monitor her pupil size lol.

When you talk to her, does she turn her body towards you? That is a good sign. The best sign (and this only works if you're seated like at a bar or on a couch at a club or party) is when she turns her body (especially her knees) to face you and her legs are open. This is an unconscious "invitation."

 

[gaspipe]

Another is when they start playing with their hair the moment they see you or get fidgety and nervous.

But yes some chicks who I found out liked me alot after the fact didnt give me the light of day and even seemed to dislike me. Go figure.

 

[bigneil]

Short answer: next.

Long answer: Girls can't fake multiple body language signs. Remember though, unless there are several signs at once it's not enough to "read".

Once you learn to read body language properly it's like mind reading. You can pick girls out of the crowd or at the store because they will have "told" you how they feel. It even works to see which strippers are playing you and which actually like you.

Then you won't waste time on girls who give ANY bad body language like this one!

 

[gaspipe]

Short answer: next.

Long answer: Girls can't fake multiple body language signs. Remember though, unless there are several signs at once it's not enough to "read".

Once you learn to read body language properly it's like mind reading. You can pick girls out of the crowd or at the store because they will have "told" you how they feel. It even works to see which strippers are playing you and which actually like you.

Then you won't waste time on girls who give ANY bad body language like this one!

I think im pretty good at reading female body languange but am willing to get new insights.

What particular cues or signs do you look for in reading positive body language?

 

[floydb25]

What you say is true. These girls are basically jerks, and are attracted to the same type of person. This is how they flirt, and deal with relationships. They'll treat you like crap, act all snobby, play games, etc, while they're trying to have sex with you and what not. They'll flirt with you through insults. Yes, they're interested, but they're also jerks. It's how they operate. So either dish it back, or find someone better.

I'd also like to add that this is VERY common among young attractive women. They don't have the maturity or respect, so they basically act like brats. Young people in general...

 

[badsmellingbob]

Once you learn to read body language properly it's like mind reading. You can pick girls out of the crowd or at the store because they will have "told" you how they feel.

I've read some stuff on it, it all says about the same thing. How do I get to that point of mastery? Do ebooks really help? I can tell if a girl's nervous, I can see they're eyes lower if another female talks to me, but there's a lot I want to improve on

 

[Aaron B]

How do I get to that point of mastery?

patience

time

experience

effort

observation

reflection