I've known this girl for a few months now, and recently our conversations have been very flirty and she's shown a a lot of IOI's (we're both 18, seniors in high school). Last night, I went over to her house to watch a movie, which was our second time hanging out alone. Her parents went out to dinner, and her little brother was in the basement with some of his friends, so we watched the movie in the living room. Occasionally, her brother and dog would come and ****block, but I was still able to escalate. We didn't have sex, but we ended up making out for a good 30 minutes on her couch, mostly with me on top of her. After this, we sat and talked for 20 minutes with her lying on me and my arm around her. Then, her parents came home, and I left 10 minutes later after kissing her goodbye.
I’m relatively new to pickup, so my question is how can I turn this into an LTR? I don’t see her often in school besides the occasional pass-by in the hallway, so most of my contact with her comes from texting and hanging out on the weekends (we have mutual friends that we usually hang with every weekend, that’s how we started talking). I’m considering texting her saying good luck for her dance recital later today, but I feel it could be too soon and come across as needy. If I don’t text her, I might not see her in school to talk. I already have a little bit of a player/douche reputation in my school, I don’t want her to think that I just used her to hook up.
I’ll definitely text her on Wednesday or Thursday to make weekend plans, but how should I talk to her sooner so I don’t come across as either too needy or too much of an *******? I think I’ve done a good job keeping my frame and getting her very interested in me, but I would like to turn it into an LTR as I do really enjoy spending time with her.
I’m relatively new to pickup, so my question is how can I turn this into an LTR? I don’t see her often in school besides the occasional pass-by in the hallway, so most of my contact with her comes from texting and hanging out on the weekends (we have mutual friends that we usually hang with every weekend, that’s how we started talking). I’m considering texting her saying good luck for her dance recital later today, but I feel it could be too soon and come across as needy. If I don’t text her, I might not see her in school to talk. I already have a little bit of a player/douche reputation in my school, I don’t want her to think that I just used her to hook up.
I’ll definitely text her on Wednesday or Thursday to make weekend plans, but how should I talk to her sooner so I don’t come across as either too needy or too much of an *******? I think I’ve done a good job keeping my frame and getting her very interested in me, but I would like to turn it into an LTR as I do really enjoy spending time with her.