What to do in this situation?

gsj23421

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Warning: A bit of a long post.
Here is my situation with girls. Please check it out and give me some advice:
- junior in h.s., really good looking, i have alot of confidence, not sa
-had a bunch of girls interested in me in the past, my inexperience screwed me over but i learned from my mistakes.
- switched schools alot, none of them had many girls, most of them have moved abroad
- my school now only has 5 girls in each grade (theyre all really ugly and sa and the few hot ones, i put the moves on them but they arent interested)
- ive been on 1 date, have made some intimate contact with a bunch of girls. (aka touching and hugging)
- i use every opportunity to talk and flirt with all girls and women of any age to gain practice. im good at flirting but not good at just on the spot normal convo with girls, my text game sucks.
- i feel like alot of convos. i have with girls are just full of flirting, nothing else (you get the picture)
- im not into the "party scene" im working hard to get into a good college first. in my free time though, i pursue my passions (construction, taekwondo, tennis).
- its easier for me to talk to college girls and women than h.s. cuz of the maturity level for me.
- i plan on going to a really large college for "obvious reasons" (though mostly for academic reasons)
you prob. get the basic picture, i dont know am i doing something wrong? what can i do to get more girls? i feel a real "disconnect" in my convos. with most girls i talk to.

I've been through so many life experiences and situations in my life i feel more mature than most kids my age. (i.e. alot of people tell me i have the vocabulary of someone 4 or 5 years older than me) please tell me what should i do differently to get more girls? the lack of girls in my life, and not getting laid is painful at times. srs answers only. also at times im not sure if i'll ever succeed at getting a gf in my life though im optimistic about the situation.
 

idoloveromance

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I think that you should go out on parties, but not a lot of parties because you might screw up with your studies. first of all, women like men who can converse properly. men who has a sense of humor and who makes sense when they talk to them. so I suggest that you talk to women just for the sake of conversation, not just all flirting.
 

gsj23421

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while i know practice is the key and even possibly the solution, i talk to alot of girls but have trouble bringing "meaning or depth" to at least part of at least 1 conversation i have with any given girl. in other words i have trouble creating a "pathway" to and reaching a convo. point further than the basic flirting with her or asking each other questions about each other. (getting her to open up to me and us conversing with each other rather than the usual me just conversing with her is the big problem here, when i talk to girls, i feel as though my convo. with them is really "shallow" and im usually the one doing all the talking. i dont really know what else to say or ask to a girl to help me progress in my conversations with any given girl). also maybe its just that i haven't really found the right girl yet since im not really interested in h.s. dating, but definitely want to ramp things up in college; as i have other priorities in my life at the moment. any advice or tips?
 
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