what to do during a movie?

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Okay, so I'm going over this girls house tommorow and she wants to watch a movie. Now when she starts the movie shold my arm already be on her where shold i start sitting and how should i work the kino? help me plz!!
 

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No arm yet....wait until the after the movie starts. Gradually kino if you plan to kino. Don't do it too much or else the kino may lose it's value.

Good Luck:cool:
 

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To answer your question:
During a movie, you watch it... DUH!

Of course I'm sure you know that ;)

You'll want to fluff a little and kino a little before the movie, that way its not too awkward if you kino her during the movie.

Don't ask her if you can touch her, be sure of yourself, if you're feel that whatever you are doing is right then it's right, she has to enter your world.
 

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When the movie starts, make sure you're both comfortable and pretty close to each other. Odds are, if you don't do anything to weird, she will lean her head on your shoulder or something like that sometime during the movie. If things start goin downhill (she moves away from you or something like that) just find out where the bathroom is and use it. When you come back, sit down close to her and proceed with the movie.

I like to start by holding her hand and sort of massaging it. Like move your thumb in little circles on her palm. Eventually you can move your hand up on to the wrist, which is one of those subtle, unknown "erogenous" zones.

If she's receptive to the hand massage, I usually put my other hand on her thigh (another ignored erogenous area). Start about midway, and maybe inch it up. But not too much or it might creep her out a little.

I think that the key to doing this is to be confident. Dosn't look at her for approval after taking her hand or something. Jut keep watching the movie as if you aren't doing anything out of the ordinary.
 

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okay, thanks guys but what do you mean by fluff a lil before the movie? and what types of kino do you think i should use beforehand?
 

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Well, I went out with a girl yesterday to the movies. I was wanting to kino, but I kept waiting for her to meet me halfway. The movie started and I was like "forget waiting" so I just tapped her with my hand and held my hand up. She grabbed it and leaned on me. We cuddled throughout the movie.
 

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watch a scary movie, that takes it hands down. if shes the kind that gets scared shell be all over you whether she wants it or not.
 

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Originally posted by Anirak
Well, I went out with a girl yesterday to the movies. I was wanting to kino, but I kept waiting for her to meet me halfway. The movie started and I was like "forget waiting" so I just tapped her with my hand and held my hand up. She grabbed it and leaned on me. We cuddled throughout the movie.
Learn from this.

Cut the crap, guys, the most direct way is the best. If she digs you, put your arm around her from the start. And it's all you from there.
 

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dude, put your arm around her then see if she likes it or not. if she likes it then she might move closer to you,smile, or kinda rest her head on your shoulder. then you shoul dmake out with her. firts make some jokes about the stupid characters in the movie, then lock eyes and dont pay much attention to the movie. lock eyes and you can just tell if she wants to kiss you or not.
 

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Originally posted by intha_burbz
dude, put your arm around her then see if she likes it or not. if she likes it then she might move closer to you,smile, or kinda rest her head on your shoulder. then you shoul dmake out with her. firts make some jokes about the stupid characters in the movie, then lock eyes and dont pay much attention to the movie. lock eyes and you can just tell if she wants to kiss you or not.
okay but waht if she doesn't like it, wouldn't it be awkward if you go to put you arm around her and she like pulls away?
 

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Try to make it look playfully obvious. Act like you're trying to be smooth about putting your arm around her. If she likes it, just leave it there, if she doesn't like it, you can play it off as a joke.
 

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Originally posted by toddC
okay but waht if she doesn't like it, wouldn't it be awkward if you go to put you arm around her and she like pulls away?
Make a move, think of all that you can gain by making a move. What do you have to lose other than your virginity?
 

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Are we men here or p*ssies?

My question is this: how could you NOT put your arm around her and hold her during the movie??

Seriously, EVERY movie date I've been going on, whether in the theater, her house, my place, wherever!, my arm is around her within the first 15-20 minutes!

You gotta change your perception of what is "awkward." Think of it as totally natural...and guess what, it WILL be natural, both to YOU and HER.

I've never had a girl pull away from this.
 

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Are we men here or p*ssies?

My question is this: how could you NOT put your arm around her and hold her during the movie??

Seriously, EVERY movie date I've been going on, whether in the theater, her house, my place, wherever!, my arm is around her within the first 15-20 minutes!

You gotta change your perception of what is "awkward." Think of it as totally natural...and guess what, it WILL be natural, both to YOU and HER.

I've never had a girl pull away from this.
Your right and now that I think of it, whenever I am out I always at some point in the night end up withmy arm around a girl because I do it naturally and in a playfully kinda way...how woudl this be any diffrent, thanks you actually put it in perspective for me lol :)
 

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i don't like putting my arm around women unless we are walking, wtf can you really do with your arm around her? i mean, it's coo if you aren't trying to fu*ck...otherwise, i don't see a point to it.

grab her arm and put it around you and then make her lay out on the couch so that you're laying beside her. this way you have access to her entire body with both hands...just start rubbing her legs and stomack softly and ****...after a while, put your head on her tities a lil bit, and then move your hand there...don't grab them...just move it around her bra or some ****. if you can listen to her breathing, move your hands according to it...if she is breathing harder then go further, otherwise find another spot...after you have touched her tities and the inside of her theighs. grab her head and start kissing her on the lips...and bam it's on...

if she don't let me touch her titie on the first try, then ill just chill, hold her, and watch the movie. i don't even try again...she would have to call me for me to **** with her after that...i hate chasing women...

and yes, this **** will work on the first meeting with a b*tch if she is comfortable around you..
 

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Just be a man and act like it, having a hand around her puts her in a position in which you protect her.
 
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