what to do. cancer - girl stopped showing signs
I´m pretty young 23, but struggled with health have prevented me to get close to women.
I have a rare noncontagious neurological desease that creats lumps inthe nerves. My first surgery was 10 years (i lived in Spain then) ago when i was only 13. I had to remove a lump from my right arm, the doctor accidentally brock my cubital nerve wich made my fingers in my hand curve down. i had to to reconstructive surgery. In 2001 another surgery now in that hand to do transfer of tendons.
This year was the worst, I was living in NY but i knew I was going back to my country Brazil. This year I had to remove a big lump under my left armpit, and i found out it was cancer (sarcoma) just 1 week prior my birthday. After the radiation treatment I went to Brazil and 2 months later I met a great girl at the gym (in the condo I live) studying to be a doctor. she had a boyfriend then so in consideration i kept it as friends. When she broke up she started showing some signs that she like me. She knew i faced cancer at the beginning of the year. When it started to get better, I get the results from the routine checkups. Thats when I get another bomb. I had to go again through surgery at the same place, because it probably was comming back. I went to blow off some steam at the gym and after and she asked me what happended.
Now is the problem she is in canada where she will stay until march. I talked with her on MSN and she still showed some sigs, but now she dissapeared. I know she goes online because we both have orkut.
I still do not have the results for the pathology ( I´m afraid its cancer again) if its is cancer I have to go through chemo.
How do I deal with this with her? If she asks me why this is all happening?
Please help.
Sorry for the long post.
I´m pretty young 23, but struggled with health have prevented me to get close to women.
I have a rare noncontagious neurological desease that creats lumps inthe nerves. My first surgery was 10 years (i lived in Spain then) ago when i was only 13. I had to remove a lump from my right arm, the doctor accidentally brock my cubital nerve wich made my fingers in my hand curve down. i had to to reconstructive surgery. In 2001 another surgery now in that hand to do transfer of tendons.
This year was the worst, I was living in NY but i knew I was going back to my country Brazil. This year I had to remove a big lump under my left armpit, and i found out it was cancer (sarcoma) just 1 week prior my birthday. After the radiation treatment I went to Brazil and 2 months later I met a great girl at the gym (in the condo I live) studying to be a doctor. she had a boyfriend then so in consideration i kept it as friends. When she broke up she started showing some signs that she like me. She knew i faced cancer at the beginning of the year. When it started to get better, I get the results from the routine checkups. Thats when I get another bomb. I had to go again through surgery at the same place, because it probably was comming back. I went to blow off some steam at the gym and after and she asked me what happended.
Now is the problem she is in canada where she will stay until march. I talked with her on MSN and she still showed some sigs, but now she dissapeared. I know she goes online because we both have orkut.
I still do not have the results for the pathology ( I´m afraid its cancer again) if its is cancer I have to go through chemo.
How do I deal with this with her? If she asks me why this is all happening?
Please help.
Sorry for the long post.
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