blackhatter
Don Juan
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i ended things with my ex about 6 months ago after several breaks (from both ends). i found out about a guy she hooked up with towards the end of our relationship.
Sure, it bothered me for awhile but I eventually got over it. Now basically she's just an fbuddy who comes over maybe 1 - 2 times a week just to **** and occasionally talks of the possibility between us.. really not that much though. she's stopped ever since I shot down the possibility of myself dating her again.
Anyways this weekend I heard through the grapevine that she went to this guy's college who she cheated on me with. Lately she had been texting this dude when she came over to **** and I just ignored it. I'm not a jealous type of guy. Now I'm no dumby, so I know they are probably having sexcapades and for the FIRST TIME I DON'T CARE! It's weird I've been thinking about it all weekend to try to see if I get upset, and I have no emotion even if I picture her blowing this guy and loving it.
It's great, but I'm a little puzzled what to do from here. I dated this girl for 2 years so I know her very well. When she gets back (maybe even tonight), she's going to act like nothings happened and want to chill and **** again.
Do I continue using this girl as an fbuddy, or should I just get rid of her before things get too nasty?
Sure, it bothered me for awhile but I eventually got over it. Now basically she's just an fbuddy who comes over maybe 1 - 2 times a week just to **** and occasionally talks of the possibility between us.. really not that much though. she's stopped ever since I shot down the possibility of myself dating her again.
Anyways this weekend I heard through the grapevine that she went to this guy's college who she cheated on me with. Lately she had been texting this dude when she came over to **** and I just ignored it. I'm not a jealous type of guy. Now I'm no dumby, so I know they are probably having sexcapades and for the FIRST TIME I DON'T CARE! It's weird I've been thinking about it all weekend to try to see if I get upset, and I have no emotion even if I picture her blowing this guy and loving it.
It's great, but I'm a little puzzled what to do from here. I dated this girl for 2 years so I know her very well. When she gets back (maybe even tonight), she's going to act like nothings happened and want to chill and **** again.
Do I continue using this girl as an fbuddy, or should I just get rid of her before things get too nasty?