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DonJuanjr

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like today, there were a few women I locked eyes with and we smiled. Then what? I don’t wanna approach becauseI’ve been through that before and it doesn’t work.
Wasn't the approaching before you racked up your notch count? I suggested before, to give it a try again. You may have different results.
 

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Yes but that’s still an approach. I don’t want to approach.

like today, there were a few women I locked eyes with and we smiled. Then what? I don’t wanna approach becauseI’ve been through that before and it doesn’t work. So what just say hi and that’s it?
Although you do have a piont, i do wanna say that it's tricky if not self sabotaging to put yourself in a category and stay there.

We all say mike tyson is a natural born killer, but perhaps he was a natural for 15% and the other 85 was hard work ,training and maming the game his second nature.

I don’t want to have conversations.


I doubt I’m emotionally available tbh. The **** I’ve learned over the course of my life makes it almost impossible to relate to anyone.

But as for smiling and waving. Like I said, I did smile to 2 women today (one of them I saw twice and we smiled twice but she had a kid so fvck that), I don’t see why I’d have to wave, and because of the approaching I’ve done in the past I know that amogs can swoop in once you open a woman and muscle you out OR that can challenge you outright. I prefer to be covert for this reason
I must be missing something. What is that you are after Sarge??
 

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How have you met women in the past?

Can you describe what your perfect interaction with a woman would be?
 

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How have you met women in the past?

Can you describe what your perfect interaction with a woman would be?
In the past all my lays, every single one of them, came
From OLD. Perfect interaction would be to screen her for FWB receptivity and then exchange numbers and go to sexting after I’ve left and set up a first meet/fvck (that’s how I did it with online)


Although you do have a piont, i do wanna say that it's tricky if not self sabotaging to put yourself in a category and stay there.

We all say mike tyson is a natural born killer, but perhaps he was a natural for 15% and the other 85 was hard work ,training and maming the game his second nature.


I must be missing something. What is that you are after Sarge??
I said above what is ideal but I don’t know if it’s possible.
 

SargeMaximus

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Craigslist? Except people flag your posts quickly.
Yeah I have a Craigslist equivalent. I’ve gotten quite a few lays off there tbh but only when I reply to a girls add and none have replied to mine. Here’s my current one. Pic below
 

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