what things contribute to a woman coming?

[randalll]

obviously there are a number of things that can cause her to orgasm. the main ones that come to mind are the size of the guy and how long the sex lasts. but what are the other less obvious ones?? how much does physical appearance account for.. face and body? list any others
cheers

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

Many guys, myself included, come to regard missionary as the boring sex position. But I have learned that missionary is the easiest way to make her cvm. Sex is a dance that begins when you are hanging out with her, not once you get naked. Jitterbug has it right - "make her laugh, make her think, make her cvm." If there is a formula, it would read like

Psychological Stimulation/Kino-Foreplay-Oral-F her

Tongue that pvssy good, then fvck her missionary first. Once you open her up for a lil bit, reach down with your left and rub her cl!t with the pad of your middle finger while you are fvcking her. A circular finger motion with rapid directional changes will encite and entice her to forget about the guy at work.

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

Ahh, Grasshopper... you have much to learn!

About 80% of a woman's ability to climax during sex or foreplay is... IN HER HEAD!

There are a million and one factors that can prevent her from reaching orgasm. First and foremost... she must be comfortable with herself, and with you. This why women typically want to be in relationships before having sex with someone. Of course, most of the guys here want sex before the relationship... which means she stands very little chance of gaining anything from it, and increases her vulnerability.

Environment: It is important to feel safe and secure at your chosen 'location' as worrying about getting caught may take priority over orgasm. Unlike men, most women need more than just a few minutes of manual stimulation.

Take your time: This is a big one! Foreplay, touching, (and not just the obvious areas, either) can and should be extended beyond the "She's wet, Let's go" point. You don't just want to turn on the engine, but let the motor warm up for a while before driving! The more time you can spend with her before actually having intercourse, the better her chances of having an orgasm.

Don't be a Jackrabbit! While men orgasm very easily through vigorous stimulation, women do not respond the same. Slow, steady, consistent stimulation works best for most women. Think about it this way... if you're too fast she can be too caught up in worried about getting hurt, or just holding on for dear life, instead of trying to orgasm!

I *really* hope this helps you. However, do NOT pressure a woman to orgasm. Putting pressure on her by asking, "Are you close" every five seconds will automatically put her further and further away from orgasm. DO ask her to speak up and mention what she likes or doesn't like, because every woman is different.

I, personally, have only ever orgasmed with one partner. It's funny though, because every guy I've ever known has consistently made all of his partners climax. I highly doubt this. Women are notorious for faking, and really, they're only doing themselves a disservice. I'm not trying to discourage you, but rather, point out a woman's desire to please and perform can ultimately lead to them short-changing themselves... and you.

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

Every woman is different. Doggy style can be better or worse in different ways. For some people, this position is more physically stimulating, but for a woman it may not give them as much pleasure in another way: you can't look in each other's eyes or kiss. Some women can't have an orgasm from purely vaginal stimulation, and so you've got to work their ****oris as well. Also, don't forget the G-spot (not a myth), which can give women more pleasure as well.

PS: The best orgasm I've given a woman was when stimulating her g-spot and ****oris at the same time (with my hands). There are some things your penis just isn't as good at (specific, localized stimulation).

 

[Captain]

She has to be attracted to you, and she needs to be in the mood. If she is attracted to you, you will be able to get her in the mood.

Lots and lots and lots AND LOTS of foreplay. Especially lots of oral sex. Learn where her erogenous zones are, kiss her all over.

Do kegels so you can last longer and continue after an orgasm. They are very very useful.

 

[joshlavarn2009]

Talk Filthy

You kinda need to multitask.

Talking dirty and domineering tends to get women wetter than looking like an abercrombie model.

Most guys are afraid to offend her if they talk dirty... just jump into it with total confidence. Treat her like you are in a porno movie with her. Demand she sucks you off, deep throat, pull her body around to try out different positions. Never ask her what she wants to try or what she is comfortable with. Treat her like she is a warm love doll, without a conscience or brain.

I think calling her a "Naughty Girl" tends to work best with chicks because if you call her your slut or *****, she could get annoying girly with you in some cases.

Just watch a sleazy porno and copy what they do. I know that sounds a little lame, but a girl will really dig it, girls love screwing a ****y jerk that only cares about himself. Concentrate on the ****, honestly it is probably easier to get her off with your hands than your **** in alot of cases.

 

[Leporello]

Some women have alot of trouble cvmming through sex. Yeah sometimes it's mental, but of all the girls I've slept with the most prudish one came the easiest and the slvttiest one never came during sex at all.

physically, the two keys are the cl1t and wetness. If you can get her really wet and stimulate the cl1t, you'll be golden. The trouble is that sometimes your bodies don't fit together that way.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

obviously there are a number of things that can cause her to orgasm. the main ones that come to mind are the size of the guy and how long the sex lasts. but what are the other less obvious ones?? how much does physical appearance account for.. face and body? list any others
cheers

A girl needs to be able to make herself come before you can make her come. Usually when you do make her come, she is helping you. I've made girls come with only my toungue though.

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

I *really* need to stop visiting this thread... LOL

 

[Tazman]

When any woman "actively" participates in sex, they are almost guaranteed to orgasm. Problems will arise if they just lay there and expect you to do everything for them.

Even when you're giving them head, when they're into it they'll squirm and move around to assist you in hitting the right spots. Unless you're just absolutely terrible, which can happen, it's mostly in your mind.

That's why certain women and/or situations can make you more aroused without anything being particularly different about the sex act itself. When I was young I had fantasies about one of my friend's Mother and just the thought made me aroused beyond belief.

As mentioned, the "mind" is the catalyst.