what the hell is up with this weird chick..........please help

Lost In the Seas

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this girl and i used to have attractions and attachments towards eachother although we didn't offically go out, it all ended a few months ago though, and then we basically stayed being friends, but the zone we are in is still isn't that clear and defined

i went cold to her and we didn't communicate or go out for a month or so, i started going out with her and her friends just recently, and it seems quite obvious that she is always trying to make me jealous and such, like hugging her male friends, playing around with them right in front of me, and i caught her looking back at me while doing the stuff to see what my reactions are

She would also go against me like when i need to borrow money from her, she won't give it to me no matter what, or refuse to share candies or popcorns with me during a movie when she gives them to everyone else........

usually when we hang out, we just tease and neg hit eachother a lot, we would kick and punch eachother, etc.......it's kinda like a pair of primary school boy and girl fighting eachother......

and beside these, she would also do prank calls to me........... =-=
for the last two weeks she would call me, and when i listen to the phone she would go silent and hang up, and lately she is telling her friends to pretend to be other ppl that i know and started calling me, just last night she did 4 prank calls to me in a row.................when i asked her what's going on she would deny the fact that she was behind the calls

and in school she's more weird........when we see eachother in corridor, she would either say nothing to me, or she would call me an idiot in a slightly playing aorund way, or she would hide from me and try not to be seen by me.............once in lunch i heard from her friend that she asked a friend of mine where i was at lunch, and when she found the room i was chilling in she was too scared to go in, instead she dared one of her friends to say something to me and they all ran away.........

what in the world is she doing............
 

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I'm a little old for this forum, but this thread caught my eye. She is being immature. My guess is she is only 15 or 16, maybe younger. Tell her you're not going to put up with it anymore, and it's either the way you want it to be between the two of y'all, or nothing at all--including the friend zone.
 

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SHE"S TRYING TO PLAY GAMES!!

Act like you don't care about her, when she flirts in front of you with other guys and you two looked at each other, you should have just laughed at her.

Anyways play games on her, like flirt with ohter gilr , pretent she's not there, ignore her.

AND WHATS WITH HER GAY A$$ PRANK CALLS, THERE NOT EVEN PRANK CALLS.

GO to a soundboard, and call her up.

Play games on her.
http://soundboards.com/ <--- Us Miss Cleo teh phycique lady (fortune lady thats always on tv) its so funny that their talking back when its a computer that talkin to them!!:crackup: :crackup:

http://soundboards.com/?view=38
 

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any fool knows she likes you. the prank call thing.....maybe she even loves you.

makeout with her, and get some.
 

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nice guy is gone how did u know she's younger? ya she's only 14, and im 16

LOL LMAO the soundboard lol thx a lot now i can get back at her and her stupid friends

ok so if she likes me should i just go for the kill ignoring all the games, ask to be alone with her and close in with a kiss
 

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Well, the kiss part is all about timing my friend. Don't just go in for a kiss. Be sure the setting is right for the kiss.

Example

Wrong setting: storm outside, ambulance sirens around, and too many people around (your not in a wedding, why do you need people watching you kiss her?).

Right setting: good weather outside, overall quiet, few people around, in a park or somewhere away from the crowd of people trying to look.:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
 

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hahaha... about the "storm outside"... i can use that to my advantage... my and my brother and the girl im talking with... love the movie "the notebook".

when shes not with us... me and my bro say i should use the line "it's still not over"... and kiss her...

you'd have to know the movie inside and out to understand...
 

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im gonna ask to go to her house alone and hoped that her aunts don't come back before we finish make out

hmm.......are you guys sure if she likes me? u know it will be akward if she doesn't and pushes me away when im hugging her playing her hair starring straight into her eyes, distance between the lips dwindle...........

and if she does like me is there any chance she may reject the kiss for other reasons?
 

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"She would also go against me like when i need to borrow money from her, she won't give it to me no matter what, or refuse to share candies or popcorns with me during a movie when she gives them to everyone else........"

To be honest with you, you need to build her anticipation some more. Keep it a bit mysterious to her that you have feelings for her. What this girl is doing is "mixing" signals. She seems like she doesn't like you because she won't share with you....but then again you think she likes you because she is acting so awkward towards you. From that quote above, that tells me that the time would be very wrong for any kiss :down: . You have to make her want you more and more. Just keep doing what your doing. She is showing signs of a little girl that likes a guy. Remember back when you were a kid and the one girl that messed with you the most to "grab your attention" had a crush on you, but you ignored it? well that created a mystery which made her like you. Same thing goes for this. Keep the mystery up and please don't give up that kiss easily....keep us updated.:cool:
 

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well ya i tease and neg hit her a lot too, but if i keep playing games like that would she gets bored eventually?
 

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
well ya i tease and neg hit her a lot too, but if i keep playing games like that would she gets bored eventually?
She won't get tired of it. But, she will try to draw some conclusion about you. It'll keep her guessing because she won't know anything. Teasing her is a good idea, but sometimes act nonchalant and mysterious as if there is other life out there. Just mix it up for her, it should create a challenge.:cool:
 

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Originally posted by Lost In the Seas
well ya i tease and neg hit her a lot too, but if i keep playing games like that would she gets bored eventually?
She won't get tired of it. But, she will try to draw some conclusion about you. It'll keep her guessing though (which is a good thing) because she won't know anything for sure. Teasing her is a good idea, but sometimes act nonchalant and mysterious as if there is other life out there. Just mix it up for her, it should create a mystery and challenge. After you build up that tension in her, you then may kiss her. But let us know before you do anything like that.:cool:
 
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