What the hell is up with girls/women holding hands in clubs?

[Naughty Ninja]

Is it for "security"?

Is it for "attention"?

C0ckblocking purposes?

All of the above?

To me it says "I'm a childish twit who thinks I'm special that some guy 'may' try to talk to me". Grow up. lol

 

[spinaroonie]

Because all guys are creepy. Girls gotta stick together.

 

[Ice882]

Because all guys are creepy. Girls gotta stick together.

That's what a woman would say.

It pisses me off too, OP.

 

[decadentdestruction]

its to show they got their girls back , its kinda dumb , most of those girls , are **** teases . seen it 1st hand

 

[The Mad Ghost]

"Cvnt, I'll put you in a fvcking rose garden!"

Back to the topic anyway, what a bunch of jelly-backboned horse faces. Women hate being alone in those types of environments? So they hold hands back and fourthright to toilets? Girls gotta stick together, my fvcking hamster. Thats the thing with me and women, they just rely soley on support crews/gangs. I know one girl on my Facebook who went out with somebody she hates, because nobody else wanted to go out with her for her b-day. How fvcked up is that? I see it too Ninja. Yeah all guys are creepy, (fvck off!) such an anti-sexual, asexual and un-sociable front. Girls are gangsters in a fvcked up way, they control the social conditioning in social environments, they extort helpless, misguided and unplugged men, they have the government and every other support under the sun at there whim, they can call in sick twice in a row without much reprisals. Girls are gangsters in their own right.

I am entirely inclined to fvck and break the heart of the majority of women that unfortunately become a notch on my bedpost.

How to reject women? Unfortunately, you can't reject girls the same way they reject us. Unless its a fattie, but that doesn't count. It takes abit more investment from the man to reject a girl; Essentially, she should be ionterested in you and you're guranteed to have sex, Wanna know the biggest rejection for girls?

NO AFTER-LOVE, COMMITMENT OR RELATIONSHIP AFTER SEX. THATS IT. I am literally going to walk out of the room, house, flat, apartment, door, even in my own home or her house (whatever girl that may be) after sex. Not even a goodbye. Just walk away. She'll find her way out of my home or wherever. No words exchanged. Thats it. Experiment time.

No pillow talk
No talking about how good the sex was
No talking about turning on the tv
No talking about how she is getting home
No talking about what she is doing tommorow
No talking about cabs/ taxis
No talking about her interests or regards

Completely walk up and leave. This is the new Mad Ghost Method.

Highway Method:
For this to work, you must be a very, charming, mystery type of dude. Everything which is taught here. Talk and seed a future with her, generaly seem like you want to see her again. This works especially for ONS from a club that live far, or not near you. You MUST be driving. Pretend you're going a different way to her house, this is after you've fvcked her ofcourse. And take the long way, extend things, go down long, long, long roads and turns, make sure you have a satnav on you, incase you get lost. try to aim for big intersections and/or freeways.

Tell her to get out, with her bag and accessories etc, tell her if she can see your headlamps on or if there is anything wrong with the front or back of the car headlights, make it seem like an emergency, incase of getting stopped by law enforcement, lock the doors, and DRIVE OFF.

Report when done.

 

[CuriousGirl]

Actually it's so you don't lose each other in the club when it's busy (whether it's boys or girls), when you are trying to walk through a really crowded dancefloor you hold hands so that a) you don't lose the person you're following/following you and b) the people around you are aware the next person is also trying to get through too. Especially if your friends are drunk you do this, because they are really easy to lose if they are meant to be following you. The last time I was out I was the drunker friend, we were holding drinks so we couldn't hold hands, I was momentarily distracted and then when I looked ahead again I realised she'd gone and we didn't find each other again for another hour or so.
You'll notice when the place isn't busy people don't do this because they don't need to.

More often than not, I've noticed that if I'm in front leading a guy, rather than hold my hand guys tend to prefer to keep their hand on your back or waist as they follow you. Even if it's just a platonic friend. Kind of possessive I suppose.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I don't know curiousgirl. To me they look like they're on a kindergarten field outing.

I laugh at it to be honest. Who's got the Doritos? It's a conga line!

 

[maqnetik]

theyre D Y K E S

:kick:

 

[bigjohnson]

It's common in a lot of places for girls to hold hands, not just in clubs. The more interesting question is why Americans would think anything of it.

 

[Ice882]

Actually it's so you don't lose each other in the club when it's busy (whether it's boys or girls), when you are trying to walk through a really crowded dancefloor you hold hands so that a) you don't lose the person you're following/following you and b) the people around you are aware the next person is also trying to get through too. Especially if your friends are drunk you do this, because they are really easy to lose if they are meant to be following you. The last time I was out I was the drunker friend, we were holding drinks so we couldn't hold hands, I was momentarily distracted and then when I looked ahead again I realised she'd gone and we didn't find each other again for another hour or so.
You'll notice when the place isn't busy people don't do this because they don't need to.

More often than not, I've noticed that if I'm in front leading a guy, rather than hold my hand guys tend to prefer to keep their hand on your back or waist as they follow you. Even if it's just a platonic friend. Kind of possessive I suppose.

I'm talking when girls you're trying to approach ward off all guys by holding hands and dancing around like retards and never give anyone an opening. That's what pisses me off, personally. I do not condone Mad Ghost's post or any other bitter posts in this thread.

Holding hands to get from place to place... non-issue.

 

[maqnetik]

I'm talking when girls you're trying to approach ward off all guys by holding hands and dancing around like retards and never give anyone an opening. That's what pisses me off, personally. I do not condone Mad Ghost's post or any other bitter posts in this thread.

Holding hands to get from place to place... non-issue.

the night club is THEIR TURF-- they have every advantage and will exploit it

 

[omkara]

Nowadays the rift between the sexes is broadening. Men and women don't get along like they used to. And because girls are insecure and can't live without their neurotically enmeshed relationships, they have defaulted to relying on women instead of on men. All the so-called "independant" women out there, would shrivel up and die without the emotional support of their co-dependent gfs.

 

[Zarky]

FYI, in much of the middle east, it's considered normal and healthy for straight guys to hold hands with each other. Believe it. If you travel to the middle east you'll often see close male friends holding hands walking down the street. You'll think, "Wow, this culture is a whole lot more tolerant of gay guys than I thought." But you'd be wrong, they're just good buddies.

 

[handle]

Mad Ghost, that has to be the funniest thing I've seen on these forums in a while.

 

[The Mad Ghost]

I do not condone Mad Ghost's post or any other bitter posts in this thread.

Holding hands to get from place to place... non-issue.

All is fair in love and war. Dropping a girl off by the intersection/freeway is bitter?. Walking away without a word after sex is bitter?, providing non-commitment after interactions and sex is bitter? Having a counter is bitter? Treating girls as bed notches is bitter? Well you can be the non-bitter nice guy who takes everything on the chin. Most guys here will get oneitis for the first girl they like, I am telling them what to do with any girl that they might get.

And yes girls holding hands, constantly throughout the club is an issue or dancing in mosh-pit type circles being teases is an issue. Why? Because lets reverse the tables, would a female-populated night or club have the same situations? NO.

It's not so they don't get lost, what bvllshyt is this? Do they hold hands on the way to work? Do they hold hands in concerts? Do they fvcking hold hands in festivals? Or what about sausagefest fashion shows? Girls are not holding hands there, its all to do with the situation.

This situation, being ''The Club''. Its because of guys who may pull them or approach them, and their friend can pull her away quicker, instead of getting into an arguement or looking alone whilst her friend gets chatted up by some random dude. Thats it. Girls have no backbone, but you're one of those guys out there, that I probably walk past everyday, who sees it, but doesn't want to believe it. Beta if you like.

 

[spinaroonie]

Nowadays the rift between the sexes is broadening. Men and women don't get along like they used to. And because girls are insecure and can't live without their neurotically enmeshed relationships, they have defaulted to relying on women instead of on men. All the so-called "independant" women out there, would shrivel up and die without the emotional support of their co-dependent gfs.

This. Well said.

 

[CuriousGirl]

I'm talking when girls you're trying to approach ward off all guys by holding hands and dancing around like retards and never give anyone an opening. That's what pisses me off, personally. I do not condone Mad Ghost's post or any other bitter posts in this thread.

Holding hands to get from place to place... non-issue.

Oh I know what you mean, in that case they are probably just there for a night out with their mates and not interested in pulling. Girls are aware if they are dancing like that with thieir friends they are unlikely to be appoached. Equally they'd probably stop doing that to make themselves more accessible if they liked the look of a guy.

 

[CuriousGirl]

And yes girls holding hands, constantly throughout the club is an issue or dancing in mosh-pit type circles being teases is an issue. Why? Because lets reverse the tables, would a female-populated night or club have the same situations? NO.

It's not so they don't get lost, what bvllshyt is this? Do they hold hands on the way to work? Do they hold hands in concerts? Do they fvcking hold hands in festivals? Or what about sausagefest fashion shows? Girls are not holding hands there, its all to do with the situation.

You've clearly not been to some packed clubs and concerts, it is literally so you don't lose each other because you would otherwise, especially if you're drunk.

But if they are just dancing in a circle holding hands and stuff then quite simply they probably aren't interested in pulling anyone.

 

[jafyk]

FYI, in much of the middle east, it's considered normal and healthy for straight guys to hold hands with each other. Believe it. If you travel to the middle east you'll often see close male friends holding hands walking down the street. You'll think, "Wow, this culture is a whole lot more tolerant of gay guys than I thought." But you'd be wrong, they're just good buddies.

Ha ha yes Zarky I know what you are talking about. The last time i went home one of my buddies held my hand or put his hand around me it felt weird but the truth was he wasn't doing anything wrong. I had just been in America for a really long time, lol. I bet if I went back home again I wouldn't find many of my buddies doing that because everyone is becoming Americanized.

 

[The Mad Ghost]

You've clearly not been to some packed clubs and concerts

Hot girls don't post on a male-occupied forum. Hot wimminz don't surf the internetz.

And, you're saying you forgot the entrance and exit in a club, that you've probably been to a few times, which warrants you to hold hands incase you get lost in a small 100-200 person venue? Shyt, I may go toa club with 5 people and not end up seeing them till the end of the night, if I want. If I feel out of place, I WILL find them. What, you can't hack being without your friend(s) for some minutes? Play on your phone and check your Facebook status or something.

You don't see this child's behavior at the socialite clubs. Just the local high street ones where you have the bottom-feeders with the biggest egos.

Its for the situation. And the situation 1. is to got a club knowing guys would hit or bother you, but just be teases. 2. I can't hack being by myself in a club, peoplemay think I'm weird. No its not a big of a deal, but stop trying to make it seem fairytaled with the "Oh it's nothing, it's so we dont get lost" crap.