What the hell is this girl thinking?

jaybeezi

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This girl is confusing as hell, and I dont know what she wants.

I talked to her a few times at work (we work different shifts)
and asked her out to a club (bad move, but she wanted to go there) So she asked for my #, I gave it to her, she calls me 2 days later, we talk for an hour.

We go out that night. She doesnt seem that interested, so i'm like, whatever. I called her about 4 days later, we talked for a few minutes and she said she would call me back because she was busy.

She called me back, and told me she was moving 2 hours away.
She just decided to move back home, (when I first talked to her she said she was "thinking" about moving in a month or two, but wasnt sure) then she said, well actually i'm already here. I was pretty surprised and wasnt sure what to say. So I said

me: well that sucks, for me anyway.
her: why?
me: because I was looking forward to seeing you more.
her sister: can she call you back.
She didnt.
So, I figured she was not at all interested and moved on, then she called me a week later, just to talk, she was just wondering what I was doing. The way she was talking about things made it seem like she was still here. We talked for about 30 min. Then she called me again the next night, but I wasnt home.

What does she want. She didnt seem interested, and she moved(supposedly), so why does she keep calling me? She keeps going back and forth with her IL, so I have no clue.
 
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Don't talk to girls on the phone - see her in person and only for romantic purposes!!!

Did you notice how ineffective the phone was in gauging interest and receiving a response, due to interruptions and 'call backs'? She left your wooing advances in indefinite limbo!!
 

Genghis Juan

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You put too much effort in talking to her on the phone, and too little in getting together with her.

If you spend too much time on the phone, you are giving her "friendship" vibes.

Call her back and ask her out, and see what happens. Don't take her to a club, take her to a good quite action date, like bowling or a muesuem.
 
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