This is gonna be a bit long, but the details are necessary I think:
So, a couple months back I went on some dates with a girl I had fallen for (hard). I was way too timid, didn't use kino enough, and was way too accommodating. It ended after four dates, never got to kissing, with her telling me she likes me but there's no spark. No surprises so far. (In hindsight)
We're in the same sports club, so after that I still see her 1-2 times a week, sometimes not for a couple of weeks, and occasionally we talk a bit. I'd still love to do her, but at some point I just accept it's not ****ing likely to ever happen and move on. About a month ago we went out for drinks with the sports club, and more through random chance than anything else, we end up the only ones in the bar, talking and catching up a bit, nothing special though.
Last Friday there was a fair, and living pretty close I just went there on my own and texted people I knew would also be there, among them the girl in question. I got a response 4 hours later, long after having met up with another friend, and ran into her another hour later, when we were all leaving. She said something like: Aww, have you been looking for me all day? I told her I'd been fine, having run into the guy I hung out with about 5 min after texting. We all talked for a bit and then left. Still nothing special.
The Saturday and Sunday I had a workshop from the same sports club, taught by two foreign guys pretty well known for what they do. All had a great time (the girl wasn't there btw), and Sunday afternoon we went to a bar. This usually happens after a workshop. The girl in question then texts our normal trainer to ask where we are so she can join us. About ten minutes later she calls me up to ask who are all there - she later told me she could hear from how I said it if the foreign guys who gave the workshop were cool to hang out with. When she gets there she says Hi to me specifically though I'm talking with 3 other dudes she also knows, and the rest of the evening she tickles me, pokes me, fidgets with my hair a lot, and makes some loud remarks about how I like her (previously we sort of kept quiet about us having dated towards the rest). She also carried one of my bags for me (I had a lot to carry).
Now, she's normally a touchy person, but this was way more than normal. Just looking at that evening I'd say she suddenly wants me, but given that she still behaved just like always when I saw her friday, and I didn't do anything special, that just seems unlikely.
She went a second day to the same fair on sunday before she came hang out with us, and apparently had lots of fun there too, So she might just have been in a really good mood, and did everything without thinking about it, but that also just seems unlikely.
Basically I have no clue what she's on about, and I'd love your expert opinion on this.
So, a couple months back I went on some dates with a girl I had fallen for (hard). I was way too timid, didn't use kino enough, and was way too accommodating. It ended after four dates, never got to kissing, with her telling me she likes me but there's no spark. No surprises so far. (In hindsight)
We're in the same sports club, so after that I still see her 1-2 times a week, sometimes not for a couple of weeks, and occasionally we talk a bit. I'd still love to do her, but at some point I just accept it's not ****ing likely to ever happen and move on. About a month ago we went out for drinks with the sports club, and more through random chance than anything else, we end up the only ones in the bar, talking and catching up a bit, nothing special though.
Last Friday there was a fair, and living pretty close I just went there on my own and texted people I knew would also be there, among them the girl in question. I got a response 4 hours later, long after having met up with another friend, and ran into her another hour later, when we were all leaving. She said something like: Aww, have you been looking for me all day? I told her I'd been fine, having run into the guy I hung out with about 5 min after texting. We all talked for a bit and then left. Still nothing special.
The Saturday and Sunday I had a workshop from the same sports club, taught by two foreign guys pretty well known for what they do. All had a great time (the girl wasn't there btw), and Sunday afternoon we went to a bar. This usually happens after a workshop. The girl in question then texts our normal trainer to ask where we are so she can join us. About ten minutes later she calls me up to ask who are all there - she later told me she could hear from how I said it if the foreign guys who gave the workshop were cool to hang out with. When she gets there she says Hi to me specifically though I'm talking with 3 other dudes she also knows, and the rest of the evening she tickles me, pokes me, fidgets with my hair a lot, and makes some loud remarks about how I like her (previously we sort of kept quiet about us having dated towards the rest). She also carried one of my bags for me (I had a lot to carry).
Now, she's normally a touchy person, but this was way more than normal. Just looking at that evening I'd say she suddenly wants me, but given that she still behaved just like always when I saw her friday, and I didn't do anything special, that just seems unlikely.
She went a second day to the same fair on sunday before she came hang out with us, and apparently had lots of fun there too, So she might just have been in a really good mood, and did everything without thinking about it, but that also just seems unlikely.
Basically I have no clue what she's on about, and I'd love your expert opinion on this.