I'm seating back and I watch my life just drift away. I sued to be so popular didn't beleive in the DJ methods so much just tried to be a alpha male and got girls had alot of friends. My phone never stoped ringing with stuff to do but I couldn't cause my parents are strict. I use to have my aim fill of messages and now I can stay online like all day and get no messages. What happen to my life. MY freshman and sophomore year were my highlights of my life. Had lots of funs ddn't go to that many parties but still had fun. Junior went to like 2 parties had fun but it seemed like no one cared about me anymore. I'v egiven in ITell me what to do to get back on top. I want to become a better person and atleast fvck before hs over. Can't leave their with my V card
What the hell happenning
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Nope. People just like stop tlaking to me. Like they talk to me but not as much as they used to. Like I only keep some of my close friends others I've just seen to grown apart from. Also I can't get no girls. Girls always use to just come up to me and flirt but I just try to play if off alpha male style and wouldn't know how to go any further so I guess that' stopped them from talking to me
coolguy676767
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As with anything in life, you have to fight for what you want. I was a loser in middle school, I had friends that were cool, but I was generally a tag along, and I was fat and a little dorky. So the 7th-8th grade summer I decided to change my life. I lost 25 pounds, gained back some in muscle, and in 8th grade my life was better, because I gained confidence, talked to more people, networked, and I wasnt so shy and everyone realized how funny I was.
Then high school came along, I had gained a lot of weight back, I was a little chubby but I still had friends. Sophemore year went downhill in every area. This junior year I gained a lot of popularity from playing varisity football, and even more popularity when I won metros/city championship for weightlifting. I went to a couple parties, but as they always say its about confidence, girls at school I used to be afraid to talk to, I just didnt give a **** anymore, I told them what I was like, I am now known as one of the funniest guys in the whole school. Networking and being funny,sports and confidence as gained me friends. I recently got up to 245 in weight, until I realized I was going to change my life. I had a lot of muscle from weightlifting, so I had soemthing to work with. I am not down to 217 in about 4 months time. I look much better, feel better, and I wanted more girls, so I went out to the city's teen clubs and tried to get in on regular nights. I had game, some looks, some dancing skill, but its all in the confidence.
So if there is anything I have learned, its you have to work for what you want. I wanted more girls, more fun, more friends, and more popularity. So I stopped sitting on my ass, and I worked out, networked, never made any enemies, I tried to be friends with people in every click in the school. I lost weight, girls are now much more attracted to me now, and I am working to get to 200 pounds and develop a 6-pack after that. I go to clubs, because not only are they fun, but if you want girls, then you cant wait for them to fall in your lap, you need to go and make things the way you want them.
Then high school came along, I had gained a lot of weight back, I was a little chubby but I still had friends. Sophemore year went downhill in every area. This junior year I gained a lot of popularity from playing varisity football, and even more popularity when I won metros/city championship for weightlifting. I went to a couple parties, but as they always say its about confidence, girls at school I used to be afraid to talk to, I just didnt give a **** anymore, I told them what I was like, I am now known as one of the funniest guys in the whole school. Networking and being funny,sports and confidence as gained me friends. I recently got up to 245 in weight, until I realized I was going to change my life. I had a lot of muscle from weightlifting, so I had soemthing to work with. I am not down to 217 in about 4 months time. I look much better, feel better, and I wanted more girls, so I went out to the city's teen clubs and tried to get in on regular nights. I had game, some looks, some dancing skill, but its all in the confidence.
So if there is anything I have learned, its you have to work for what you want. I wanted more girls, more fun, more friends, and more popularity. So I stopped sitting on my ass, and I worked out, networked, never made any enemies, I tried to be friends with people in every click in the school. I lost weight, girls are now much more attracted to me now, and I am working to get to 200 pounds and develop a 6-pack after that. I go to clubs, because not only are they fun, but if you want girls, then you cant wait for them to fall in your lap, you need to go and make things the way you want them.
Yea, my story is about the same as coolguy's, except in going to sophomore year soon. And I'm joining football too.... de ja vu 
. Anyway, the main thing you are missing is networking or "social climbing." Get to know people and meet people using them. Since you aren't "popular" anymore, you have to actively do this. Join a team or club to meet people. A summer prep is good. Or just a group of friends you have is a start. But remember, never stay with the same social circle, always expand and meet people.
. Anyway, the main thing you are missing is networking or "social climbing." Get to know people and meet people using them. Since you aren't "popular" anymore, you have to actively do this. Join a team or club to meet people. A summer prep is good. Or just a group of friends you have is a start. But remember, never stay with the same social circle, always expand and meet people.
MIKE JONES
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I play football but that's it. After basically that season no one really notices or cares for me. It's not like no one cares or talks to me. I just noticed that people don't come up to me or want to hang out as often as they did my soph year. I got to step it up for my senior year. my goals for the summer are to lose 10-15lbs for myself and for football, start for football, read the dj bible since ih aven't read it at all and just to get outmore and get away from my parents
Same with me:
I remember back den, most of them hoes couldn't stand me
But now them same hoes beggin me to pull down they panties
A couple of 'em said I was cute but I was just too chubby
Same size a year later the same hoes wanna **** me
Because they see me paid, pimpin pens, workin my jelly
And I ain't trippin cause my pockets stick out mo' than my belly
They know I'm paid, livin laid in the shade
2 slabs in the Escalade with fo' or five estates
Then know that I got it made, I'm a mother****in baller
She would want a nigga now but I ain't got no time to call her
I'ma stall her like she stalled me, now she tryin to call me
***** I'ma dog yo' whole ass like you dogged me
I'm Mike Jones, don't act like you don't know the name
Ain't nuttin changed but my change, I'ma stay the same
I'm Mike Jones, don't act like you don't know the name
Ain't nuttin changed but my change, I'ma stay the same
U KNOW WAT IM SAYIN!!!