what the fvck.

[int3l]

What the hell man, I guess i fcked up somewhere- i just don't know where. Then again i tried calling and she never answered so i guess she just wasn't all that interested. But tell me, how the **** does a guy that is shorter, bigger and not really all that much manage to attract girls that i could not? Was i not eloquent enough? blargh.

What bewilders me is that this guy approaches all nice guy, like total fvcking nice guy AFC style. Or maybe thats just what i see... either way this **** is messed up. Guess i'll just have to forget it and refine what i do. Sorry about the rant, women just confuse me sometimes. You'd think they'd prefer a guy who at least has some semblance of stability in his life.

 

[romangod]

What the hell man, I guess i fcked up somewhere- But tell me, how the **** does a guy that is shorter, bigger and not really all that much manage to attract girls that i could not? Was i not eloquent enough? blargh.

What bewilders me is that this guy approaches all nice guy, like total fvcking nice guy AFC style. Or maybe thats just what i see... either way this **** is messed up. Guess i'll just have to forget it and refine what i do.

My guess is that you don't swear enough to show how eloquent you really are.



Cheers!

 

[Organized Confusion]

Seriously pal, why are you fretting over one woman? This is a weaker form of oneitis. get over her, go lay some other chicks. Jeez.

 

[int3l]

My guess is that you don't swear enough to show how eloquent you really are.



Cheers!

I'm sorry the word f.u.c.k offends you.

Also, it's not that I'm 'not over' her. It's the concept, it just seems too illogical. Also, I've always wanted to ask; what is it with this concept of just giving up? Honestly if i really, really liked some girl and some other guy managed to whisk her away, I'm not giving up unless they pass the legal and moral boundary of marriage. Is it Don Juan to just 'next the girl,' because her impression of you was not all that special during the critical first encounter? Don't confuse this basis of thought for the substandard trash woman, i mean this for quality woman you instinctively know are real. Personally i think the concept of 'Next the Girl,' just because something went a little wrong should be re-thought. (In regards to woman you know to be quality- something real)

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Ok, lets say some guy took the girl you wanted. Are you gonna chase her and waste time trying to win her over? What if you don't get her. Then, you just wasted however long you tried to convert her to you.

The nexting thing... Some people next a girl for dumb reasons. Others next a girl cause she isn't showing interest. Or if your dating a girl that does something uncalled for you next her.

 

[Organized Confusion]

In the end, it's your option. We can't MAKE you do anything. it's your call to next her or not. Personally, I'd try and get over her. i know there's always better women out there. Always.

 

[DonJuan11]

What the hell man, I guess i fcked up somewhere- i just don't know where. Then again i tried calling and she never answered so i guess she just wasn't all that interested. But tell me, how the **** does a guy that is shorter, bigger and not really all that much manage to attract girls that i could not? Was i not eloquent enough? blargh.

What bewilders me is that this guy approaches all nice guy, like total fvcking nice guy AFC style. Or maybe thats just what i see... either way this **** is messed up. Guess i'll just have to forget it and refine what i do. Sorry about the rant, women just confuse me sometimes. You'd think they'd prefer a guy who at least has some semblance of stability in his life.

You would think logically a women would choose a guy who has stability in his life, looks good, makes good money, drives a nice car, etc. But for most women, if they can't feel that you will love them and can protect them, all the money in the world won't help much. They usually deal with their emotions and stick with the guy who can make them feel amazing things. That's why you see some guys who have no jobs and no future pull hot girls, they can make the girl feel things that others who are rich and look like Brad cannot.

Convincing a girl that you are the best guy for her because you have spent money on her or have the looks is almost a waste of time since its dealing with logic. The girl will love all the gifts, but if she doesn't feel anything for you, it's a losing battle.

 

[int3l]

You would think logically a women would choose a guy who has stability in his life, looks good, makes good money, drives a nice car, etc. But for most women, if they can't feel that you will love them and can protect them, all the money in the world won't help much. They usually deal with their emotions and stick with the guy who can make them feel amazing things. That's why you see some guys who have no jobs and no future pull hot girls, they can make the girl feel things that others who are rich and look like Brad cannot.

Convincing a girl that you are the best guy for her because you have spent money on her or have the looks is almost a waste of time since its dealing with logic. The girl will love all the gifts, but if she doesn't feel anything for you, it's a losing battle.

see! this is some advice and understanding i can follow. So it's all about the feeling, although one needs to mask this is order to get ahead of the game as well right? ah, we've become women ourselves in order to tame the shrew. haha