nousername
Don Juan
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Dated and lived with 17 year old, for 3 years.
Went through lots and lots of sh1t and i ended up breaking it off due to commitment and honesty issues.
I went solid NC on her and got all suicidal, she's my oneitis. Anyway i'm jacked as fuxk now, back to how i used to be before we dated, muscly etc. Get LOTS of attention at clubs i stand out.
Anyway, she contacts me i meet up with her get a BJ and she swallows she loves it and wants to do it again. This is about 3-4 months after i went NC.
THEN, i find out she goes to a party, hooks up with another guy and avoids the subject when i bring it up. I'm a man now so i tell her how it is.
Me:
"You haven't even said sorry, once, any time you've ever messed up. its back to square one now, just like when i moved out. cya later good luck with yourself. x
Her: I love you, endlessly. bye
Her: P.s I didn't do anything wrong, you just have trouble believing me, seen as though I do put 210% in every time, to make this work with you. Even though you don't give 2 ****s and is happy without me in your life, you'll see soon enough, how much I'll go to show you I'm worth spending your life with. You're definitely worth fighting for.
Then she continues to rant on about how much she needs me and loves me, i'm going NC again.
Part of me wants to just use this chick for sex, she does anything in bed and loves it. But then part of me says that it's just going to **** her up more in the long run.
Advice? we are both young, should i just not get attached and keep ****ing her? while telling her that i'll remain faithful while also fcking other women?
It's a question of morals really. I don't know what to do.
Went through lots and lots of sh1t and i ended up breaking it off due to commitment and honesty issues.
I went solid NC on her and got all suicidal, she's my oneitis. Anyway i'm jacked as fuxk now, back to how i used to be before we dated, muscly etc. Get LOTS of attention at clubs i stand out.
Anyway, she contacts me i meet up with her get a BJ and she swallows she loves it and wants to do it again. This is about 3-4 months after i went NC.
THEN, i find out she goes to a party, hooks up with another guy and avoids the subject when i bring it up. I'm a man now so i tell her how it is.
Me:
"You haven't even said sorry, once, any time you've ever messed up. its back to square one now, just like when i moved out. cya later good luck with yourself. x
Her: I love you, endlessly. bye
Her: P.s I didn't do anything wrong, you just have trouble believing me, seen as though I do put 210% in every time, to make this work with you. Even though you don't give 2 ****s and is happy without me in your life, you'll see soon enough, how much I'll go to show you I'm worth spending your life with. You're definitely worth fighting for.
Then she continues to rant on about how much she needs me and loves me, i'm going NC again.
Part of me wants to just use this chick for sex, she does anything in bed and loves it. But then part of me says that it's just going to **** her up more in the long run.
Advice? we are both young, should i just not get attached and keep ****ing her? while telling her that i'll remain faithful while also fcking other women?
It's a question of morals really. I don't know what to do.