TheMonkeyKing
Master Don Juan
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Think it's fair to say most of my relationships have improved since I have been paying more attention to this kind of reading material, with women and men. Some of them indeed are foreshortened latterly. But mainly owing to my recognition of a general lack of compatibility between myself and the other person. Which is something possibly not enough people do. Not everyone is going to be my best friend. But I'm fine with that.
It also allows me to redirect the saved time and effort towards relationships that do seem to be working.
As far as the OP goes, well it's a bit generalised and clearly not fully grasping the subject matter.
I had a date booked in for last Saturday afternoon but was blown out for another married guy who has a kid. The girl in question didn't even let me know one way or another if she was going to tun up or not. Yesterday afternoon, she sent me a text wondering why I've been 'off' with her this week. Well, I now have the choice to walk away from such behaviours, while allowing the freedom of choice to the other person also. Not sure this idea is terribly controversial, while the behaviour of the girl in my story is considered perfectly acceptable.
That's the problem with generalisation you see. A rule for one, isn't always applied to to the other.
It also allows me to redirect the saved time and effort towards relationships that do seem to be working.
As far as the OP goes, well it's a bit generalised and clearly not fully grasping the subject matter.
I had a date booked in for last Saturday afternoon but was blown out for another married guy who has a kid. The girl in question didn't even let me know one way or another if she was going to tun up or not. Yesterday afternoon, she sent me a text wondering why I've been 'off' with her this week. Well, I now have the choice to walk away from such behaviours, while allowing the freedom of choice to the other person also. Not sure this idea is terribly controversial, while the behaviour of the girl in my story is considered perfectly acceptable.
That's the problem with generalisation you see. A rule for one, isn't always applied to to the other.