What signs and behaviour would you see if someone regretted rejecting you?

[Sdives]

Just curious what experiences do you guys have regretting rejecting someone? like whats signs and behaviour patterns would see if the person regretted it?

I understand that someone may get caught off guard say no by default but regret it... like right away. She's smiling at me and cant take her eyes off me. I think I jumped the gun to soon or she doesn't know what she wants/ got cold feet etc. I was dead certain she was into me.Every signal in the book was there and obvious.


Shed some light on your experiences and observations, anecdotes stories and such. I am asking this as I think Im experiencing this now from a girl that friendzoned me but its too early to tell for sure. I highly suspect it.

Should I go NC then see what happens? I know she's single, probably doesnt have much experience for being young.

 

[Alvafe]

who cares?

I normally cut all ties so I can't even guess what she feels like, not like I even care, also I did meet a ex once(twice the same girl...) I ignored her presence, the first one I did notice she saw me and didn't stay long, ehr friend did though lol, funny too was I was with the same girl in both times, but again I didn't even remember this thing til now

 

[Sdives]

who cares?

I normally cut all ties so I can't even guess what she feels like, not like I even care, also I did meet a ex once(twice the same girl...) I ignored her presence, the first one I did notice she saw me and didn't stay long, ehr friend did though lol, funny too was I was with the same girl in both times, but again I didn't even remember this thing til now

I care. I think I jumped the gun here . How do I do NC properly and when do I establish contact? She Smiles at me just like before, normally this doesnt happen.

 

[Alvafe]

thing is NC is not to win a girl over, is for you take care of yourself and move on, if during it she tries to contact you and you want to give it another go you can see if happens but I would normally remember you for what reason you did NC her in first place, chances are things didn't change.

since she FZ you chances are she notice you sliping then she toss a bait for you circle around her, if you want to really make sure where she stand, ask her out and try to make out with her at least(if you can't pull her to sex already) anything other than that move on and keep nc

 

[wifehunter]

If she stalks you, could be a sign. Lol!!!

 

[Sdives]

If she stalks you, could be a sign. Lol!!!

What?

 

[wifehunter]

What?

Need a magnifying glass?

 

[Sdives]

thing is NC is not to win a girl over, is for you take care of yourself and move on, if during it she tries to contact you and you want to give it another go you can see if happens but I would normally remember you for what reason you did NC her in first place, chances are things didn't change.

since she FZ you chances are she notice you sliping then she toss a bait for you circle around her, if you want to really make sure where she stand, ask her out and try to make out with her at least(if you can't pull her to sex already) anything other than that move on and keep nc

I am doing that, working on other things. I don't think she wants attention. I don't think she know whats she wants, and I caught her off guard. I see her in the gym allot she always smiling at me and always looking over whenever she has a client. Do I want a couple weeks then try to talk to her and see how it goes?

 

[jester1x]

Just chat her up and feel her out again. You'll either get the friendly vibe or she'll shut you down quickly. Then, you'll know what to do next.

No need to burn any bridges with any women.

I'd try again for my own satisfaction. Then, you can focus on other things and other women.

 

[Sdives]

Just chat her up and feel her out again. You'll either get the friendly vibe or she'll shut you down quickly. Then, you'll know what to do next.

No need to burn any bridges with any women.

I'd try again for my own satisfaction. Then, you can focus on other things and other women.

I hit on her after about 2.5 weeks of knowing her. She keeps smiling and doing all these looks and look back bit right now.She's friendly to me. Even out of the corner of her eye I see her glancing. I swear I saw every sign known to man here initially. So I figured to go in for the kill . I don't give her much attention in the first place so its not like she's doing this for attention. She's likely guarded due to lack of experience. I think your right NC would kill it totally.

If I talk to her more would she still warm up to me again if she was genuine? that is if I act like nothing's wrong? I wouldnt go full NC.

This is just a classic case of coming on too soon, she pulls away and I need to not act like a whiny *****.Play it cool and try to get her back