What should you do when a woman insults you?

[edegoge]

Almost half an hour now and no reply to my text.
Also, should I ask her again why she thinks I can't have a child? Maybe ask outright why she said I'm too young even though the father of her child was younger than me when they had the child?

 

[RedScorpion]

Almost half an hour now and no reply to my text.
Also, should I ask her again why she thinks I can't have a child? Maybe ask outright why she said I'm too young even though the father of her child was younger than me when they had the child?

No, bringing it up now all of a sudden is just going to make you look like a weirdo. Especially since you already discussed it.

She probably just said something stupid in the moment. Guys can have children for decades longer than a woman can (or safe for her to). If it feels like she likes to insult you too much, or her comment bugs you too much, just stop talking to her. At least for a while. Don't follow up that text with anything.

 

[Stephen89]

Insult her back.

 

[MrWood]

Insult her back.

/me gets popcorn

 

[ShayB]

I’m thinking she may have sensed that you were not as sweet on her as she had hoped and she was afraid of saying the wrong thing and having her skin turned into your next lampshade.

 

[JohnChops]

I get the feeling most of you are just keyboard warriors. It's really easy to appear tough on a forum, quite something else IRL.

It's not difficult to do if you do not care. What's one comment going to do to in the long run? nothing. In the short term, maybe bruise your ego, but who gives a fvkc about that .

 

[BeExcellent]

Resist the temptation to be petty in response. Insults are made by people who are trying to get a reaction out of you, therefore your best course of action is NOT to react. If someone insults you in person, namely a woman, smile at her and continue as you were doing. If someone insults you over text? Do not respond. Withdraw your attention. Insults are attention seeking. Do not react in a way that feeds the insult as an attention seeking behavior.

If you are debating something (as often goes on here) respond to the topics and points of the argument and refrain from resorting to insults.

To the socially well calibrated out there, insults can easily become a poor reflection on the person making the insult, especially if it is name calling. Name calling has no creativity whatsoever. If someone is going to hurl an insult it should at least have some intelligent context and require a bit of comprehension.

 

[Urbanyst]

Resist the temptation to be petty in response. Insults are made by people who are trying to get a reaction out of you, therefore your best course of action is NOT to react. If someone insults you in person, namely a woman, smile at her and continue as you were doing. If someone insults you over text? Do not respond. Withdraw your attention. Insults are attention seeking. Do not react in a way that feeds the insult as an attention seeking behavior.

If you are debating something (as often goes on here) respond to the topics and points of the argument and refrain from resorting to insults.

To the socially well calibrated out there, insults can easily become a poor reflection on the person making the insult, especially if it is name calling. Name calling has no creativity whatsoever. If someone is going to hurl an insult it should at least have some intelligent context and require a bit of comprehension.

Sometimes, insults are true.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I found jersey/Geordie shore talk helps. Basically, she is no longer a woman and you strip her of what little (to no) femininity she does have.

Tell her to go grab you a beer and make you a sandwich.

When all else fails, let her know that her life is a series of used condoms (no rubber) and aborted fetuses.

You Mad?

 

[BeExcellent]

Sometimes, insults are true.

Most often they consist of opinion, although it may be opinion about some factual characteristic of another person. Racial slurs are the most obvious example of this that I can point to. A person's race or gender is a fact. Somebody's opinion about a person's race or gender is not a fact. Insults are inflammatory in nature. To deal with insults that are matters of opinion the most effective thing is to respond in a way that communicates that the insulter's opinion has no effect whatsoever on you.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion of someone else, no matter how favorable or unfavorable it might be. And everyone is entitled to reject opinions held by someone else.

 

[edegoge]

Should I fück her or not? I think she's been a b1tch. Laughed at me and said I can't have a child. Then lied about what she meant. First time she was here she said "I feel nothing" when she refused to take off her pants after a lot of foreplay, which might have meant she wasn't turned on by my body. Then lied about what she meant. She's been taking longer and longer to reply. She initially wanted to hang out with me a whole week. Then she cut that down to one night, claimed I didn't want to share a lot. I was not happy to be with her after she had said I can't have a child, that's probably why she cut down our time, started scheduling other stuff, was busy all the time, she was talking about how it's maybe better to come to my home just a few hours, so that means only fück and nothing else. This is her last week in my country and I work every day. She wants to meet me a few hours between my sleep and my night shift work, so as I said she went from wanting to do a lot of stuff with me to only fücking a few times, that's kind of insulting too, like I'm just good enough for fücking but she doesn't want to spend any additional time with me. Last night I had a cold so I quit work earlier. I might not work today so my cold goes away completely, I'm feeling 90% good though but if I work it might come back. So today there might be more time than there would normally have been. The last few days she's messaged me a little more, probably because she wants to come here and fück once or maybe more, before she leaves the country.

Or should I take revenge on her? I feel like I want to. What's the best way to take revenge on her?

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Or should I take revenge on her? I feel like I want to. What's the best way to take revenge on her?

Please get help with your mental health Ed, for your sake. I'm being serious with this post.

Your posts frequently come across like you're turning into Travis Bickle (and if you haven't seen Taxi Driver and go see it now, I assure you that he's not the good guy).

Obsessing over 30 minute text delays. No social life. Sitting in a restaurant getting internally angry at hot women across the room just because they're hot. A desire for "revenge" against a woman just because she said something insulting over a week ago.

This is not normal psychology. It's the same twisted and bitter mentally f*cked up men who become killers or rapists often have in their early days, I'm not even joking here.

I'm not saying you have that kind of evil inside you, but I am saying you need to start talking to a therapist about these feelings before you spiral down a pathway to bitterness you can't ever recover from.

You need to do that if you want any level of success with women, and you need to do it if you ever want to be a healthy, balanced person.

Good luck.

 

[edegoge]

Please get help with your mental health Ed, for your sake. I'm being serious with this post.

Your posts frequently come across like you're turning into Travis Bickle (and if you haven't seen Taxi Driver and go see it now, I assure you that he's not the good guy).

Obsessing over 30 minute text delays. No social life. Sitting in a restaurant getting internally angry at hot women across the room just because they're hot. A desire for "revenge" against a woman just because she said something insulting over a week ago.

This is not normal psychology. It's the same twisted and bitter mentality f*cked up men who become killers or rapists often have in their early days, I'm not even joking here.

I'm not saying you have that kind of evil inside you, but I am saying you need to start talking to a therapist about these feelings before you spiral down a pathway to bitterness you can't ever recover from.

You need to do that if you want any level of success with women, and you need to do it if you ever want to be a healthy, balanced person.

Good luck.

Nah, therapists and the like are bullsh1t. Should I fück her or not?

 

[ShayB]

Nah, therapists and the like are bullsh1t. Should I fück her or not?

No

 

[edegoge]

Might be a mild form of revenge to not reply if she texts me again.

 

[edegoge]

It's a shame because on the first date she really seemed to like me. Well not very much after we came to my home, but before that. Although part of why she was a bit stiff in my home might be that maybe she has a rule to not have sex on the first date, which seems kind of stupid when she was so easy to fück on the second date. On the second date I drove her to a parking lot and we sat in the back seat and she eagerly pulled out her tits and stuff, then drove to my home and fücked.

 

[edegoge]

Well, let's pretend it's not me. What if it were YOU and a woman had done all these things, laughed at you telling you you can't have a child etc. Would you fück her?

 

[Visionist]

She sounds incredibly normal to me. You sure she's half the things you've been calling her on here?

I still don't see how anybody can be so offended at being told they can't have kids. Fùck a girl telling me I can't have kids is pushing all the right buttons as far as I'm concerned.

 

[ShayB]

Well, let's pretend it's not me. What if it were YOU and a woman had done all these things, laughed at you telling you you can't have a child etc. Would you fück her?

No.

 

[edegoge]

a girl telling me I can't have kids is pushing all the right buttons as far as I'm concerned.

What do you mean?