what should I do???

[flyjesta81]

Ok guys I met this girl and all it seemed like she was into me.
I went to go see her and she was kinda shy but ohwell.
well I asked her out on a date for tues and she said she needs to
think about it? should I next her I told her dont think 2 long
so if she has 2 think about it her interest level aint high huh?
so give me some feedback please

 

[Nosferatu]

Her interest level is just not there. You should have asked her why she had to think about it and you should have informed her that you don't operate that way. You have not time to wast, so you want her answer now. That boldness might have been just the thing that would have raised her IL. But as it stands now:

Next!

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

Originally posted by flyjesta81
Ok guys I met this girl and all it seemed like she was into me.
I went to go see her and she was kinda shy but ohwell.
well I asked her out on a date for tues and she said she needs to
think about it? should I next her I told her dont think 2 long
so if she has 2 think about it her interest level aint high huh?
so give me some feedback please

I know almost everyone place so much on IL and to a certain extent, we should. But sometimes we come off as overbearing to a female just because we are not getting the "answers" we want to hear. You have to remeber that a woman get approach all the time and she has to weigh her options of what guy will get the chance to date her. I know it BS but flip the script and you will understand what I'm talking about.

I believe DeepBlue sum it up pretty well about the information you are looking for. Give her time to think about it. Wait a full week before you ask her out again.

If she states the same thing then tell her it was nice knowing nothing about her.

 

[dionysius_d]

She has to think about what???

Her finances? She's afraid of a gang rape? She's afraid you will propose to her? She wants to cosult her vedantic astrology chart first?

 

[GirlCrazy]

Sounds like low interest level to me.

Rather than nexting her, I'd let her next herself. Take the offer away and leave it up to her to make a counter offer. She probably won't, but either way it won't cost you any time.

Say something like "That's cool take all the time you need. Some friends wanted to take me out rock climbing tuesday anyway so gimme a call some time and we'll hook up."

Just assume you'll never hear from her and move on. Hey, maybe you'll be pleasantly surprised.

 

[flyjesta81]

yea I guess thats right, I should let her next herself. well guys thanks for the info.

 

[Starman]

If she is genuinly shy..and doesnt date much..give her some slack...but if she is a arrogant little byatch..who said it all snooty..say

"Whats there to think about? you can either go out and have a great time with a Pimp, or you could stay home and watch sex in the city whilst eating your 2nd gallon of ice cream?

 

[T-4ze]

I was in the same situation kinda...the chick I was involved with wasn't so shy, we flirted with each other a lot, I got her digits and later on asked her out, she replied "Hmm we'll see, depends if I have any other plans." Hah! That's a good one, I dropped her like a dead stone for a week, and surely enough she's under my wing begging for my company.

 

[flyjesta81]

Hey well she is really shy and has never had a bf and only have kissed a few guys thats what she says. but I nexted her so even if she says yes! I am gonna tell her she shouldn't have thought 2 much about it. I was feeling down but I went to the mall and Texas has this tax free weekend before school starts there where girls all over the place well I ran into a girl from college
and I got her # so I think I will go for this one I met the heck with that other chic