Hello everyone,
I will try to discribe my situation as short as possible.
I met this girl (lets call her Nat) a few years ago, back then she broke my heart really bad, I was so inexperienced that I threw myself all the way from the begining and after that she just dumped me, after that we never really talked or got together.
Last year we started to get together again beacuse of a few common friends, at first I wasn't paying too much atention to her but after a while I realized that I still liked her. Almost a year passed and I didn't make a move, in the meantime I noticed that she was real nice with me but when I asked her best friend about it she told me that Nat was being this nice because the way she treated me in the past. After this I said to myself "forget about her"
But everytime we got together I was liking her more and more, until I decided to aproach her. I knew that she didn't liked me in the same way I did because of her friend told me, but anyway i as decided to find out if we had any chance together.
So I began to call her and show interest in her as a "friend" and to my surprise found out that we have so much things in common, and that we really have a good time everytime we hang together or talk on the phone.
After a couple of weeks I made my move and gave her a little kiss on the lips. She was surprissed and told me that was speechless, after this I left and told her to think on what to tell me and left her house. After that she told me that she didn't see me as a boyfriend but didn't discard the posibility of a future romantic relationship, but she told me that in this moment she isn't thinking about getting involved with any guy, that she needed time to "find herself" and was at a "crossroad" point in her life, etc, etc, etc...
After this i thought it was over but she began to call me even more, we began to speak on the phone for longer time and she also told me very personal things that she never told me before, in other words we became very intimate friends.
Ok, the problem.... I really like her and is very hard for me to see her as a "friend", she says she doesn't want to loose my firendship but at the same time I feel really weird being around her as a "friend" and wanting to hold her kiss her, you all know..the whole stuff... I haven't spoke to her for a few days and have avoided her calls.
Do you think I should stick around and maybe she will go for me or i should forget her?
Thank you for reading all this, I hope this story isn't too long.
Any ideas will be more than welcome.
Mystic03
I will try to discribe my situation as short as possible.
I met this girl (lets call her Nat) a few years ago, back then she broke my heart really bad, I was so inexperienced that I threw myself all the way from the begining and after that she just dumped me, after that we never really talked or got together.
Last year we started to get together again beacuse of a few common friends, at first I wasn't paying too much atention to her but after a while I realized that I still liked her. Almost a year passed and I didn't make a move, in the meantime I noticed that she was real nice with me but when I asked her best friend about it she told me that Nat was being this nice because the way she treated me in the past. After this I said to myself "forget about her"
But everytime we got together I was liking her more and more, until I decided to aproach her. I knew that she didn't liked me in the same way I did because of her friend told me, but anyway i as decided to find out if we had any chance together.
So I began to call her and show interest in her as a "friend" and to my surprise found out that we have so much things in common, and that we really have a good time everytime we hang together or talk on the phone.
After a couple of weeks I made my move and gave her a little kiss on the lips. She was surprissed and told me that was speechless, after this I left and told her to think on what to tell me and left her house. After that she told me that she didn't see me as a boyfriend but didn't discard the posibility of a future romantic relationship, but she told me that in this moment she isn't thinking about getting involved with any guy, that she needed time to "find herself" and was at a "crossroad" point in her life, etc, etc, etc...
After this i thought it was over but she began to call me even more, we began to speak on the phone for longer time and she also told me very personal things that she never told me before, in other words we became very intimate friends.
Ok, the problem.... I really like her and is very hard for me to see her as a "friend", she says she doesn't want to loose my firendship but at the same time I feel really weird being around her as a "friend" and wanting to hold her kiss her, you all know..the whole stuff... I haven't spoke to her for a few days and have avoided her calls.
Do you think I should stick around and maybe she will go for me or i should forget her?
Thank you for reading all this, I hope this story isn't too long.
Any ideas will be more than welcome.
Mystic03
